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"Unless above himself he can
Erect himself, how poor a thing is man"--DANIEL.
"Character is moral order seen through the medium, of an
individual nature.... Men of character are the conscience of
the society to which they belong."--EMERSON.
"The prosperity of a country depends, not on the abundance of its
revenues, nor on the strength of its fortifications, nor on the
beauty of its public buildings; but it consists in the number of
its cultivated citizens, in its men of education, enlightenment,
and character; here are to be found its true interest, its chief
strength, its real power."--MARTIN LUTHER.
Character is one of the greatest motive powers in the world. In
its noblest embodiments, it exemplifies human nature in its highest
forms, for it exhibits man at his best.
Men of genuine excellence, in every station of life--men of
industry, of integrity, of high principle, of sterling honesty of
purpose--command the spontaneous homage of mankind. It is natural to
believe in such men, to have confidence in them, and to imitate them.
All that is good in the world is upheld by them, and without their
presence in it the world would not be worth living in.
Although genius always commands admiration, character most secures
respect. The former is more the product of brain-power, the latter
of heart-power; and in the long run it is the heart that rules in
life. Men of genius stand to society in the relation of its
intellect, as men of character of its conscience; and while the former
are admired, the latter are followed.
Great men are always exceptional men; and greatness itself is but
comparative. Indeed, the range of most men in life is so limited,
that very few have the opportunity of being great. But each man can
act his part honestly and honourably, and to the best of his ability.
He can use his gifts, and not abuse them. He can strive to make the
best of life. He can be true, just, honest, and faithful, even in
small things. In a word, he can do his Duty in that sphere in which
Providence has placed him.
Commonplace though it may appear, this doing of one's Duty
embodies the highest ideal of life and character. There may be
nothing heroic about it; but the common lot of men is not heroic. And
though the abiding sense of Duty upholds man in his highest attitudes,
it also equally sustains him in the transaction of the ordinary
affairs of everyday existence. Man's life is "centred in the sphere
of common duties." The most influential of all the virtues are those
which are the most in request for daily use. They wear the best, and
last the longest. Superfine virtues, which are above the standard of
common men, may only be sources of temptation and danger. Burke has
truly said that "the human system which rests for its basis on the
heroic virtues is sure to have a superstructure of weakness or of
profligacy."
When Dr. Abbot, afterwards Archbishop of Canterbury, drew the
character of his deceased friend Thomas Sackville, (1) he did not
dwell upon his merits as a statesman, or his genius as a poet, but
upon his virtues as a man in relation to the ordinary duties of life.
"How many rare things were in him!" said he. "Who more loving unto
his wife? Who more kind unto his children?--Who more fast unto his
friend?--Who more moderate unto his enemy?--Who more true to his
word?" Indeed, we can always better understand and appreciate a man's
real character by the manner in which he conducts himself towards
those who are the most nearly related to him, and by his transaction
of the seemingly commonplace details of daily duty, than by his public
exhibition of himself as an author, an orator, or a statesman.
At the same time, while Duty, for the most part, applies to the
conduct of affairs in common life by the average of common men, it is
also a sustaining power to men of the very highest standard of
character. They may not have either money, or property, or learning,
or power; and yet they may be strong in heart and rich in
spirit--honest, truthful, dutiful. And whoever strives to do his duty
faithfully is fulfilling the purpose for which he was created, and
building up in himself the principles of a manly character. There are
many persons of whom it may be said that they have no other possession
in the world but their character, and yet they stand as firmly upon it
as any crowned king.
Intellectual culture has no necessary relation to purity or
excellence of character. In the New Testament, appeals are
constantly made to the heart of man and to "the spirit we are of,"
whilst allusions to the intellect are of very rare occurrence. "A
handful of good life," says George Herbert, "is worth a bushel of
learning." Not that learning is to be despised, but that it must be
allied to goodness. Intellectual capacity is sometimes found
associated with the meanest moral character with abject servility to
those in high places, and arrogance to those of low estate. A man may
be accomplished in art, literature, and science, and yet, in honesty,
virtue, truthfulness, and the spirit of duty, be entitled to take rank
after many a poor and illiterate peasant.
"You insist," wrote Perthes to a friend, "on respect for learned
men. I say, Amen! But, at the same time, don't forget that
largeness of mind, depth of thought, appreciation of the lofty,
experience of the world, delicacy of manner, tact and energy in
action, love of truth, honesty, and amiability--that all these may be
wanting in a man who may yet be very learned." (2)
When some one, in Sir Walter Scott's hearing, made a remark as to
the value of literary talents and accomplishments, as if they were
above all things to be esteemed and honoured, he observed, "God help
us! what a poor world this would be if that were the true doctrine! I
have read books enough, and observed and conversed with enough of
eminent and splendidly-cultured minds, too, in my time; but I assure
you, I have heard higher sentiments from the lips of poor UNEDUCATED
men and women, when exerting the spirit of severe yet gentle heroism
under difficulties and afflictions, or speaking their simple thoughts
as to circumstances in the lot of friends and neighbours, than I ever
yet met with out of the Bible. We shall never learn to feel and
respect our real calling and destiny, unless we have taught ourselves
to consider everything as moonshine, compared with the education of
the heart." (3)
Still less has wealth any necessary connection with elevation of
character. On the contrary, it is much more frequently the cause of
its corruption and degradation. Wealth and corruption, luxury and
vice, have very close affinities to each other. Wealth, in the hands
of men of weak purpose, of deficient self-control, or of ill-regulated
passions, is only a temptation and a snare--the source, it may be, of
infinite mischief to themselves, and often to others.
On the contrary, a condition of comparative poverty is compatible
with character in its highest form. A man may possess only his
industry, his frugality, his integrity, and yet stand high in the
rank of true manhood. The advice which Burns's father gave him was
the best:
"He bade me act a manly part, though I had ne'er a farthing, For
without an honest manly heart no man was worth regarding."
One of the purest and noblest characters the writer ever knew was
a labouring man in a northern county, who brought up his family
respectably on an income never amounting to more than ten shillings a
week. Though possessed of only the rudiments of common education,
obtained at an ordinary parish school, he was a man full of wisdom and
thoughtfulness. His library consisted of the Bible, 'Flavel,' and
'Boston'--books which, excepting the first, probably few readers have
ever heard of. This good man might have sat for the portrait of
Wordsworth's well-known 'Wanderer.' When he had lived his modest life
of work and worship, and finally went to his rest, he left behind him
a reputation for practical wisdom, for genuine goodness, and for
helpfulness in every good work, which greater and richer men might
have envied.
When Luther died, he left behind him, as set forth in his will,
"no ready money, no treasure of coin of any description." He was so
poor at one part of his life, that he was under the necessity of
earning his bread by turning, gardening, and clockmaking. Yet, at the
very time when he was thus working with his hands, he was moulding the
character of his country; and he was morally stronger, and vastly more
honoured and followed, than all the princes of Germany.
Character is property. It is the noblest of possessions. It is
an estate in the general goodwill and respect of men; and they who
invest in it--though they may not become rich in this world's
goods--will find their reward in esteem and reputation fairly and
honourably won. And it is right that in life good qualities should
tell--that industry, virtue, and goodness should rank the highest--and
that the really best men should be foremost.
Simple honesty of purpose in a man goes a long way in life, if
founded on a just estimate of himself and a steady obedience to the
rule he knows and feels to be right. It holds a man straight, gives
him strength and sustenance, and forms a mainspring of vigorous
action. 'No man," once said Sir Benjamin Rudyard, "is bound to be
rich or great,--no, nor to be wise; but every man is bound to be
honest." (4)
But the purpose, besides being honest, must be inspired by sound
principles, and pursued with undeviating adherence to truth,
integrity, and uprightness. Without principles, a man is like a ship
without rudder or compass, left to drift hither and thither with every
wind that blows. He is as one without law, or rule, or order, or
government. "Moral principles," says Hume, "are social and universal.
They form, in a manner, the PARTY of humankind against vice and
disorder, its common enemy."
Epictetus once received a visit from a certain magnificent orator
going to Rome on a lawsuit, who wished to learn from the stoic
something of his philosophy. Epictetus received his visitor coolly,
not believing in his sincerity. "You will only criticise my style,"
said he; "not really wishing to learn principles."-- "Well, but," said
the orator, "if I attend to that sort of thing; I shall be a mere
pauper, like you, with no plate, nor equipage, nor land."--"I don't
WANT such things," replied Epictetus; "and besides, you are poorer
than I am, after all. Patron or no patron, what care I? You DO care.
I am richer than you. I don't care what Caesar thinks of me. I
flatter no one. This is what I have, instead of your gold and silver
plate. You have silver vessels, but earthenware reasons, principles,
appetites. My mind to me a kingdom is, and it furnishes me with
abundant and happy occupation in lieu of your restless idleness. All
your possessions seem small to you; mine seem great to me. Your
desire is insatiate--mine is satisfied." (5)
Talent is by no means rare in the world; nor is even genius. But
can the talent be trusted?--can the genius? Not unless based on
truthfulness--on veracity. It is this quality more than any other
that commands the esteem and respect, and secures the confidence of
others. Truthfulness is at the foundation of all personal excellence.
It exhibits itself in conduct. It is rectitude--truth in action, and
shines through every word and deed. It means reliableness, and
convinces other men that it can be trusted. And a man is already of
consequence in the world when it is known that he can be relied
on,--that when he says he knows a thing, he does know it,--that when
be says he will do a thing, he can do, and does it. Thus reliableness
becomes a passport to the general esteem and confidence of mankind.
In the affairs of life or of business, it is not intellect that
tells so much as character,--not brains so much as heart,--not genius
so much as self-control, patience, and discipline, regulated by
judgment. Hence there is no better provision for the uses of either
private or public life, than a fair share of ordinary good sense
guided by rectitude. Good sense, disciplined by experience and
inspired by goodness, issues in practical wisdom. Indeed, goodness in
a measure implies wisdom--the highest wisdom--the union of the worldly
with the spiritual. "The correspondences of wisdom and goodness," says
Sir Henry Taylor, "are manifold; and that they will accompany each
other is to be inferred, not only because men's wisdom makes them
good, but because their goodness makes them wise." (6)
It is because of this controlling power of character in life that
we often see men exercise an amount of influence apparently out of
all proportion to their intellectual endowments. They appear to act
by means of some latent power, some reserved force, which acts
secretly, by mere presence. As Burke said of a powerful nobleman of
the last century, "his virtues were his means." The secret is, that
the aims of such men are felt to be pure and noble, and they act upon
others with a constraining power.
Though the reputation of men of genuine character may be of slow
growth, their true qualities cannot be wholly concealed. They may be
misrepresented by some, and misunderstood by others; misfortune and
adversity may, for a time, overtake them but, with patience and
endurance, they will eventually inspire the respect and command the
confidence which they really deserve.
It has been said of Sheridan that, had he possessed reliableness
of character, he might have ruled the world; whereas, for want of it,
his splendid gifts were comparatively useless. He dazzled and amused,
but was without weight or influence in life or politics. Even the poor
pantomimist of Drury Lane felt himself his superior. Thus, when
Delpini one day pressed the manager for arrears of salary, Sheridan
sharply reproved him, telling him he had forgotten his station. "No,
indeed, Monsieur Sheridan, I have not," retorted Delpini; "I know the
difference between us perfectly well. In birth, parentage, and
education, you are superior to me; but in life, character, and
behaviour, I am superior to you."
Unlike Sheridan, Burke, his countryman, was a great man of
character. He was thirty-five before be gained a seat in Parliament,
yet he found time to carve his name deep in the political history of
England. He was a man of great gifts, and of transcendent force of
character. Yet he had a weakness, which proved a serious defect--it
was his want of temper; his genius was sacrificed to his irritability.
And without this apparently minor gift of temper, the most splendid
endowments may be comparatively valueless to their possessor.
Character is formed by a variety of minute circumstances, more or
less under the regulation and control of the individual. Not a day
passes without its discipline, whether for good or for evil. There is
no act, however trivial, but has its train of consequences, as there
is no hair so small but casts its shadow. It was a wise saying of Mrs.
Schimmelpenninck's mother, never to give way to what is little; or by
that little, however you may despise it, you will be practically
governed.
Every action, every thought, every feeling, contributes to the
education of the temper, the habits, and understanding; and exercises
an inevitable influence upon all the acts of our future life. Thus
character is undergoing constant change, for better or for
worse--either being elevated on the one hand, or degraded on the
other. "There is no fault nor folly of my life," says Mr. Ruskin,
"that does not rise up against me, and take away my joy, and shorten
my power of possession, of sight, of understanding. And every past
effort of my life, every gleam of rightness or good in it, is with me
now, to help me in my grasp of this art and its vision." (7)
The mechanical law, that action and reaction are equal, holds true
also in morals. Good deeds act and react on the doers of them; and
so do evil. Not only so: they produce like effects, by the influence
of example, on those who are the subjects of them. But man is not the
creature, so much as he is the creator, of circumstances: (8) and, by
the exercise of his freewill, he can direct his actions so that they
shall be productive of good rather than evil. "Nothing can work me
damage but myself," said St. Bernard; "the harm that I sustain I carry
about with me; and I am never a real sufferer but by my own fault."
The best sort of character, however, cannot be formed without
effort. There needs the exercise of constant self-watchfulness,
self-discipline, and self-control. There may be much faltering,
stumbling, and temporary defeat; difficulties and temptations
manifold to be battled with and overcome; but if the spirit be strong
and the heart be upright, no one need despair of ultimate success.
The very effort to advance--to arrive at a higher standard of
character than we have reached--is inspiring and invigorating; and
even though we may fall short of it, we cannot fail to be improved by
every, honest effort made in an upward direction.
And with the light of great examples to guide us--representatives
of humanity in its best forms--every one is not only justified, but
bound in duty, to aim at reaching the highest standard of character:
not to become the richest in means, but in spirit; not the greatest in
worldly position, but in true honour; not the most intellectual, but
the most virtuous; not the most powerful and influential, but the most
truthful, upright, and honest.
It was very characteristic of the late Prince Consort--a man
himself of the purest mind, who powerfully impressed and influenced
others by the sheer force of his own benevolent nature --when drawing
up the conditions of the annual prize to be given by Her Majesty at
Wellington College, to determine that it should be awarded, not to the
cleverest boy, nor to the most bookish boy, nor to the most precise,
diligent, and prudent boy,--but to the noblest boy, to the boy who
should show the most promise of becoming a large-hearted, high-motived
man. (9)
Character exhibits itself in conduct, guided and inspired by
principle, integrity, and practical wisdom. In its highest form, it
is the individual will acting energetically under the influence of
religion, morality, and reason. It chooses its way considerately, and
pursues it steadfastly; esteeming duty above reputation, and the
approval of conscience more than the world's praise. While respecting
the personality of others, it preserves its own individuality and
independence; and has the courage to be morally honest, though it may
be unpopular, trusting tranquilly to time and experience for
recognition.
Although the force of example will always exercise great influence
upon the formation of character, the self-originating and sustaining
force of one's own spirit must be the mainstay. This alone can hold
up the life, and give individual independence and energy. "Unless man
can erect himself above himself," said Daniel, a poet of the
Elizabethan era, "how poor a thing is man!" Without a certain degree
of practical efficient force--compounded of will, which is the root,
and wisdom, which is the stem of character--life will be indefinite
and purposeless--like a body of stagnant water, instead of a running
stream doing useful work and keeping the machinery of a district in
motion.
When the elements of character are brought into action by
determinate will, and, influenced by high purpose, man enters upon
and courageously perseveres in the path of duty, at whatever cost of
worldly interest, he may be said to approach the summit of his being.
He then exhibits character in its most intrepid form, and embodies
the highest idea of manliness. The acts of such a man become repeated
in the life and action of others. His very words live and become
actions. Thus every word of Luther's rang through Germany like a
trumpet. As Richter said of him, "His words were half-battles." And
thus Luther's life became transfused into the life of his country, and
still lives in the character of modern Germany.
On the other hand, energy, without integrity and a soul of
goodness, may only represent the embodied principle of evil. It is
observed by Novalis, in his 'Thoughts on Morals,' that the ideal of
moral perfection has no more dangerous rival to contend with than the
ideal of the highest strength and the most energetic life, the maximum
of the barbarian--which needs only a due admixture of pride, ambition,
and selfishness, to be a perfect ideal of the devil. Amongst men of
such stamp are found the greatest scourges and devastators of the
world--those elect scoundrels whom Providence, in its inscrutable
designs, permits to fulfil their mission of destruction upon earth.
(10)
Very different is the man of energetic character inspired by a
noble spirit, whose actions are governed by rectitude, and the law of
whose life is duty. He is just and upright,--in his business
dealings, in his public action, and in his family life--justice being
as essential in the government of a home as of a nation. He will be
honest in all things--in his words and in his work. He will be
generous and merciful to his opponents, as well as to those who are
weaker than himself. It was truly said of Sheridan --who, with all
his improvidence, was generous, and never gave pain--that
"His wit in the combat, as gentle as bright, Never carried a
heart-stain away on its blade."
Such also was the character of Fox, who commanded the affection
and service of others by his uniform heartiness and sympathy. He was
a man who could always be most easily touched on the side of his
honour. Thus, the story is told of a tradesman calling upon him one
day for the payment of a promissory note which he presented. Fox was
engaged at the time in counting out gold. The tradesman asked to be
paid from the money before him. "No," said Fox, "I owe this money to
Sheridan; it is a debt of honour; if any accident happened to me, he
would have nothing to show." "Then," said the tradesman, "I change MY
debt into one of honour;" and he tore up the note. Fox was conquered
by the act: he thanked the man for his confidence, and paid him,
saying, "Then Sheridan must wait; yours is the debt of older
standing."
The man of character is conscientious. He puts his conscience
into his work, into his words, into his every action. When Cromwell
asked the Parliament for soldiers in lieu of the decayed serving-men
and tapsters who filled the Commonwealth's army, he required that they
should be men "who made some conscience of what they did;" and such
were the men of which his celebrated regiment of "Ironsides" was
composed.
The man of character is also reverential. The possession of this
quality marks the noblest, and highest type of manhood and womanhood:
reverence for things consecrated by the homage of generations--for
high objects, pure thoughts, and noble aims-- for the great men of
former times, and the highminded workers amongst our contemporaries.
Reverence is alike indispensable to the happiness of individuals, of
families, and of nations. Without it there can be no trust, no faith,
no confidence, either in man or God--neither social peace nor social
progress. For reverence is but another word for religion, which binds
men to each other, and all to God.
"The man of noble spirit," says Sir Thomas Overbury, "converts all
occurrences into experience, between which experience and his reason
there is marriage, and the issue are his actions. He moves by
affection, not for affection; he loves glory, scorns shame, and
governeth and obeyeth with one countenance, for it comes from one
consideration. Knowing reason to be no idle gift of nature, he is
the steersman of his own destiny. Truth is his goddess, and he takes
pains to get her, not to look like her. Unto the society of men he is
a sun, whose clearness directs their steps in a regular motion. He is
the wise man's friend, the example of the indifferent, the medicine of
the vicious. Thus time goeth not from him, but with him, and he feels
age more by the strength of his soul than by the weakness of his body.
Thus feels he no pain, but esteems all such things as friends, that
desire to file off his fetters, and help him out of prison." (11)
Energy of will--self-originating force--is the soul of every great
character. Where it is, there is life; where it is not, there is
faintness, helplessness, and despondency. "The strong man and the
waterfall," says the proverb, "channel their own path." The energetic
leader of noble spirit not only wins a way for himself, but carries
others with him. His every act has a personal significance,
indicating vigour, independence, and self- reliance, and unconsciously
commands respect, admiration, and homage. Such intrepidity of
character characterised Luther, Cromwell, Washington, Pitt,
Wellington, and all great leaders of men.
"I am convinced," said Mr. Gladstone, in describing the qualities
of the late Lord Palmerston in the House of Commons, shortly after
his death--"I am convinced that it was the force of will, a sense of
duty, and a determination not to give in, that enabled him to make
himself a model for all of us who yet remain and follow him, with
feeble and unequal steps, in the discharge of our duties; it was that
force of will that in point of fact did not so much struggle against
the infirmities of old age, but actually repelled them and kept them
at a distance. And one other quality there is, at least, that may be
noticed without the smallest risk of stirring in any breast a painful
emotion. It is this, that Lord Palmerston had a nature incapable of
enduring anger or any sentiment of wrath. This freedom from wrathful
sentiment was not the result of painful effort, but the spontaneous
fruit of the mind. It was a noble gift of his original nature--a gift
which beyond all others it was delightful to observe, delightful also
to remember in connection with him who has left us, and with whom we
have no longer to do, except in endeavouring to profit by his example
wherever it can lead us in the path of duty and of right, and of
bestowing on him those tributes of admiration and affection which he
deserves at our hands."
The great leader attracts to himself men of kindred character,
drawing them towards him as the loadstone draws iron. Thus, Sir John
Moore early distinguished the three brothers Napier from the crowd of
officers by whom he was surrounded, and they, on their part, repaid
him by their passionate admiration. They were captivated by his
courtesy, his bravery, and his lofty disinterestedness; and he became
the model whom they resolved to imitate, and, if possible, to emulate.
"Moore's influence," says the biographer of Sir William Napier, "had
a signal effect in forming and maturing their characters; and it is no
small glory to have been the hero of those three men, while his early
discovery of their mental and moral qualities is a proof of Moore's
own penetration and judgment of character."
There is a contagiousness in every example of energetic conduct.
The brave man is an inspiration to the weak, and compels them, as it
were, to follow him. Thus Napier relates that at the combat of Vera,
when the Spanish centre was broken and in flight, a young officer,
named Havelock, sprang forward, and, waving his hat, called upon the
Spaniards within sight to follow him. Putting spurs to his horse, he
leapt the abbatis which protected the French front, and went headlong
against them. The Spaniards were electrified; in a moment they dashed
after him, cheering for "EL CHICO BLANCO!" (the fair boy), and with
one shock they broke through the French and sent them flying downhill.
(12)
And so it is in ordinary life. The good and the great draw others
after them; they lighten and lift up all who are within reach of
their influence. They are as so many living centres of beneficent
activity. Let a man of energetic and upright character be appointed
to a position of trust and authority, and all who serve under him
become, as it were, conscious of an increase of power. When Chatham
was appointed minister, his personal influence was at once felt
through all the ramifications of office. Every sailor who served
under Nelson, and knew he was in command, shared the inspiration of
the hero.
When Washington consented to act as commander-in-chief, it was
felt as if the strength of the American forces had been more than
doubled. Many years late; in 1798, when Washington, grown old, had
withdrawn from public life and was living in retirement at Mount
Vernon, and when it seemed probable that France would declare war
against the United States, President Adams wrote to him, saying, "We
must have your name, if you will permit us to use it; there will be
more efficacy in it than in many an army." Such was the esteem in
which the great President's noble character and eminent abilities were
held by his countrymen! (13)
An incident is related by the historian of the Peninsular War,
illustrative of the personal influence exercised by a great commander
over his followers. The British army lay at Sauroren, before which
Soult was advancing, prepared to attack, in force. Wellington was
absent, and his arrival was anxiously looked for. Suddenly a single
horseman was seen riding up the mountain alone. It was the Duke, about
to join his troops. One of Campbell's Portuguese battalions first
descried him, and raised a joyful cry; then the shrill clamour, caught
up by the next regiment, soon swelled as it ran along the line into
that appalling shout which the British soldier is wont to give upon
the edge of battle, and which no enemy ever heard unmoved. Suddenly
he stopped at a conspicuous point, for he desired both armies should
know he was there, and a double spy who was present pointed out Soult,
who was so near that his features could be distinguished. Attentively
Wellington fixed his eyes on that formidable man, and, as if speaking
to himself, he said: "Yonder is a great commander; but he is cautious,
and will delay his attack to ascertain the cause of those cheers; that
will give time for the Sixth Division to arrive, and I shall beat
him"--which he did. (14)
In some cases, personal character acts by a kind of talismanic
influence, as if certain men were the organs of a sort of
supernatural force. "If I but stamp on the ground in Italy," said
Pompey, "an army will appear." At the voice of Peter the Hermit, as
described by the historian, "Europe arose, and precipitated itself
upon Asia." It was said of the Caliph Omar that his walking-stick
struck more terror into those who saw it than another man's sword.
The very names of some men are like the sound of a trumpet. When the
Douglas lay mortally wounded on the field of Otterburn, he ordered his
name to be shouted still louder than before, saying there was a
tradition in his family that a dead Douglas should win a battle. His
followers, inspired by the sound, gathered fresh courage, rallied, and
conquered; and thus, in the words of the Scottish poet:-
"The Douglas dead, his name hath won the field." (15)
There have been some men whose greatest conquests have been
achieved after they themselves were dead. "Never," says Michelet,
"was Caesar more alive, more powerful, more terrible, than when his
old and worn-out body, his withered corpse, lay pierced with blows; he
appeared then purified, redeemed,--that which he had been, despite his
many stains--the man of humanity." (16) Never did the great character
of William of Orange, surnamed the Silent, exercise greater power over
his countrymen than after his assassination at Delft by the emissary
of the Jesuits. On the very day of his murder the Estates of Holland
resolved "to maintain the good cause, with God's help, to the
uttermost, without sparing gold or blood;" and they kept their word.
The same illustration applies to all history and morals. The
career of a great man remains an enduring monument of human. energy.
The man dies and disappears; but his thoughts and acts survive, and
leave an indelible stamp upon his race. And thus the spirit of his
life is prolonged and perpetuated, moulding the thought and will, and
thereby contributing to form the character of the future. It is the
men that advance in the highest and best directions, who are the true
beacons of human progress. They are as lights set upon a hill,
illumining the moral atmosphere around them; and the light of their
spirit continues to shine upon all succeeding generations.
It is natural to admire and revere really great men. They hallow
the nation to which they belong, and lift up not only all who live in
their time, but those who live after them. Their great example
becomes the common heritage of their race; and their great deeds and
great thoughts are the most glorious of legacies to mankind. They
connect the present with the past, and help on the increasing purpose
of the future; holding aloft the standard of principle, maintaining
the dignity of human character, and filling the mind with traditions
and instincts of all that is most worthy and noble in life.
Character, embodied in thought and deed, is of the nature of
immortality. The solitary thought of a great thinker will dwell in
the minds of men for centuries until at length it works itself into
their daily life and practice. It lives on through the ages, speaking
as a voice from the dead, and influencing minds living thousands of
years apart. Thus, Moses and David and Solomon, Plato and Socrates
and Xenophon, Seneca and Cicero and Epictetus, still speak to us as
from their tombs. They still arrest the attention, and exercise an
influence upon character, though their thoughts be conveyed in
languages unspoken by them and in their time unknown. Theodore Parker
has said that a single man like Socrates was worth more to a country
than many such states as South Carolina; that if that state went out
of the world to-day, she would not have done so much for the world as
Socrates. (17)
Great workers and great thinkers are the true makers of history,
which is but continuous humanity influenced by men of character-- by
great leaders, kings, priests, philosophers, statesmen, and
patriots--the true aristocracy of man. Indeed, Mr. Carlyle has
broadly stated that Universal History is, at bottom, but the history
of Great Men. They certainly mark and designate the epochs of
national life. Their influence is active, as well as reactive.
Though their mind is, in a measure; the product of their age, the
public mind is also, to a great extent, their creation. Their
individual action identifies the cause--the institution. They think
great thoughts, cast them abroad, and the thoughts make events. Thus
the early Reformers initiated the Reformation, and with it the
liberation of modern thought. Emerson has said that every institution
is to be regarded as but the lengthened shadow of some great man: as
Islamism of Mahomet, Puritanism of Calvin, Jesuitism of Loyola,
Quakerism of Fox, Methodism of Wesley, Abolitionism of Clarkson.
Great men stamp their mind upon their age and nation--as Luther
did upon modern Germany, and Knox upon Scotland. (18) And if there be
one man more than another that stamped his mind on modern Italy, it
was Dante. During the long centuries of Italian degradation his
burning words were as a watchfire and a beacon to all true men. He
was the herald of his nation's liberty--braving persecution, exile,
and death, for the love of it. He was always the most national of the
Italian poets, the most loved, the most read. From the time of his
death all educated Italians had his best passages by heart; and the
sentiments they enshrined inspired their lives, and eventually
influenced the history of their nation. "The Italians," wrote Byron
in 1821, "talk Dante, write Dante, and think and dream Dante, at this
moment, to an excess which would be ridiculous, but that he deserves
their admiration." (19)
A succession of variously gifted men in different ages--extending
from Alfred to Albert--has in like manner contributed, by their life
and example, to shape the multiform character of England. Of these,
probably the most influential were the men of the Elizabethan and
Cromwellian, and the intermediate periods-- amongst which we find the
great names of Shakspeare, Raleigh, Burleigh, Sidney, Bacon, Milton,
Herbert, Hampden, Pym, Eliot, Vane, Cromwell, and many more--some of
them men of great force, and others of great dignity and purity of
character. The lives of such men have become part of the public life
of England, and their deeds and thoughts are regarded as among the
most cherished bequeathments from the past.
So Washington left behind him, as one of the greatest treasures of
his country, the example of a stainless life--of a great, honest,
pure, and noble character--a model for his nation to form themselves
by in all time to come. And in the case of Washington, as in so many
other great leaders of men, his greatness did not so much consist in
his intellect, his skill, and his genius, as in his honour, his
integrity, his truthfulness, his high and controlling sense of
duty--in a word, in his genuine nobility of character.
Men such as these are the true lifeblood of the country to which
they belong. They elevate and uphold it, fortify and ennoble it, and
shed a glory over it by the example of life and character which they
have bequeathed. "The names and memories of great men," says an able
writer, "are the dowry of a nation. Widowhood, overthrow, desertion,
even slavery, cannot take away from her this sacred inheritance....
Whenever national life begins to quicken.... the dead heroes rise in
the memories of men, and appear to the living to stand by in solemn
spectatorship and approval. No country can be lost which feels
herself overlooked by such glorious witnesses. They are the salt of
the earth, in death as well as in life. What they did once, their
descendants have still and always a right to do after them; and their
example lives in their country, a continual stimulant and
encouragement for him who has the soul to adopt it." (20)
But it is not great men only that have to be taken into account in
estimating the qualities of a nation, but the character that pervades
the great body of the people. When Washington Irving visited
Abbotsford, Sir Walter Scott introduced him to many of his friends and
favourites, not only amongst the neighbouring farmers, but the
labouring peasantry. "I wish to show you," said Scott, "some of our
really excellent plain Scotch people. The character of a nation is
not to be learnt from its fine folks, its fine gentlemen and ladies;
such you meet everywhere, and they are everywhere the same." While
statesmen, philosophers, and divines represent the thinking power of
society, the men who found industries and carve out new careers, as
well as the common body of working-people, from whom the national
strength and spirit are from time to time recruited, must necessarily
furnish the vital force and constitute the real backbone of every
nation.
Nations have their character to maintain as well as individuals;
and under constitutional governments--where all classes more or less
participate in the exercise of political power--the national character
will necessarily depend more upon the moral qualities of the many than
of the few. And the same qualities which determine the character of
individuals, also determine the character of nations. Unless they are
highminded, truthful, honest, virtuous, and courageous, they will be
held in light esteem by other nations, and be without weight in the
world. To have character, they must needs also be reverential,
disciplined, self- controlling, and devoted to duty. The nation that
has no higher god than pleasure, or even dollars or calico, must needs
be in a poor way. It were better to revert to Homer's gods than be
devoted to these; for the heathen deities at least imaged human
virtues, and were something to look up to.
As for institutions, however good in themselves, they will avail
but little in maintaining the standard of national character. It is
the individual men, and the spirit which actuates them, that determine
the moral standing and stability of nations. Government, in the long
run, is usually no better than the people governed. Where the mass is
sound in conscience, morals, and habit, the nation will be ruled
honestly and nobly. But where they are corrupt, self-seeking, and
dishonest in heart, bound neither by truth nor by law, the rule of
rogues and wirepullers becomes inevitable.
The only true barrier against the despotism of public opinion,
whether it be of the many or of the few, is enlightened individual
freedom and purity of personal character. Without these there can be
no vigorous manhood, no true liberty in a nation. Political rights,
however broadly framed, will not elevate a people individually
depraved. Indeed, the more complete a system of popular suffrage, and
the more perfect its protection, the more completely will the real
character of a people be reflected, as by a mirror, in their laws and
government. Political morality can never have any solid existence on
a basis of individual immorality. Even freedom, exercised by a
debased people, would come to be regarded as a nuisance, and liberty
of the press but a vent for licentiousness and moral abomination.
Nations, like individuals, derive support and strength from the
feeling that they belong to an illustrious race, that they are the
heirs of their greatness, and ought to be the perpetuators of their
glory. It is of momentous importance that a nation should have a
great past (21) to look back upon. It steadies the life of the
present, elevates and upholds it, and lightens and lifts it up, by the
memory of the great deeds, the noble sufferings, and the valorous
achievements of the men of old. The life of nations, as of men, is a
great treasury of experience, which, wisely used, issues in social
progress and improvement; or, misused, issues in dreams, delusions,
and failure. Like men, nations are purified and strengthened by
trials. Some of the most glorious chapters in their history are those
containing the record of the sufferings by means of which their
character has been developed. Love of liberty and patriotic feeling
may have done much, but trial and suffering nobly borne more than all.
A great deal of what passes by the name of patriotism in these
days consists of the merest bigotry and narrow-mindedness; exhibiting
itself in national prejudice, national conceit, amid national hatred.
It does not show itself in deeds, but in boastings--in howlings,
gesticulations, and shrieking helplessly for help--in flying flags and
singing songs--and in perpetual grinding at the hurdy-gurdy of
long-dead grievances and long- remedied wrongs. To be infested by
SUCH a patriotism as this is, perhaps, amongst the greatest curses
that can befall any country.
But as there is an ignoble, so is there a noble patriotism--the
patriotism that invigorates and elevates a country by noble work--
that does its duty truthfully and manfully--that lives an honest,
sober, and upright life, and strives to make the best use of the
opportunities for improvement that present themselves on every side;
and at the same time a patriotism that cherishes the memory and
example of the great men of old, who, by their sufferings in the cause
of religion or of freedom, have won for themselves a deathless glory,
and for their nation those privileges of free life and free
institutions of which they are the inheritors and possessors.
Nations are not to be judged by their size any more than
individuals:
"it is not growing like a tree In bulk, doth make Man better be."
For a nation to be great, it need not necessarily be big, though
bigness is often confounded with greatness. A nation may be very big
in point of territory and population and yet be devoid of true
greatness. The people of Israel were a small people, yet what a
great life they developed, and how powerful the influence they have
exercised on the destinies of mankind! Greece was not big: the entire
population of Attica was less than that of South Lancashire. Athens
was less populous than New York; and yet how great it was in art, in
literature, in philosophy, and in patriotism! (22)
But it was the fatal weakness of Athens that its citizens had no
true family or home life, while its freemen were greatly outnumbered
by its slaves. Its public men were loose, if not corrupt, in morals.
Its women, even the most accomplished, were unchaste. Hence its fall
became inevitable, and was even more sudden than its rise.
In like manner the decline and fall of Rome was attributable to
the general corruption of its people, and to their engrossing love of
pleasure and idleness--work, in the later days of Rome, being regarded
only as fit for slaves. Its citizens ceased to pride themselves on
the virtues of character of their great forefathers; and the empire
fell because it did not deserve to live. And so the nations that are
idle and luxurious--that "will rather lose a pound of blood," as old
Burton says, "in a single combat, than a drop of sweat in any honest
labour"--must inevitably die out, and laborious energetic nations take
their place.
When Louis XIV. asked Colbert how it was that, ruling so great and
populous a country as France, he had been unable to conquer so small
a country as Holland, the minister replied: "Because, Sire, the
greatness of a country does not depend upon the extent of its
territory, but on the character of its people. It is because of the
industry, the frugality, and the energy of the Dutch that your Majesty
has found them so difficult to overcome."
It is also related of Spinola and Richardet, the ambassadors sent
by the King of Spain to negotiate a treaty at the Hague in 1608, that
one day they saw some eight or ten persons land from a little boat,
and, sitting down upon the grass, proceed to make a meal of
bread-and-cheese and beer. "Who are those travellers asked the
ambassadors of a peasant. "These are worshipful masters, the
deputies from the States," was his reply. Spinola at once whispered
to his companion, "We must make peace: these are not men to be
conquered."
In fine, stability of institutions must depend upon stability of
character. Any number of depraved units cannot form a great nation.
The people may seem to be highly civilised, and yet be ready to fall
to pieces at first touch of adversity. Without integrity of
individual character, they can have no real strength, cohesion,
soundness. They may be rich, polite, and artistic; and yet hovering
on the brink of ruin. If living for themselves only, and with no end
but pleasure--each little self his own little god --such a nation is
doomed, and its decay is inevitable.
Where national character ceases to be upheld, a nation may be
regarded as next to lost. Where it ceases to esteem and to practise
the virtues of truthfulness, honesty, integrity, and justice, it does
not deserve to live. And when the time arrives in any country when
wealth has so corrupted, or pleasure so depraved, or faction so
infatuated the people, that honour, order, obedience, virtue, and
loyalty have seemingly become things of the past; then, amidst the
darkness, when honest men--if, haply, there be such left--are groping
about and feeling for each other's hands, their only remaining hope
will be in the restoration and elevation of Individual Character; for
by that alone can a nation be saved; and if character be irrecoverably
lost, then indeed there will be nothing left worth saving.
NOTES
(1) Sackville, Lord Buckhurst, Lord High Treasurer under Elizabeth
and James I.
(2) 'Life of Perthes,' ii. 217.
(3) Lockhart's 'Life of Scott.'
(4) Debate on the Petition of Right, A.D. 1628.
(5) The Rev. F. W. Farrer's 'Seekers after God,' p. 241.
(6) 'The Statesman,' p. 30.
(7) 'Queen of the Air,' p. 127
(8) Instead of saying that man is the creature of Circumstance, it
would be nearer the mark to say that man is the architect of
Circumstance. It is Character which builds an existence out of
Circumstance. Our strength is measured by our plastic power. From
the same materials one man builds palaces, another hovels: one
warehouses, another villas. Bricks and mortar are mortar and bricks,
until the architect can make them something else. Thus it is that in
the same family, in the same circumstances, one man rears a stately
edifice, while his brother, vacillating and incompetent, lives for
ever amid ruins: the block of granite, which was an obstacle on the
pathway of the weak, becomes a stepping-stone on the pathway of the
strong."--G. H. Lewes, LIFE OF GOETHE.
(9) Introduction to 'The Principal Speeches and Addresses of
H.R.H. the Prince Consort' (1862), pp. 39-40.
(10) Among the latest of these was Napoleon "the Great," a man of
abounding energy, but destitute of principle. He had the lowest
opinion of his fellowmen. "Men are hogs, who feed on gold," he once
said: "Well, I throw them gold, and lead them whithersoever I will."
When the Abbe de Pradt, Archbishop of Malines, was setting out on his
embassy to Poland in 1812, Napoleon's parting instruction to him was,
"Tenez bonne table et soignez les femmes," --of which Benjamin
Constant said that such an observation, addressed to a feeble priest
of sixty, shows Buonaparte's profound contempt for the human race,
without distinction of nation or sex.
(11) Condensed from Sir Thomas Overbury's 'Characters' (1614).
(12) 'History of the Peninsular War,' v. 319.--Napier mentions
another striking illustration of the influence of personal qualities
in young Edward Freer, of the same regiment (the 43rd), who, when he
fell at the age of nineteen, at the Battle of the Nivelle, had already
seen more combats and sieges than he could count years. "So slight in
person, and of such surpassing beauty, that the Spaniards often
thought him a girl disguised in man's clothing, he was yet so
vigorous, so active, so brave, that the most daring and experienced
veterans watched his looks on the field of battle, and, implicitly
following where he led, would, like children, obey his slightest sign
in the most difficult situations."
(13) When the dissolution of the Union at one time seemed
imminent, and Washington wished to retire into private life,
Jefferson wrote to him, urging his continuance in office. "The
confidence of the whole Union," he said, "centres in you. Your being
at the helm will be more than an answer to every argument which can be
used to alarm and lead the people in any quarter into violence and
secession.... There is sometimes an eminence of character on which
society has such peculiar claims as to control the predilection of the
individual for a particular walk of happiness, and restrain him to
that alone arising from the present and future benedictions of
mankind. This seems to be your condition, and the law imposed on you
by Providence in forming your character and fashioning the events on
which it was to operate; and it is to motives like these, and not to
personal anxieties of mine or others, who have no right to call on you
for sacrifices, that I appeal from your former determination, and urge
a revisal of it, on the ground of change in the aspect of
things."--Sparks' Life of Washington, i. 480.
(14) Napier's 'History of the Peninsular War,' v. 226.
(15) Sir W. Scott's 'History of Scotland,' vol. i. chap. xvi.
(16) Michelet's 'History of Rome,' p. 374.
(17) Erasmus so reverenced the character of Socrates that he said,
when he considered his life and doctrines, he was inclined to put him
in the calendar of saints, and to exclaim, "SANCTE SOCRATES, ORA PRO
NOBIS.'" (Holy Socrates, pray for us!
(18) "Honour to all the brave and true; everlasting honour to John
Knox one of the truest of the true! That, in the moment while he and
his cause, amid civil broils, in convulsion and confusion, were still
but struggling for life, he sent the schoolmaster forth to all
corners, and said, 'Let the people be taught:' this is but one, and,
and indeed, an inevitable and comparatively inconsiderable item in his
great message to men. This message, in its true compass, was, 'Let
men know that they are men created by God, responsible to God who work
in any meanest moment of time what will last through eternity...' This
great message Knox did deliver, with a man's voice and strength; and
found a people to believe him. Of such an achievement, were it to be
made once only, the results are immense. Thought, in such a country,
may change its form, but cannot go out; the country has attained
MAJORITY thought, and a certain manhood, ready for all work that man
can do, endures there.... The Scotch national character originated in
many circumstances: first of all, in the Saxon stuff there was to work
on; but next, and beyond all else except that, is the Presbyterian
Gospel of John Knox."--(Carlyle' s MISCELLANIES, iv. 118.
(19) Moore's 'Life of Byron,' 8vo. ed. p.484.--Dante was a
religious as well as a political reformer. He was a reformer three
hundred years before the Reformation, advocating the separation of the
spiritual from the civil power, and declaring the temporal government
of the Pope to be a usurpation. The following memorable words were
written over five hundred and sixty years ago, while Dante was still a
member of the Roman Catholic Church:- "Every Divine law is found in
one or other of the two Testaments; but in neither can I find that the
care of temporal matters was given to the priesthood. On the
contrary, I find that the first priests were removed from them by law,
and the later priests, by command of Christ, to His disciples."--DE
MONARCHIA, lib. iii. cap. xi.
Dante also, still clinging to 'the Church he wished to reform,'
thus anticipated the fundamental doctrine of the Reformation:-
"Before the Church are the Old and New Testament; after the Church
are traditions. It follows, then, that the authority of the Church
depends, not on traditions, but traditions on the Church."
(21) One of the last passages in the Diary of Dr. Arnold, written
the year before his death, was as follows:- "It is the misfortune of
France that her 'past' cannot be loved or respected--her future and
her present cannot be wedded to it; yet how can the present yield
fruit, or the future have promise, except their roots be fixed in the
past? The evil is infinite, but the blame rests with those who made
the past a dead thing, out of which no healthful life could be
produced."--LIFE, ii. 387-8, Ed. 1858.
(22) A public orator lately spoke with contempt of the Battle of
Marathon, because only 192 perished on the side of the Athenians,
whereas by improved mechanism and destructive chemicals, some 50,000
men or more may now be destroyed within a few hours. Yet the Battle
of Marathon, and the heroism displayed in it, will probably continue
to be remembered when the gigantic butcheries of modern times have
been forgotten.
"So build we up the being that we are,
Thus deeply drinking in the soul of things,
We shall be wise perforce." WORDSWORTH.
"The millstreams that turn the clappers of the world
arise in solitary places."--HELPS.
"In the course of a conversation with Madame Campan, Napoleon
Buonaparte remarked: 'The old systems of instruction seem to be
worth nothing; what is yet wanting in order that the people should
be properly educated?' 'MOTHERS,' replied Madame Campan. The
reply struck the Emperor. 'Yes!' said he 'here is a system of
education in one word. Be it your care, then, to train up mothers
who shall know how to educate their children.'"--AIME MARTIN.
"Lord! with what care hast Thou begirt us round!
Parents first season us. Then schoolmasters
Deliver us to laws. They send us bound
To rules of reason."--GEORGE HERBERT.
HOME is the first and most important school of character. It is
there that every human being receives his best moral training, or his
worst; for it is there that he imbibes those principles of conduct
which endure through manhood, and cease only with life.
It is a common saying that "Manners make the man;" and there is a
second, that "Mind makes the man;" but truer than either is a third,
that "Home makes the man." For the home-training includes not only
manners and mind, but character. It is mainly in the home that the
heart is opened, the habits are formed, the intellect is awakened, and
character moulded for good or for evil.
From that source, be it pure or impure, issue the principles and
maxims that govern society. Law itself is but the reflex of homes.
The tiniest bits of opinion sown in the minds of children in private
life afterwards issue forth to the world, and become its public
opinion; for nations are gathered out of nurseries, and they who hold
the leading-strings of children may even exercise a greater power than
those who wield the reins of government. (1)
It is in the order of nature that domestic life should be
preparatory to social, and that the mind and character should first
be formed in the home. There the individuals who afterwards form
society are dealt with in detail, and fashioned one by one. From the
family they enter life, and advance from boyhood to citizenship. Thus
the home may be regarded as the most influential school of
civilisation. For, after all, civilisation mainly resolves itself
into a question of individual training; and according as the
respective members of society are well or ill- trained in youth, so
will the community which they constitute be more or less humanised and
civilised.
The training of any man, even the wisest, cannot fail to be
powerfully influenced by the moral surroundings of his early years.
He comes into the world helpless, and absolutely dependent upon those
about him for nurture and culture. From the very first breath that he
draws, his education begins. When a mother once asked a clergyman
when she should begin the education of her child, then four years old,
he replied: "Madam, if you have not begun already, you have lost those
four years. From the first smile that gleams upon an infant's cheek,
your opportunity begins."
But even in this case the education had already begun; for the
child learns by simple imitation, without effort, almost through the
pores of the skin. "A figtree looking on a figtree becometh
fruitful," says the Arabian proverb. And so it is with children;
their first great instructor is example.
However apparently trivial the influences which contribute to form
the character of the child, they endure through life. The child's
character is the nucleus of the man's; all after-education is but
superposition; the form of the crystal remains the same. Thus the
saying of the poet holds true in a large degree, "The child is father
of the man;" or, as Milton puts it, "The childhood shows the man, as
morning shows the day." Those impulses to conduct which last the
longest and are rooted the deepest, always have their origin near our
birth. It is then that the germs of virtues or vices, of feelings or
sentiments, are first implanted which determine the character for
life.
The child is, as it were, laid at the gate of a new world, and
opens his eyes upon things all of which are full of novelty and
wonderment. At first it is enough for him to gaze; but by-and-by he
begins to see, to observe, to compare, to learn, to store up
impressions and ideas; and under wise guidance the progress which he
makes is really wonderful. Lord Brougham has observed that between
the ages of eighteen and thirty months, a child learns more of the
material world, of his own powers, of the nature of other bodies, and
even of his own mind and other minds, than he acquires in all the rest
of his life. The knowledge which a child accumulates, and the ideas
generated in his mind, during this period, are so important, that if
we could imagine them to be afterwards obliterated, all the learning
of a senior wrangler at Cambridge, or a first-classman at Oxford,
would be as nothing to it, and would literally not enable its object
to prolong his existence for a week.
It is in childhood that the mind is most open to impressions, and
ready to be kindled by the first spark that falls into it. Ideas are
then caught quickly and live lastingly. Thus Scott is said to have
received, his first bent towards ballad literature from his mother's
and grandmother's recitations in his hearing long before he himself
had learned to read. Childhood is like a mirror, which reflects in
after-life the images first presented to it. The first thing continues
for ever with the child. The first joy, the first sorrow, the first
success, the first failure, the first achievement, the first
misadventure, paint the foreground of his life.
All this while, too, the training of the character is in progress
--of the temper, the will, and the habits--on which so much of the
happiness of human beings in after-life depends. Although man is
endowed with a certain self-acting, self-helping power of contributing
to his own development, independent of surrounding circumstances, and
of reacting upon the life around him, the bias given to his moral
character in early life is of immense importance. Place even the
highest-minded philosopher in the midst of daily discomfort,
immorality, and vileness, and he will insensibly gravitate towards
brutality. How much more susceptible is the impressionable and
helpless child amidst such surroundings! It is not possible to rear a
kindly nature, sensitive to evil, pure in mind and heart, amidst
coarseness, discomfort, and impurity.
Thus homes, which are the nurseries of children who grow up into
men and women, will be good or bad according to the power that
governs them. Where the spirit of love and duty pervades the home
--where head and heart bear rule wisely there--where the daily life
is honest and virtuous--where the government is sensible, kind, and
loving, then may we expect from such a home an issue of healthy,
useful, and happy beings, capable, as they gain the requisite
strength, of following the footsteps of their parents, of walking
uprightly, governing themselves wisely, and contributing to the
welfare of those about them.
On the other hand, if surrounded by ignorance, coarseness, and
selfishness, they will unconsciously assume the same character, and
grow up to adult years rude, uncultivated, and all the more dangerous
to society if placed amidst the manifold temptations of what is called
civilised life. "Give your child to be educated by a slave," said an
ancient Greek, "and instead of one slave, you will then have two."
The child cannot help imitating what he sees. Everything is to
him a model--of manner, of gesture, of speech, of habit, of
character. "For the child," says Richter, "the most important era of
life is that of childhood, when he begins to colour and mould himself
by companionship with others. Every new educator effects less than
his predecessor; until at last, if we regard all life as an
educational institution, a circumnavigator of the world is less
influenced by all the nations he has seen than by his nurse." (2)
Models are therefore of every importance in moulding the nature of
the child; and if we would have fine characters, we must necessarily
present before them fine models. Now, the model most constantly
before every child's eye is the Mother.
One good mother, said George Herbert, is worth a hundred
schoolmasters. In the home she is "loadstone to all hearts, and
loadstar to all eyes." Imitation of her is constant--imitation,
which Bacon likens to "a globe of precepts." But example is far more
than precept. It is instruction in action. It is teaching without
words, often exemplifying more than tongue can teach. In the face of
bad example, the best of precepts are of but little avail. The
example is followed, not the precepts. Indeed, precept at variance
with practice is worse than useless, inasmuch as it only serves to
teach the most cowardly of vices--hypocrisy. Even children are judges
of consistency, and the lessons of the parent who says one thing and
does the opposite, are quickly seen through. The teaching of the
friar was not worth much, who preached the virtue of honesty with a
stolen goose in his sleeve.
By imitation of acts, the character becomes slowly and
imperceptibly, but at length decidedly formed. The several acts may
seem in themselves trivial; but so are the continuous acts of daily
life. Like snowflakes, they. fall unperceived; each flake added to
the pile produces no sensible change, and yet the accumulation of
snowflakes makes the avalanche. So do repeated acts, one following
another, at length become consolidated in habit, determine the action
of the human being for good or for evil, and, in a word, form the
character.
It is because the mother, far more than the father, influences the
action and conduct of the child, that her good example is of so much
greater importance in the home. It is easy to understand how this
should be so. The home is the woman's domain--her kingdom, where she
exercises entire control. Her power over the little subjects she
rules there is absolute. They look up to her for everything. She is
the example and model constantly before their eyes, whom they
unconsciously observe and imitate.
Cowley, speaking of the influence of early example, and ideas
early implanted in the mind, compares them to letters cut in the bark
of a young tree, which grow and widen with age. The impressions then
made, howsoever slight they may seem, are never effaced. The ideas
then implanted in the mind are like seeds dropped into the ground,
which lie there and germinate for a time, afterwards springing up in
acts and thoughts and habits. Thus the mother lives again in her
children. They unconsciously mould themselves after her manner, her
speech, her conduct, and her method of life. Her habits become
theirs; and her character is visibly repeated in them.
This maternal love is the visible providence of our race. Its
influence is constant and universal. It begins with the education of
the human being at the out-start of life, and is prolonged by virtue
of the powerful influence which every good mother exercises over her
children through life. When launched into the world, each to take
part in its labours, anxieties, and trials, they still turn to their
mother for consolation, if not for counsel, in their time of trouble
and difficulty. The pure and good thoughts she has implanted in their
minds when children, continue to grow up into good acts, long after
she is dead; and when there is nothing but a memory of her left, her
children rise up and call her blessed.
It is not saying too much to aver that the happiness or misery,
the enlightenment or ignorance, the civilisation or barbarism of the
world, depends in a very high degree upon the exercise of woman's
power within her special kingdom of home. Indeed, Emerson says,
broadly and truly, that "a sufficient measure of civilisation is the
influence of good women." Posterity may be said to lie before us in
the person of the child in the mother's lap. What that child will
eventually become, mainly depends upon the training and example which
he has received from his first and most influential educator.
Woman, above all other educators, educates humanly. Man is the
brain, but woman is the heart of humanity; he its judgment, she its
feeling; he its strength, she its grace, ornament, and solace. Even
the understanding of the best woman seems to work mainly through her
affections. And thus, though man may direct the intellect, woman
cultivates the feelings, which mainly determine the character. While
he fills the memory, she occupies the heart. She makes us love what he
can only make us believe, and it is chiefly through her that we are
enabled to arrive at virtue.
The respective influences of the father and the mother on the
training and development of character, are remarkably illustrated in
the life of St. Augustine. While Augustine's father, a poor freeman
of Thagaste, proud of his son's abilities, endeavoured to furnish his
mind with the highest learning of the schools, and was extolled by his
neighbours for the sacrifices he made with that object "beyond the
ability of his means"--his mother Monica, on the other hand, sought to
lead her son's mind in the direction of the highest good, and with
pious care counselled him, entreated him, advised him to chastity,
and, amidst much anguish and tribulation, because of his wicked life,
never ceased to pray for him until her prayers were heard and
answered. Thus her love at last triumphed, and the patience and
goodness of the mother were rewarded, not only by the conversion of
her gifted son, but also of her husband. Later in life, and after her
husband's death, Monica, drawn by her affection, followed her son to
Milan, to watch over him; and there she died, when he was in his
thirty- third year. But it was in the earlier period of his life that
her example and instruction made the deepest impression upon his mind,
and determined his future character.
There are many similar instances of early impressions made upon a
child's mind, springing up into good acts late in life, after an
intervening period of selfishness and vice. Parents may do all that
they can to develope an upright and virtuous character in their
children, and apparently in vain. It seems like bread cast upon the
waters and lost. And yet sometimes it happens that long after the
parents have gone to their Rest--it may be twenty years or more--the
good precept, the good example set before their sons and daughters in
childhood, at length springs up and bears fruit.
One of the most remarkable of such instances was that of the
Reverend John Newton of Olney, the friend of Cowper the poet. It was
long subsequent to the death of both his parents, and after leading a
vicious life as a youth and as a seaman, that he became suddenly
awakened to a sense of his depravity; and then it was that the lessons
which his mother had given him when a child sprang up vividly in his
memory. Her voice came to him as it were from the dead, and led him
gently back to virtue and goodness.
Another instance is that of John Randolph, the American statesman,
who once said: "I should have been an atheist if it had not been for
one recollection--and that was the memory of the time when my departed
mother used to take my little hand in hers, and cause me on my knees
to say, 'Our Father who art in heaven!'"
But such instance must, on the whole, be regarded as exceptional.
As the character is biassed in early life, so it generally remains,
gradually assuming its permanent form as manhood is reached. "Live as
long as you may," said Southey, "the first twenty years are the
longest half of your life," and they are by far the most pregnant in
consequences. When the worn-out slanderer and voluptuary, Dr. Wolcot,
lay on his deathbed, one of his friends asked if he could do anything
to gratify him. "Yes," said the dying man, eagerly, "give me back my
youth." Give him but that, and he would repent--he would reform. But
it was all too late! His life had become bound and enthralled by the
chains of habit.' (3)
Gretry, the musical composer, thought so highly of the importance
of woman as an educator of character, that he described a good mother
as "Nature's CHEF-D'OEUVRE." And he was right: for good mothers, far
more than fathers, tend to the perpetual renovation of mankind,
creating, as they do, the moral atmosphere of the home, which is the
nutriment of man's moral being, as the physical atmosphere is of his
corporeal frame. By good temper, suavity, and kindness, directed by
intelligence, woman surrounds the indwellers with a pervading
atmosphere of cheerfulness, contentment, and peace, suitable for the
growth of the purest as of the manliest natures.
The poorest dwelling, presided over by a virtuous, thrifty,
cheerful, and cleanly woman, may thus be the abode of comfort,
virtue, and happiness; it may be the scene of every ennobling
relation in family life; it may be endeared to a man by many
delightful associations; furnishing a sanctuary for the heart, a
refuge from the storms of life, a sweet resting-place after labour, a
consolation in misfortune, a pride in prosperity, and a joy at all
times.
The good home is thus the best of schools, not only in youth but
in age. There young and old best learn cheerfulness, patience,
self-control, and the spirit of service and of duty. Izaak Walton,
speaking of George Herbert's mother, says she governed her family with
judicious care, not rigidly nor sourly, "but with such a sweetness and
compliance with the recreations and pleasures of youth, as did incline
them to spend much of their time in her company, which was to her
great content."
The home is the true school of courtesy, of which woman is always
the best practical instructor. "Without woman," says the Provencal
proverb, "men were but ill-licked cubs." Philanthropy radiates from
the home as from a centre. "To love the little platoon we belong to
in society," said Burke, "is the germ of all public affections." The
wisest and the best have not been ashamed to own it to be their
greatest joy and happiness to sit "behind the heads of children" in
the inviolable circle of home. A life of purity and duty there is not
the least effectual preparative for a life of public work and duty;
and the man who loves his home will not the less fondly love and serve
his country. But while homes, which are the nurseries of character,
may be the best of schools, they may also be the worst. Between
childhood and manhood how incalculable is the mischief which ignorance
in the home has the power to cause! Between the drawing of the first
breath and the last, how vast is the moral suffering and disease
occasioned by incompetent mothers and nurses! Commit a child to the
care of a worthless ignorant woman, and no culture in after- life will
remedy the evil you have done. Let the mother be idle, vicious, and a
slattern; let her home be pervaded by cavilling, petulance, and
discontent, and it will become a dwelling of misery --a place to fly
from, rather than to fly to; and the children whose misfortune it is
to be brought up there, will be morally dwarfed and deformed--the
cause of misery to themselves as well as to others.
Napoleon Buonaparte was accustomed to say that "the future good or
bad conduct of a child depended entirely on the mother." He himself
attributed his rise in life in a great measure to the training of his
will, his energy, and his self-control, by his mother at home.
"Nobody had any command over him," says one of his biographers,
"except his mother, who found means, by a mixture of tenderness,
severity, and justice, to make him love, respect, and obey her: from
her he learnt the virtue of obedience."
A curious illustration of the dependence of the character of
children on that of the mother incidentally occurs in one of Mr.
Tufnell's school reports. The truth, he observes, is so well
established that it has even been made subservient to mercantile
calculation. "I was informed," he says, "in a large factory, where
many children were employed, that the managers before they engaged a
boy always inquired into the mother's character, and if that was
satisfactory they were tolerably certain that her children would
conduct themselves creditably. NO ATTENTION WAS PAID TO THE CHARACTER
OF THE FATHER." (4)
It has also been observed that in cases where the father has
turned out badly--become a drunkard, and "gone to the dogs"--
provided the mother is prudent and sensible, the family will be kept
together, and the children probably make their way honourably in life;
whereas in cases of the opposite sort, where the mother turns out
badly, no matter how well-conducted the father may be, the instances
of after-success in life on the part of the children are comparatively
rare.
The greater part of the influence exercised by women on the
formation of character necessarily remains unknown. They accomplish
their best work in the quiet seclusion of the home and the family, by
sustained effort and patient perseverance in the path of duty. Their
greatest triumphs, because private and domestic, are rarely recorded;
and it is not often, even in the biographies of distinguished men,
that we hear of the share which their mothers have had in the
formation of their character, and in giving them a bias towards
goodness. Yet are they not on that account without their reward. The
influence they have exercised, though unrecorded, lives after them,
and goes on propagating itself in consequences for ever.
We do not often hear of great women, as we do of great men. It is
of good women that we mostly hear; and it is probable that by
determining the character of men and women for good, they are doing
even greater work than if they were to paint great pictures, write
great books, or compose great operas. "It is quite true," said Joseph
de Maistre, "that women have produced no CHEFS- DOEUVRE. They have
written no 'Iliad,' nor 'Jerusalem Delivered,' nor 'Hamlet,' nor
'Phaedre,' nor 'Paradise Lost,' nor 'Tartuffe;' they have designed no
Church of St. Peter's, composed no 'Messiah,' carved no 'Apollo
Belvidere,' painted no 'Last Judgment;' they have invented neither
algebra, nor telescopes, nor steam-engines; but they have done
something far greater and better than all this, for it is at their
knees that upright and virtuous men and women have been trained--the
most excellent productions in the world."
De Maistre, in his letters and writings, speaks of his own mother
with immense love and reverence. Her noble character made all other
women venerable in his eyes. He described her as his "sublime
mother"--"an angel to whom God had lent a body for a brief season."
To her he attributed the bent of his character, and all his bias
towards good; and when he had grown to mature years, while acting as
ambassador at the Court of St. Petersburg, he referred to her noble
example and precepts as the ruling influence in his life.
One of the most charming features in the character of Samuel
Johnson, notwithstanding his rough and shaggy exterior, was the
tenderness with which he invariably spoke of his mother (5)--a woman
of strong understanding, who firmly implanted in his mind, as he
himself acknowledges, his first impressions of religion. He was
accustomed, even in the time of his greatest difficulties, to
contribute largely, out of his slender means, to her comfort; and one
of his last acts of filial duty was to write 'Rasselas' for the
purpose of paying her little debts and defraying her funeral charges.
George Washington was only eleven years of age--the eldest of five
children--when his father died, leaving his mother a widow. She was a
woman of rare excellence--full of resources, a good woman of business,
an excellent manager, and possessed of much strength of character.
She had her children to educate and bring up, a large household to
govern, and extensive estates to manage, all of which she accomplished
with complete success. Her good sense, assiduity, tenderness,
industry, and vigilance, enabled her to overcome every obstacle; and
as the richest reward of her solicitude and toil, she had the
happiness to see all her children come forward with a fair promise
into life, filling the spheres allotted to them in a manner equally
honourable to themselves, and to the parent who had been the only
guide of their, principles, conduct, and habits. (6)
The biographer of Cromwell says little about the Protector's
father, but dwells upon the character of his mother, whom he
describes as a woman of rare vigour and decision of purpose: "A
woman," he says, "possessed of the glorious faculty of self-help when
other assistance failed her; ready for the demands of fortune in its
extremest adverse turn; of spirit and energy equal to her mildness and
patience; who, with the labour of her own hands, gave dowries to five
daughters sufficient to marry them into families as honourable but
more wealthy than their own; whose single pride was honesty, and whose
passion was love; who preserved in the gorgeous palace at Whitehall
the simple tastes that distinguished her in the old brewery at
Huntingdon; and whose only care, amidst all her splendour, was for the
safety of her son in his dangerous eminence." (7)
We have spoken of the mother of Napoleon Buonaparte as a woman of
great force of character. Not less so was the mother of the Duke of
Wellington, whom her son strikingly resembled in features, person, and
character; while his father was principally distinguished as a musical
composer and performer. (8) But, strange to say, Wellington's mother
mistook him for a dunce; and, for some reason or other, he was not
such a favourite as her other children, until his great deeds in
after-life constrained her to be proud of him.
The Napiers were blessed in both parents, but especially in their
mother, Lady Sarah Lennox, who early sought to inspire her sons'
minds with elevating thoughts, admiration of noble deeds, and a
chivalrous spirit, which became embodied in their lives, and
continued to sustain them, until death, in the path of duty and of
honour.
Among statesmen, lawyers, and divines, we find marked mention made
of the mothers of Lord Chancellors Bacon, Erskine, and Brougham-- all
women of great ability, and, in the case of the first, of great
learning; as well as of the mothers of Canning, Curran, and President
Adams--of Herbert, Paley, and Wesley. Lord Brougham speaks in terms
almost approaching reverence of his grandmother, the sister of
Professor Robertson, as having been mainly instrumental in instilling
into his mind a strong desire for information, and the first
principles of that persevering energy in the pursuit of every kind of
knowledge which formed his prominent characteristic throughout life.
Canning's mother was an Irishwoman of great natural ability, for
whom her gifted son entertained the greatest love and respect to the
close of his career. She was a woman of no ordinary intellectual
power. "Indeed," says Canning's biographer, "were we not otherwise
assured of the fact from direct sources, it would be impossible to
contemplate his profound and touching devotion to her, without being
led to conclude that the object of such unchanging attachment must
have been possessed of rare and commanding qualities. She was
esteemed by the circle in which she lived, as a woman of great mental
energy. Her conversation was animated and vigorous, and marked by a
distinct originality of manner and a choice of topics fresh and
striking, and out of the commonplace routine. To persons who were but
slightly acquainted with her, the energy of her manner had even
something of the air of eccentricity." (9)
Curran speaks with great affection of his mother, as a woman of
strong original understanding, to whose wise counsel, consistent
piety, and lessons of honourable ambition, which she diligently
enforced on the minds of her children, he himself principally
attributed his success in life. "The only inheritance," he used to
say, "that I could boast of from my poor father, was the very scanty
one of an unattractive face and person; like his own; and if the world
has ever attributed to me something more valuable than face or person,
or than earthly wealth, it was that another and a dearer parent gave
her child a portion from the treasure of her mind." (10)
When ex-President Adams was present at the examination of a girls'
school at Boston, he was presented by the pupils with an address
which deeply affected him; and in acknowledging it, he took the
opportunity of referring to the lasting influence which womanly
training and association had exercised upon his own life and
character. "As a child," he said, "I enjoyed perhaps the greatest of
blessings that can be bestowed on man--that of a mother, who was
anxious and capable to form the characters of her children rightly.
From her I derived whatever instruction (religious especially, and
moral) has pervaded a long life--I will not say perfectly, or as it
ought to be; but I will say, because it is only justice to the memory
of her I revere, that, in the course of that life, whatever
imperfection there has been, or deviation from what she taught me, the
fault is mine, and not hers."
The Wesleys were peculiarly linked to their parents by natural
piety, though the mother, rather than the father, influenced their
minds and developed their characters. The father was a man of strong
will, but occasionally harsh and tyrannical in his dealings with his
family; (11) while the mother, with much strength of understanding and
ardent love of truth, was gentle, persuasive, affectionate, and
simple. She was the teacher and cheerful companion of her children,
who gradually became moulded by her example. It was through the bias
given by her to her sons' minds in religious matters that they
acquired the tendency which, even in early years, drew to them the
name of Methodists. In a letter to her son, Samuel Wesley, when a
scholar at Westminster in 1709, she said: "I would advise you as much
as possible to throw your business into a certain METHOD, by which
means you will learn to improve every precious moment, and find an
unspeakable facility in the performance of your respective duties."
This "method" she went on to describe, exhorting her son "in all
things to act upon principle;" and the society which the brothers John
and Charles afterwards founded at Oxford is supposed to have been in a
great measure the result of her exhortations.
In the case of poets, literary men, and artists, the influence of
the mother's feeling and taste has doubtless had great effect in
directing the genius of their sons; and we find this especially
illustrated in the lives of Gray, Thomson, Scott, Southey, Bulwer,
Schiller, and Goethe. Gray inherited, almost complete, his kind and
loving nature from his mother, while his father was harsh and
unamiable. Gray was, in fact, a feminine man--shy, reserved, and
wanting in energy,--but thoroughly irreproachable in life and
character. The poet's mother maintained the family, after her
unworthy husband had deserted her; and, at her death, Gray placed on
her grave, in Stoke Pogis, an epitaph describing her as "the careful
tender mother of many children, one of whom alone had the misfortune
to survive her." The poet himself was, at his own desire, interred
beside her worshipped grave.
Goethe, like Schiller, owed the bias of his mind and character to
his mother, who was a woman of extraordinary gifts. She was full of
joyous flowing mother-wit, and possessed in a high degree the art of
stimulating young and active minds, instructing them in the science of
life out of the treasures of her abundant experience. (12) After a
lengthened interview with her, an enthusiastic traveller said, "Now do
I understand how Goethe has become the man he is." Goethe himself
affectionately cherished her memory. "She was worthy of life!" he
once said of her; and when he visited Frankfort, he sought out every
individual who had been kind to his mother, and thanked them all.
It was Ary Scheffer's mother--whose beautiful features the painter
so loved to reproduce in his pictures of Beatrice, St. Monica, and
others of his works--that encouraged his study of art, and by great
self-denial provided him with the means of pursuing it. While living
at Dordrecht, in Holland, she first sent him to Lille to study, and
afterwards to Paris; and her letters to him, while absent, were always
full of sound motherly advice, and affectionate womanly sympathy. "If
you could but see me," she wrote on one occasion, "kissing your
picture, then, after a while, taking it up again, and, with a tear in
my eye, calling you 'my beloved son,' you would comprehend what it
costs me to use sometimes the stern language of authority, and to
occasion to you moments of pain. * * * Work diligently--be, above
all, modest and humble; and when you find yourself excelling others,
then compare what you have done with Nature itself, or with the
'ideal' of your own mind, and you will be secured, by the contrast
which will be apparent, against the effects of pride and presumption."
Long years after, when Ary Scheffer was himself a grandfather, he
remembered with affection the advice of his mother, and repeated it
to his children. And thus the vital power of good example lives on
from generation to generation, keeping the world ever fresh and young.
Writing to his daughter, Madame Marjolin, in 1846, his departed
mother's advice recurred to him, and he said: "The word MUST--fix it
well in your memory, dear child; your grandmother seldom had it out of
hers. The truth is, that through our lives nothing brings any good
fruit except what is earned by either the work of the hands, or by the
exertion of one's self- denial. Sacrifices must, in short, be ever
going on if we would obtain any comfort or happiness. Now that I am
no longer young, I declare that few passages in my life afford me so
much satisfaction as those in which I made sacrifices, or denied
myself enjoyments. 'Das Entsagen' (the forbidden) is the motto of the
wise man. Self-denial is the quality of which Jesus Christ set us
the example." (13)
The French historian Michelet makes the following touching
reference to his mother in the Preface to one of his most popular
books, the subject of much embittered controversy at the time at
which it appeared:- "Whilst writing all this, I have had in my mind a
woman, whose strong and serious mind would not have failed to support
me in these contentions. I lost her thirty years ago (I was a child
then)--nevertheless, ever living in my memory, she follows me from age
to age.
"She suffered with me in my poverty, and was not allowed to share
my better fortune. When young, I made her sad, and now I cannot
console her. I know not even where her bones are: I was too poor
then to buy earth to bury her!"
"And yet I owe her much. I feel deeply that I am the son of
woman. Every instant, in my ideas and words (not to mention my
features and gestures), I find again my mother in myself. It is my
mother's blood which gives me the sympathy I feel for bygone ages, and
the tender remembrance of all those who are now no more."
"What return then could I, who am myself advancing towards old
age, make her for the many things I owe her? One, for which she would
have thanked me--this protest in favour of women and mothers." (14)
But while a mother may greatly influence the poetic or artistic
mind of her son for good, she may also influence it for evil. Thus
the characteristics of Lord Byron--the waywardness of his impulses,
his defiance of restraint, the bitterness of his hate, and the
precipitancy of his resentments--were traceable in no small degree to
the adverse influences exercised upon his mind from his birth by his
capricious, violent, and headstrong mother. She even taunted her son
with his personal deformity; and it was no unfrequent occurrence, in
the violent quarrels which occurred between them, for her to take up
the poker or tongs, and hurl them after him as he fled from her
presence. (15) It was this unnatural treatment that gave a morbid turn
to Byron's after-life; and, careworn, unhappy, great, and yet weak as
he was, he carried about with him the mother's poison which he had
sucked in his infancy. Hence he exclaims, in his 'Childe Harold':-
"Yet must I think less wildly:- I have thought Too long and
darkly, till my brain became, In its own eddy boiling and o'erwrought,
A whirling gulf of phantasy and flame: And thus, UNTAUGHT IN YOUTH MY
HEART TO TAME, MY SPRINGS OF LIFE WERE POISONED."
In like manner, though in a different way, the character of Mrs.
Foote, the actor's mother, was curiously repeated in the life of her
joyous, jovial-hearted son. Though she had been heiress to a large
fortune, she soon spent it all, and was at length imprisoned for debt.
In this condition she wrote to Sam, who had been allowing her a
hundred a year out of the proceeds of his acting:- "Dear Sam, I am in
prison for debt; come and assist your loving mother, E. Foote." To
which her son characteristically replied-- "Dear mother, so am I;
which prevents his duty being paid to his loving mother by her
affectionate son, Sam Foote."
A foolish mother may also spoil a gifted son, by imbuing his mind
with unsound sentiments. Thus Lamartine's mother is said to have
trained him in altogether erroneous ideas of life, in the school of
Rousseau and Bernardin de St.-Pierre, by which his sentimentalism,
sufficiently strong by nature, was exaggerated instead of repressed:
(16) and he became the victim of tears, affectation, and improvidence,
all his life long. It almost savours of the ridiculous to find
Lamartine, in his 'Confidences,' representing himself as a "statue of
Adolescence raised as a model for young men." (17) As he was his
mother's spoilt child, so he was the spoilt child of his country to
the end, which was bitter and sad. Sainte-Beuve says of him: "He was
the continual object of the richest gifts, which he had not the power
of managing, scattering and wasting them--all, excepting, the gift of
words, which seemed inexhaustible, and on which he continued to play
to the end as on an enchanted flute." (18)
We have spoken of the mother of Washington as an excellent woman
of business; and to possess such a quality as capacity for business
is not only compatible with true womanliness, but is in a measure
essential to the comfort and wellbeing of every properly- governed
family. Habits of business do not relate to trade merely, but apply
to all the practical affairs of life--to everything that has to be
arranged, to be organised, to be provided for, to be done. And in all
these respects the management of a family, and of a household, is as
much a matter of business as the management of a shop or of a
counting-house. It requires method, accuracy, organization, industry,
economy, discipline, tact, knowledge, and capacity for adapting means
to ends. All this is of the essence of business; and hence business
habits are as necessary to be cultivated by women who would succeed
in the affairs of home--in other words, who would make home happy--as
by men in the affairs of trade, of commerce, or of manufacture.
The idea has, however, heretofore prevailed, that women have no
concern with such matters, and that business habits and
qualifications relate to men only. Take, for instance, the knowledge
of figures. Mr. Bright has said of boys, "Teach a boy arithmetic
thoroughly, and he is a made man." And why?--Because it teaches him
method, accuracy, value, proportions, relations. But how many girls
are taught arithmetic well?--Very few indeed. And what is the
consequence?--When the girl becomes a wife, if she knows nothing of
figures, and is innocent of addition and multiplication, she can keep
no record of income and expenditure, and there will probably be a
succession of mistakes committed which may be prolific in domestic
contention. The woman, not being up to her business--that is, the
management of her domestic affairs in conformity with the simple
principles of arithmetic-- will, through sheer ignorance, be apt to
commit extravagances, though unintentional, which may be most
injurious to her family peace and comfort.
Method, which is the soul of business, is also of essential
importance in the home. Work can only be got through by method.
Muddle flies before it, and hugger-mugger becomes a thing unknown.
Method demands punctuality, another eminently business quality. The
unpunctual woman, like the unpunctual man, occasions dislike, because
she consumes and wastes time, and provokes the reflection that we are
not of sufficient importance to make her more prompt. To the business
man, time is money; but to the business woman, method is more--it is
peace, comfort, and domestic prosperity.
Prudence is another important business quality in women, as in
men. Prudence is practical wisdom, and comes of the cultivated
judgment. It has reference in all things to fitness, to propriety;
judging wisely of the right thing to be done, and the right way of
doing it. It calculates the means, order, time, and method of doing.
Prudence learns from experience, quickened by knowledge.
For these, amongst other reasons, habits of business are necessary
to be cultivated by all women, in order to their being efficient
helpers in the world's daily life and work. Furthermore, to direct
the power of the home aright, women, as the nurses, trainers, and
educators of children, need all the help and strength that mental
culture can give them.
Mere instinctive love is not sufficient. Instinct, which
preserves the lower creatures, needs no training; but human
intelligence, which is in constant request in a family, needs to be
educated. The physical health of the rising generation is entrusted
to woman by Providence; and it is in the physical nature that the
moral and mental nature lies enshrined. It is only by acting in
accordance with the natural laws, which before she can follow woman
must needs understand, that the blessings of health of body, and
health of mind and morals, can be secured at home. Without a knowledge
of such laws, the mother's love too often finds its recompence only in
a child's coffin. (19)
It is a mere truism to say that the intellect with which woman as
well as man is endowed, has been given for use and exercise, and not
"to fust in her unused." Such endowments are never conferred without
a purpose. The Creator may be lavish in His gifts, but he is never
wasteful.
Woman was not meant to be either an unthinking drudge, or the
merely pretty ornament of man's leisure. She exists for herself, as
well as for others; and the serious and responsible duties she is
called upon to perform in life, require the cultivated head as well as
the sympathising heart. Her highest mission is not to be fulfilled by
the mastery of fleeting accomplishments, on which so much useful time
is now wasted; for, though accomplishments may enhance the charms of
youth and beauty, of themselves sufficiently charming, they will be
found of very little use in the affairs of real life.
The highest praise which the ancient Romans could express of a
noble matron was that she sat at home and span--"DOMUM MANSIT, LANAM
FECIT." In our own time, it has been said that chemistry enough to
keep the pot boiling, and geography enough to know the different rooms
in her house, was science enough for any woman; whilst Byron, whose
sympathies for woman were of a very imperfect kind, professed that he
would limit her library to a Bible and a cookery-book. But this view
of woman's character and culture is as absurdly narrow and
unintelligent, on the one hand, as the opposite view, now so much in
vogue, is extravagant and unnatural on the other--that woman ought to
be educated so as to be as much as possible the equal of man;
undistinguishable from him, except in sex; equal to him in rights and
votes; and his competitor in all that makes life a fierce and selfish
struggle for place and power and money.
Speaking generally, the training and discipline that are most
suitable for the one sex in early life, are also the most suitable
for the other; and the education and culture that fill the mind of
the man will prove equally wholesome for the woman. Indeed, all the
arguments which have yet been advanced in favour of the higher
education of men, plead equally strongly in favour of the higher
education of women. In all the departments of home, intelligence
will add to woman's usefulness and efficiency. It will give her
thought and forethought, enable her to anticipate and provide for the
contingencies of life, suggest improved methods of management, and
give her strength in every way. In disciplined mental power she will
find a stronger and safer protection against deception and imposture
than in mere innocent and unsuspecting ignorance; in moral and
religious culture she will secure sources of influence more powerful
and enduring than in physical attractions; and in due self-reliance
and self-dependence she will discover the truest sources of domestic
comfort and happiness.
But while the mind and character of women ought to be cultivated
with a view to their own wellbeing, they ought not the less to be
educated liberally with a view to the happiness of others. Men
themselves cannot be sound in mind or morals if women be the reverse;
and if, as we hold to be the case, the moral condition of a people
mainly depends upon the education of the home, then the education of
women is to be regarded as a matter of national importance. Not only
does the moral character but the mental strength of man find their
best safeguard and support in the moral purity and mental cultivation
of woman; but the more completely the powers of both are developed,
the more harmonious and well- ordered will society be--the more safe
and certain its elevation and advancement.
When about fifty years since, the first Napoleon said that the
great want of France was mothers, he meant, in other words, that the
French people needed the education of homes, provided over by good,
virtuous, intelligent women. Indeed, the first French Revolution
presented one of the most striking illustrations of the social
mischiefs resulting from a neglect of the purifying influence of
women. When that great national outbreak occurred, society was
impenetrated with vice and profligacy. Morals, religion, virtue, were
swamped by sensualism. The character of woman had become depraved.
Conjugal fidelity was disregarded; maternity was held in reproach;
family and home were alike corrupted. Domestic purity no longer bound
society together. France was motherless; the children broke loose; and
the Revolution burst forth, "amidst the yells and the fierce violence
of women." (20)
But the terrible lesson was disregarded, and again and again
France has grievously suffered from the want of that discipline,
obedience, self-control, and self-respect which can only be truly
learnt at home. It is said that the Third Napoleon attributed the
recent powerlessness of France, which left her helpless and bleeding
at the feet of her conquerors, to the frivolity and lack of principle
of the people, as well as to their love of pleasure-- which, however,
it must be confessed, he himself did not a little to foster. It would
thus seem that the discipline which France still needs to learn, if
she would be good and great, is that indicated by the First
Napoleon--home education by good mothers.
The influence of woman is the same everywhere. Her condition
influences the morals, manners, and character of the people in all
countries. Where she is debased, society is debased; where she is
morally pure and enlightened, society will be proportionately
elevated.
Hence, to instruct woman is to instruct man; to elevate her
character is to raise his own; to enlarge her mental freedom is to
extend and secure that of the whole community. For Nations are but
the outcomes of Homes, and Peoples of Mothers.
But while it is certain that the character of a nation will be
elevated by the enlightenment and refinement of woman, it is much
more than doubtful whether any advantage is to be derived from her
entering into competition with man in the rough work of business and
polities. Women can no more do men's special work in the world than
men can do women's. And wherever woman has been withdrawn from her
home and family to enter upon other work, the result has been socially
disastrous. Indeed, the efforts of some of the best philanthropists
have of late years been devoted to withdrawing women from toiling
alongside of men in coalpits, factories, nailshops, and brickyards.
It is still not uncommon in the North for the husbands to be idle
at home, while the mothers and daughters are working in the factory;
the result being, in many cases, an entire subversion of family order,
of domestic discipline, and of home rule. (21) And for many years
past, in Paris, that state of things has been reached which some women
desire to effect amongst ourselves. The women there mainly attend to
business--serving the BOUTIQUE, or presiding at the COMPTOIR--while
the men lounge about the Boulevards. But the result has only been
homelessness, degeneracy, and family and social decay.
Nor is there any reason to believe that the elevation and
improvement of women are to be secured by investing them with
political power. There are, however, in these days, many believers
in the potentiality of "votes," (22) who anticipate some indefinite
good from the "enfranchisement" of women. It is not necessary here to
enter upon the discussion of this question. But it may be sufficient
to state that the power which women do not possess politically is far
more than compensated by that which they exercise in private life--by
their training in the home those who, whether as men or as women, do
all the manly as well as womanly work of the world. The Radical
Bentham has said that man, even if he would, cannot keep power from
woman; for that she already governs the world "with the whole power of
a despot," (23) though the power that she mainly governs by is love.
And to form the character of the whole human race, is certainly a
power far greater than that which women could ever hope to exercise as
voters for members of Parliament, or even as lawmakers.
There is, however, one special department of woman's work
demanding the earnest attention of all true female reformers, though
it is one which has hitherto been unaccountably neglected. We mean the
better economizing and preparation of human food, the waste of which
at present, for want of the most ordinary culinary knowledge, is
little short of scandalous. If that man is to be regarded as a
benefactor of his species who makes two stalks of corn to grow where
only one grew before, not less is she to be regarded as a public
benefactor who economizes and turns to the best practical account the
food-products of human skill and labour. The improved use of even our
existing supply would be equivalent to an immediate extension of the
cultivable acreage of our country--not to speak of the increase in
health, economy, and domestic comfort. Were our female reformers only
to turn their energies in this direction with effect, they would earn
the gratitude of all households, and be esteemed as among the greatest
of practical philanthropists.
NOTES
(1) Civic virtues, unless they have their origin and consecration
in private and domestic virtues, are but the virtues of the theatre.
He who has not a loving heart for his child, cannot pretend to have
any true love for humanity.--Jules Simon's LE DEVOIR.
(2) 'Levana; or, The Doctrine of Education.'
(3) Speaking of the force of habit, St. Augustine says in his
'Confessions' "My will the enemy held, and thence had made a chain
for me, and bound me. For of a froward will was a lust made; and a
lust served became custom; and custom not resisted became necessity.
By which links, as it were, joined together (whence I called it a
chain) a hard bondage held me enthralled."
(4) Mr. Tufnell, in 'Reports of Inspectors of Parochial School
Unions in England and Wales,' 1850.
(5) See the letters (January 13th, 16th, 18th, 20th, and 23rd,
1759), written by Johnson to his mother when she was ninety, and he
himself was in his fiftieth year.--Crokers BOSWELL, 8vo. Ed. pp. 113,
114.
(6) Jared Sparks' 'Life of Washington.'
(7) Forster's 'Eminent British Statesmen' (Cabinet Cyclop.) vi. 8.
(8) The Earl of Mornington, composer of 'Here in cool grot,'
(9) Robert Bell's 'Life of Canning,' p. 37.
(10) 'Life of Curran,' by his son, p. 4.
(11) The father of the Wesleys had even determined at one time to
abandon his wife because her conscience forbade her to assent to his
prayers for the then reigning monarch, and he was only saved from the
consequences of his rash resolve by the accidental death of William
III. He displayed the same overbearing disposition in dealing with
his children; forcing his daughter Mehetabel to marry, against her
will, a man whom she did not love, and who proved entirely unworthy of
her.
(12) Goethe himself says-- "Vom Vater hab' ich die Statur, Des
Lebens ernstes Fuhren; Von Mutterchen die Frohnatur Und Lust zu
fabuliren."
(13) Mrs. Grote's 'Life of Ary Scheffer,' p. 154.
(14) Michelet, 'On Priests, Women, and Families.'
(15) Mrs. Byron is said to have died in a fit of passion, brought
on by reading her upholsterer's bills.
(16) Sainte-Beuve, 'Causeries du Lundi,' i. 23.
(17) Ibid. i. 22.
(18) Ibid. 1. 23.
(19) That about one-third of all the children born in this country
die under five years of age, can only he attributable to ignorance of
the natural laws, ignorance of the human constitution, and ignorance
of the uses of pure air, pure water, and of the art of preparing and
administering wholesome food. There is no such mortality amongst the
lower animals.
(20) Beaumarchais' 'Figaro,' which was received with such
enthusiasm in France shortly before the outbreak of the Revolution,
may be regarded as a typical play; it represented the average morality
of the upper as well as the lower classes with respect to the
relations between the sexes. "Label men how you please," says
Herbert Spencer, "with titles of 'upper' and 'middle' and 'lower,'
you cannot prevent them from being units of the same society, acted
upon by the same spirit of the age, moulded after the same type of
character. The mechanical law, that action and reaction are equal,
has its moral analogue. The deed of one man to another tends
ultimately to produce a like effect upon both, be the deed good or
bad. Do but put them in relationship, and no division into castes, no
differences of wealth, can prevent men from assimilating.... The same
influences which rapidly adapt the individual to his society, ensure,
though by a slower process, the general uniformity of a national
character.... And so long as the assimilating influences productive
of it continue at work, it is folly to suppose any one grade of a
community can be morally different from the rest. In whichever rank
you see corruption, be assured it equally pervades all ranks--be
assured it is the symptom of a bad social diathesis. Whilst the virus
of depravity exists in one part of the body-politic, no other part
can remain healthy."--SOCIAL STATICS, chap. xx. 7.
(21) Some twenty-eight years since, the author wrote and published
the following passage, not without practical knowledge of the subject;
and notwithstanding the great amelioration in the lot of factory-
workers, effected mainly through the noble efforts of Lord
Shaftesbury, the description is still to a large extent true:-- "The
factory system, however much it may have added to the wealth of the
country, has had a most deleterious effect on the domestic condition
of the people. It has invaded the sanctuary of home, and broken up
family and social ties. It has taken the wife from the husband, and
the children from their parents. Especially has its tendency been to
lower the character of woman. The performance of domestic duties is
her proper office,--the management of her household, the rearing of
her family, the economizing of the family means, the supplying of the
family wants. But the factory takes her from all these duties. Homes
become no longer homes. Children grow up uneducated and neglected.
The finer affections become blunted. Woman is no more the gentle
wife, companion, and friend of man, but his fellow- labourer and
fellow-drudge. She is exposed to influences which too often efface
that modesty of thought and conduct which is one of the best
safeguards of virtue. Without judgment or sound principles to guide
them, factory-girls early acquire the feeling of independence. Ready
to throw off the constraint imposed on them by their parents, they
leave their homes, and speedily become initiated in the vices of their
associates. The atmosphere, physical as well as moral, in which they
live, stimulates their animal appetites; the influence of bad example
becomes contagious among them and mischief is propagated far and
wide."--THE UNION, January, 1843.
(22)A French satirist, pointing to the repeated PLEBISCITES and
perpetual voting of late years, and to the growing want of faith in
anything but votes, said, in 1870, that we seemed to be rapidly
approaching the period when the only prayer of man and woman would
be, "Give us this day our daily vote!"
(23) "Of primeval and necessary and absolute superiority, the
relation of the mother to the child is far more complete, though less
seldom quoted as an example, than that of father and son.... By Sir
Robert Filmer, the supposed necessary as well as absolute power of the
father over his children, was taken as the foundation and origin, and
thence justifying cause, of the power of the monarch in every
political state. With more propriety he might have stated the
absolute dominion of a woman as the only legitimate form of
government."--DEONTOLOGY, ii. 181.
"Keep good company, and you shall be of the number."
-- GEORGE HERBERT.
"For mine own part,
I Shall be glad to learn of noble men."--SHAKSPEARE
"Examples preach to th' eye--Care then, mine says,
Not how you end but how you spend your days."
HENRY MARTEN--'LAST THOUGHTS.'
"Dis moi qui t'admire, et je dirai qui tu es."--SAINTE-BEUVE
He that means to be a good limner will be sure to draw after the
most excellent copies and guide every stroke of his pencil by the
better pattern that lays before him; so he that desires that the
table of his life may be fair, will be careful to propose the best
examples, and will never be content till he equals or excels
them."--OWEN FELTHAM
The natural education of the Home is prolonged far into life--
indeed, it never entirely ceases. But the time arrives, in the
progress of years, when the Home ceases to exercise an exclusive
influence on the formation of character; and it is succeeded by the
more artificial education of the school and the companionship of
friends and comrades, which continue to mould the character by the
powerful influence of example.
Men, young and old--but the young more than the old--cannot help
imitating those with whom they associate. It was a saying of George
Herbert's mother, intended for the guidance of her sons, "that as our
bodies take a nourishment suitable to the meat on which we feed, so do
our souls as insensibly take in virtue or vice by the example or
conversation of good or bad company."
Indeed, it is impossible that association with those about us
should not produce a powerful influence in the formation of
character. For men are by nature imitators, and all persons are more
or less impressed by the speech, the manners, the gait, the gestures,
and the very habits of thinking of their companions. "Is example
nothing?" said Burke. "It is everything. Example is the school of
mankind, and they will learn at no other." Burke's grand motto, which
he wrote for the tablet of the Marquis of Rockingham, is worth
repeating: it was, "Remember--resemble-- persevere."
Imitation is for the most part so unconscious that its effects are
almost unheeded, but its influence is not the less permanent on that
account. It is only when an impressive nature is placed in contact
with an impressionable one, that the alteration in the character
becomes recognisable. Yet even the weakest natures exercise some
influence upon those about them. The approximation of feeling,
thought, and habit is constant, and the action of example unceasing.
Emerson has observed that even old couples, or persons who have
been housemates for a course of years, grow gradually like each
other; so that, if they were to live long enough, we should scarcely
be able to know them apart. But if this be true of the old, how much
more true is it of the young, whose plastic natures are so much more
soft and impressionable, and ready to take the stamp of the life and
conversation of those about them!
"There has been," observed Sir Charles Bell in one of his letters,
"a good deal said about education, but they appear to me to put out
of sight EXAMPLE, which is all-in-all. My best education was the
example set me by my brothers. There was, in all the members of the
family, a reliance on self, a true independence, and by imitation I
obtained it." (1)
It is in the nature of things that the circumstances which
contribute to form the character, should exercise their principal
influence during the period of growth. As years advance, example and
imitation become custom, and gradually consolidate into habit, which
is of so much potency that, almost before we know it, we have in a
measure yielded up to it our personal freedom.
It is related of Plato, that on one occasion he reproved a boy for
playing at some foolish game. "Thou reprovest me," said the boy,
"for a very little thing." "But custom," replied Plato, "is not a
little thing." Bad custom, consolidated into habit, is such a tyrant
that men sometimes cling to vices even while they curse them. They
have become the slaves of habits whose power they are impotent to
resist. Hence Locke has said that to create and maintain that vigour
of mind which is able to contest the empire of habit, may be regarded
as one of the chief ends of moral discipline.
Though much of the education of character by example is
spontaneous and unconscious, the young need not necessarily be the
passive followers or imitators of those about them. Their own
conduct, far more than the conduct of their companions, tends to fix
the purpose and form the principles of their life. Each possesses in
himself a power of will and of free activity, which, if courageously
exercised, will enable him to make his own individual selection of
friends and associates. It is only through weakness of purpose that
young people, as well as old, become the slaves of their inclinations,
or give themselves up to a servile imitation of others.
It is a common saying that men are known by the company they keep.
The sober do not naturally associate with the drunken, the refined
with the coarse, the decent with the dissolute. To associate with
depraved persons argues a low taste and vicious tendencies, and to
frequent their society leads to inevitable degradation of character.
"The conversation of such persons," says Seneca, "is very injurious;
for even if it does no immediate harm, it leaves its seeds in the
mind, and follows us when we have gone from the speakers--a plague
sure to spring up in future resurrection."
If young men are wisely influenced and directed, and
conscientiously exert their own free energies, they will seek the
society of those better than themselves, and strive to imitate their
example. In companionship with the good, growing natures will always
find their best nourishment; while companionship with the bad will
only be fruitful in mischief. There are persons whom to know is to
love, honour, and admire; and others whom to know is to shun and
despise,--"DONT LE SAVOIR N'EST QUE BETERIE," as says Rabelais when
speaking of the education of Gargantua. Live with persons of elevated
characters, and you will feel lifted and lighted up in them: "Live
with wolves," says the Spanish proverb, "and you will learn to howl."
Intercourse with even commonplace, selfish persons, may prove most
injurious, by inducing a dry, dull reserved, and selfish condition of
mind, more or less inimical to true manliness and breadth of
character. The mind soon learns to run in small grooves, the heart
grows narrow and contracted, and the moral nature becomes weak,
irresolute, and accommodating, which is fatal to all generous ambition
or real excellence.
On the other hand, association with persons wiser, better, and
more experienced than ourselves, is always more or less inspiring and
invigorating. They enhance our own knowledge of life. We correct our
estimates by theirs, and become partners in their wisdom. We enlarge
our field of observation through their eyes, profit by their
experience, and learn not only from what they have enjoyed, but--which
is still more instructive--from what they have suffered. If they are
stronger than ourselves, we become participators in their strength.
Hence companionship with the wise and energetic never fails to have a
most valuable influence on the formation of character--increasing our
resources, strengthening our resolves, elevating our aims, and
enabling us to exercise greater dexterity and ability in our own
affairs, as well as more effective helpfulness of others.
"I have often deeply regretted in myself," says Mrs.
Schimmelpenninck, "the great loss I have experienced from the
solitude of my early habits. We need no worse companion than our
unregenerate selves, and, by living alone, a person not only becomes
wholly ignorant of the means of helping his fellow- creatures, but is
without the perception of those wants which most need help.
Association with others, when not on so large a scale as to make
hours of retirement impossible, may be considered as furnishing to an
individual a rich multiplied experience; and sympathy so drawn forth,
though, unlike charity, it begins abroad, never fails to bring back
rich treasures home. Association with others is useful also in
strengthening the character, and in enabling us, while we never lose
sight of our main object, to thread our way wisely and well." (2)
An entirely new direction may be given to the life of a young man
by a happy suggestion, a timely hint, or the kindly advice of an
honest friend. Thus the life of Henry Martyn the Indian missionary,
seems to have been singularly influenced by a friendship which he
formed, when a boy, at Truro Grammar School. Martyn himself was of
feeble frame, and of a delicate nervous temperament. Wanting in
animal spirits, he took but little pleasure in school sports; and
being of a somewhat petulant temper, the bigger boys took pleasure in
provoking him, and some of them in bullying him. One of the bigger
boys, however, conceiving a friendship for Martyn, took him under his
protection, stood between him and his persecutors, and not only fought
his battles for him, but helped him with his lessons. Though Martyn
was rather a backward pupil, his father was desirous that he should
have the advantage of a college education, and at the age of about
fifteen he sent him to Oxford to try for a Corpus scholarship, in
which he failed. He remained for two years more at the Truro Grammar
School, and then went to Cambridge, where he was entered at St. John's
College. Who should he find already settled there as a student but
his old champion of the Truro Grammar School? Their friendship was
renewed; and the elder student from that time forward acted as the
Mentor, of the younger one. Martyn was fitful in his studies,
excitable and petulant, and occasionally subject to fits of almost
uncontrollable rage. His big friend, on the other hand, was a steady,
patient, hardworking fellow; and he never ceased to watch over, to
guide, and to advise for good his irritable fellow-student. He kept
Martyn out of the way of evil company, advised him to work hard, "not
for the praise of men, but for the glory of God;" and so successfully
assisted him in his studies, that at the following Christmas
examination he was the first of his year. Yet Martyn's kind friend
and Mentor never achieved any distinction himself; he passed away into
obscurity, leading, most probably, a useful though an unknown career;
his greatest wish in life having been to shape the character of his
friend, to inspire his soul with the love of truth, and to prepare him
for the noble work, on which he shortly after entered, of an Indian
missionary.
A somewhat similar incident is said to have occurred in the
college career of Dr. Paley. When a student at Christ's College
Cambridge, he was distinguished for his shrewdness as well as his
clumsiness, and he was at the same time the favourite and the butt of
his companions. Though his natural abilities were great, he was
thoughtless, idle, and a spendthrift; and at the commencement of his
third year be had made comparatively little progress. After one of his
usual night-dissipations, a friend stood by his bedside on the
following morning. "Paley," said he, "I have not been able to sleep
for thinking about you. I have been thinking what a fool you are! I
have the means of dissipation, and can afford to be idle: YOU are
poor, and cannot afford it. I could do nothing, probably, even were I
to try: YOU are capable of doing anything. I have lain awake all
night thinking about your folly, and I have now come solemnly to warn
you. Indeed, if you persist in your indolence, and go on in this way,
I must renounce your society altogether!
It is said that Paley was so powerfully affected by this
admonition, that from that moment he became an altered man. He
formed an entirely new plan of life, and diligently persevered in it.
He became one of the most industrious of students. One by one he
distanced his competitors, and at the end of the year be came out
Senior Wrangler. What he afterwards accomplished as an author and a
divine is sufficiently well known.
No one recognised more fully the influence of personal example on
the young than did Dr. Arnold. It was the great lever with which he
worked in striving to elevate the character of his school. He made it
his principal object, first to put a right spirit into the leading
boys, by attracting their good and noble feelings; and then to make
them instrumental in propagating the same spirit among the rest, by
the influence of imitation, example, and admiration. He endeavoured
to make all feel that they were fellow-workers with himself, and
sharers with him in the moral responsibility for the good government
of the place. One of the first effects of this highminded system of
management was, that it inspired the boys with strength and
self-respect. They felt that they were trusted. There were, of
course, MAUVAIS SUJETS at Rugby, as there are at all schools; and
these it was the master's duty to watch, to prevent their bad example
contaminating others. On one occasion he said to an assistant-master:
"Do you see those two boys walking together? I never saw them
together before. You should make an especial point of observing the
company they keep: nothing so tells the changes in a boy's character."
Dr. Arnold's own example was an inspiration, as is that of every
great teacher. In his presence, young men learned to respect
themselves; and out of the root of self-respect there grew up the
manly virtues. "His very presence," says his biographer, "seemed to
create a new spring of health and vigour within them, and to give to
life an interest and elevation which remained with them long after
they had left him; and dwelt so habitually in their thoughts as a
living image, that, when death had taken him away, the bond appeared
to be still unbroken, and the sense of separation almost lost in the
still deeper sense of a life and a Union indestructible." (3) And
thus it was that Dr. Arnold trained a host of manly and noble
characters, who spread the influence of his example in all parts of
the world.
So also was it said of Dugald Stewart, that he breathed the love
of virtue into whole generations of pupils. "To me," says the late
Lord Cockburn, "his lectures were like the opening of the heavens. I
felt that I had a soul. His noble views, unfolded in glorious
sentences, elevated me into a higher world... They changed my whole
nature." (4)
Character tells in all conditions of life. The man of good
character in a workshop will give the tone to his fellows, and
elevate their entire aspirations. Thus Franklin, while a workman in
London, is said to have reformed the manners of an entire workshop.
So the man of bad character and debased energy will unconsciously
lower and degrade his fellows. Captain John Brown-- the "marching-on
Brown"--once said to Emerson, that "for a settler in a new country,
one good believing man is worth a hundred, nay, worth a thousand men
without character." His example is so contagious, that all other men
are directly and beneficially influenced by him, and he insensibly
elevates and lifts them up to his own standard of energetic activity.
Communication with the good is invariably productive of good. The
good character is diffusive in his influence. "I was common clay
till roses were planted in me," says some aromatic earth in the
Eastern fable. Like begets like, and good makes good. "It is
astonishing," says Canon Moseley, "how much good goodness makes.
Nothing that is good is alone, nor anything bad; it makes others good
or others bad--and that other, and so on: like a stone thrown into a
pond, which makes circles that make other wider ones, and then others,
till the last reaches the shore.... Almost all the good that is in the
world has, I suppose, thus come down to us traditionally from remote
times, and often unknown centres of good." (5) So Mr. Ruskin says,
"That which is born of evil begets evil; and that which is born of
valour and honour, teaches valour and honour."
Hence it is that the life of every man is a daily inculcation of
good or bad example to others. The life of a good man is at the same
time the most eloquent lesson of virtue and the most severe reproof of
vice. Dr. Hooker described the life of a pious clergyman of his
acquaintance as "visible rhetoric," convincing even the most godless
of the beauty of goodness. And so the good George Herbert said, on
entering upon the duties of his parish: "Above all, I will be sure to
live well, because the virtuous life of a clergyman is the most
powerful eloquence, to persuade all who see it to reverence and love,
and--at least to desire to live like him. And this I will do," he
added, "because I know we live in an age that hath more need of good
examples than precepts." It was a fine saying of the same good
priest, when reproached with doing an act of kindness to a poor man,
considered beneath the dignity of his office,--that the thought of
such actions "would prove music to him at midnight." (6) Izaak Walton
speaks of a letter written by George Herbert to Bishop Andrewes, about
a holy life, which the latter "put into his bosom," and after showing
it to his scholars, "did always return it to the place where he first
lodged it, and continued it so, near his heart, till the last day of
his life."
Great is the power of goodness to charm and to command. The man
inspired by it is the true king of men, drawing all hearts after him.
When General Nicholson lay wounded on his deathbed before Delhi, he
dictated this last message to his equally noble and gallant friend,
Sir Herbert Edwardes:- "Tell him," said he, "I should have been a
better man if I had continued to live with him, and our heavy public
duties had not prevented my seeing more of him privately. I was
always the better for a residence with him and his wife, however
short. Give my love to them both!"
There are men in whose presence we feel as if we breathed a
spiritual ozone, refreshing and invigorating, like inhaling mountain
air, or enjoying a bath of sunshine. The power of Sir Thomas More's
gentle nature was so great that it subdued the bad at the same time
that it inspired the good. Lord Brooke said of his deceased friend,
Sir Philip Sidney, that "his wit and understanding beat upon his
heart, to make himself and others, not in word or opinion, but in life
and action, good and great."
The very sight of a great and good man is often an inspiration to
the young, who cannot help admiring and loving the gentle, the brave,
the truthful, the magnanimous! Cbateaubriand saw Washington only
once, but it inspired him for life. After describing the interview,
he says: "Washington sank into the tomb before any little celebrity
had attached to my name. I passed before him as the most unknown of
beings. He was in all his glory --I in the depth of my obscurity. My
name probably dwelt not a whole day in his memory. Happy, however,
was I that his looks were cast upon me. I have felt warmed for it all
the rest of my life. There is a virtue even in the looks of a great
man."
When Niebuhr died, his friend, Frederick Perthes, said of him:
"What a contemporary! The terror of all bad and base men, the stay of
all the sterling and honest, the friend and helper of youth." Perthes
said on another occasion: "It does a wrestling man good to be
constantly surrounded by tried wrestlers; evil thoughts are put to
flight when the eye falls on the portrait of one in whose living
presence one would have blushed to own them." A Catholic
money-lender, when about to cheat, was wont to draw a veil over the
picture of his favourite saint. So Hazlitt has said of the portrait
of a beautiful female, that it seemed as if an unhandsome action would
be impossible in its presence. "It does one good to look upon his
manly honest face," said a poor German woman, pointing to a portrait
of the great Reformer hung upon the wall of her humble dwelling.
Even the portrait of a noble or a good man, hung up in a room, is
companionship after a sort. It gives us a closer personal interest
in him. Looking at the features, we feel as if we knew him better,
and were more nearly related to him. It is a link that connects us
with a higher and better nature than our own. And though we may be far
from reaching the standard of our hero, we are, to a certain extent,
sustained and fortified by his depicted presence constantly before us.
Fox was proud to acknowledge how much he owed to the example and
conversation of Burke. On one occasion he said of him, that "if he
was to put all the political information he had gained from books, all
that he had learned from science, or that the knowledge of the world
and its affairs taught him, into one scale, and the improvement he had
derived from Mr. Burke's conversation and instruction into the other,
the latter would preponderate."
Professor Tyndall speaks of Faraday's friendship as "energy and
inspiration." After spending an evening with him he wrote: "His work
excites admiration, but contact with him warms and elevates the heart.
Here, surely, is a strong man. I love strength, but let me not
forget the example of its union with modesty, tenderness, and
sweetness, in the character of Faraday."
Even the gentlest natures are powerful to influence the character
of others for good. Thus Wordsworth seems to have been especially
impressed by the character of his sister Dorothy, who exercised upon
his mind and heart a lasting influence. He describes her as the
blessing of his boyhood as well as of his manhood. Though two years
younger than himself, her tenderness and sweetness contributed greatly
to mould his nature, and open his mind to the influences of poetry:
"She gave me eyes, she gave me ears, And humble cares, and
delicate fears; A heart, the fountain of sweet tears, And love and
thought and joy."
Thus the gentlest natures are enabled, by the power of affection
and intelligence, to mould the characters of men destined to
influence and elevate their race through all time.
Sir William Napier attributed the early direction of his
character, first to the impress made upon it by his mother, when a
boy; and afterwards to the noble example of his commander, Sir John
Moore, when a man. Moore early detected the qualities of the young
officer; and he was one of those to whom the General addressed the
encouragement, "Well done, my majors!" at Corunna. Writing home to his
mother, and describing the little court by which Moore was surrounded,
he wrote, "Where shall we find such a king?" It was to his personal
affection for his chief that the world is mainly indebted to Sir
William Napier for his great book, 'The History of the Peninsular
War.' But he was stimulated to write the book by the advice of another
friend, the late Lord Langdale, while one day walking with him across
the fields on which Belgravia is now built. "It was Lord Langdale,"
he says, "who first kindled the fire within me." And of Sir William
Napier himself, his biographer truly says, that "no thinking person
could ever come in contact with him without being strongly impressed
with the genius of the man.
The career of the late Dr. Marshall Hall was a lifelong
illustration of the influence of character in forming character. Many
eminent men still living trace their success in life to his
suggestions and assistance, without which several valuable lines of
study and investigation might not have been entered on, at least at so
early a period. He would say to young men about him, "Take up a
subject and pursue it well, and you cannot fail to succeed." And
often he would throw out a new idea to a young friend, saying, "I make
you a present of it; there is fortune in it, if you pursue it with
energy."
Energy of character has always a power to evoke energy in others.
It acts through sympathy, one of the most influential of human
agencies. The zealous energetic man unconsciously carries others
along with him. His example is contagious, and compels imitation. He
exercises a sort of electric power, which sends a thrill through every
fibre--flows into the nature of those about him, and makes them give
out sparks of fire.
Dr. Arnold's biographer, speaking of the power of this kind
exercised by him over young men, says: "It was not so much an
enthusiastic admiration for true genius, or learning, or eloquence,
which stirred within them; it was a sympathetic thrill, caught from a
spirit that was earnestly at work in the world-- whose work was
healthy, sustained, and constantly carried forward in the fear of
God--a work that was founded on a deep sense of its duty and its
value." (7)
Such a power, exercised by men of genius, evokes courage,
enthusiasm, and devotion. It is this intense admiration for
individuals--such as one cannot conceive entertained for a
multitude--which has in all times produced heroes and martyrs. It is
thus that the mastery of character makes itself felt. It acts by
inspiration, quickening and vivifying the natures subject to its
influence.
Great minds are rich in radiating force, not only exerting power,
but communicating and even creating it. Thus Dante raised and drew
after him a host of great spirits--Petrarch, Boccacio, Tasso, and many
more. From him Milton learnt to bear the stings of evil tongues and
the contumely of evil days; and long years after, Byron, thinking of
Dante under the pine-trees of Ravenna, was incited to attune his harp
to loftier strains than he had ever attempted before. Dante inspired
the greatest painters of Italy-- Giotto, Orcagna, Michael Angelo, and
Raphael. So Ariosto and Titian mutually inspired one another, and
lighted up each other's glory.
Great and good men draw others after them, exciting the
spontaneous admiration of mankind. This admiration of noble
character elevates the mind, and tends to redeem it from the bondage
of self, one of the greatest stumbling blocks to moral improvement.
The recollection of men who have signalised themselves by great
thoughts or great deeds, seems as if to create for the time a purer
atmosphere around us: and we feel as if our aims and purposes were
unconsciously elevated.
"Tell me whom you admire," said Sainte-Beuve, "and I will tell you
what you are, at least as regards your talents, tastes, and
character." Do you admire mean men?--your own nature is mean. Do you
admire rich men?--you are of the earth, earthy. Do you admire men of
title?--you are a toad-eater, or a tuft-hunter. (8) Do you admire
honest, brave, and manly men?--you are yourself of an honest, brave,
and manly spirit.
It is in the season of youth, while the character is forming, that
the impulse to admire is the greatest. As we advance in life, we
crystallize into habit; and "NIL ADMIRARI" too often becomes our
motto. It is well to encourage the admiration of great characters
while the nature is plastic and open to impressions; for if the good
are not admired--as young men will have their heroes of some
sort--most probably the great bad may be taken by them for models.
Hence it always rejoiced Dr. Arnold to hear his pupils expressing
admiration of great deeds, or full of enthusiasm for persons or even
scenery. "I believe," said he, "that "NIL ADMIRARI" is the devil's
favourite text; and he could not choose a better to introduce his
pupils into the more esoteric parts of his doctrine. And, therefore,
I have always looked upon a man infected with the disorder of
anti-romance as one who has lost the finest part of his nature, and
his best protection against everything low and foolish." (9)
It was a fine trait in the character of Prince Albert that he was
always so ready to express generous admiration of the good deeds of
others. "He had the greatest delight," says the ablest delineator of
his character, "in anybody else saying a fine saying, or doing a great
deed. He would rejoice over it, and talk about it for days; and
whether it was a thing nobly said or done by a little child, or by a
veteran statesman, it gave him equal pleasure. He delighted in
humanity doing well on any occasion and in any manner." (10)
"No quality," said Dr. Johnson, "will get a man more friends than
a sincere admiration of the qualities of others. It indicates
generosity of nature, frankness, cordiality, and cheerful recognition
of merit." It was to the sincere--it might almost be said the
reverential--admiration of Johnson by Boswell, that we owe one of the
best biographies ever written. One is disposed to think that there
must have been some genuine good qualities in Boswell to have been
attracted by such a man as Johnson, and to have kept faithful to his
worship in spite of rebuffs and snubbings innumerable. Macaulay
speaks of Boswell as an altogether contemptible person--as a coxcomb
and a bore--weak, vain, pushing, curious, garrulous; and without wit,
humour, or eloquence. But Carlyle is doubtless more just in his
characterisation of the biographer, in whom--vain and foolish though
he was in many respects--he sees a man penetrated by the old reverent
feeling of discipleship, full of love and admiration for true wisdom
and excellence. Without such qualities, Carlyle insists, the 'Life of
Johnson' never could have been written. "Boswell wrote a good book,"
he says, "because he had a heart and an eye to discern wisdom, and an
utterance to render it forth; because of his free insight, his lively
talent, and, above all, of his love and childlike openmindedness."
Most young men of generous mind have their heroes, especially if
they be book-readers. Thus Allan Cunningham, when a mason's
apprentice in Nithsdale, walked all the way to Edinburgh for the sole
purpose of seeing Sir Walter Scott as he passed along the street. We
unconsciously admire the enthusiasm of the lad, and respect the
impulse which impelled him to make the journey. It is related of Sir
Joshua Reynolds, that when a boy of ten, he thrust his hand through
intervening rows of people to touch Pope, as if there were a sort of
virtue in the contact. At a much later period, the painter Haydon was
proud to see and to touch Reynolds when on a visit to his native
place. Rogers the poet used to tell of his ardent desire, when a boy,
to see Dr. Johnson; but when his hand was on the knocker of the house
in Bolt Court, his courage failed him, and he turned away. So the
late Isaac Disraeli, when a youth, called at Bolt Court for the same
purpose; and though be HAD the courage to knock, to his dismay he was
informed by the servant that the great lexicographer had breathed his
last only a few hours before.
On the contrary, small and ungenerous minds cannot admire
heartily. To their own great misfortune, they cannot recognise, much
less reverence, great men and great things. The mean nature admires
meanly. The toad's highest idea of beauty is his toadess. The small
snob's highest idea of manhood is the great snob. The slave-dealer
values a man according to his muscles. When a Guinea trader was told
by Sir Godfrey Kneller, in the presence of Pope, that he saw before
him two of the greatest men in the world, he replied: "I don't know
how great you may be, but I don't like your looks. I have often
bought a man much better than both of you together, all bones and
muscles, for ten guineas!"
Although Rochefoucauld, in one of his maxims, says that there is
something that is not altogether disagreeable to us in the
misfortunes of even our best friends, it is only the small and
essentially mean nature that finds pleasure in the disappointment,
and annoyance at the success of others. There are, unhappily, for
themselves, persons so constituted that they have not the heart to be
generous. The most disagreeable of all people are those who "sit in
the seat of the scorner." Persons of this sort often come to regard
the success of others, even in a good work, as a kind of personal
offence. They cannot bear to hear another praised, especially if he
belong to their own art, or calling, or profession. They will pardon
a man's failures, but cannot forgive his doing a thing better than
they can do. And where they have themselves failed, they are found to
be the most merciless of detractors. The sour critic thinks of his
rival:
"When Heaven with such parts has blest him, Have I not reason to
detest him?"
The mean mind occupies itself with sneering, carping, and fault-
finding; and is ready to scoff at everything but impudent effrontery
or successful vice. The greatest consolation of such persons are the
defects of men of character. "If the wise erred not," says George
Herbert, "it would go hard with fools." Yet, though wise men may
learn of fools by avoiding their errors, fools rarely profit by the
example which, wise men set them. A German writer has said that it is
a miserable temper that cares only to discover the blemishes in the
character of great men or great periods. Let us rather judge them
with the charity of Bolingbroke, who, when reminded of one of the
alleged weaknesses of Marlborough, observed,--"He was so great a man
that I forgot he had that defect."
Admiration of great men, living or dead, naturally evokes
imitation of them in a greater or less degree. While a mere youth,
the mind of Themistocles was fired by the great deeds of his
contemporaries, and he longed to distinguish himself in the service of
his country. When the Battle of Marathon had been fought, he fell
into a state of melancholy; and when asked by his friends as to the
cause, he replied "that the trophies of Miltiades would not suffer him
to sleep." A few years later, we find him at the head of the Athenian
army, defeating the Persian fleet of Xerxes in the battles of
Artemisium and Salamis,--his country gratefully acknowledging that it
had been saved through his wisdom and valour.
It is related of Thucydides that, when a boy, he burst into tears
on hearing Herodotus read his History, and the impression made upon
his mind was such as to determine the bent of his own genius. And
Demosthenes was so fired on one occasion by the eloquence of
Callistratus, that the ambition was roused within him of becoming an
orator himself. Yet Demosthenes was physically weak, had a feeble
voice, indistinct articulation, and shortness of breath-- defects
which he was only enabled to overcome by diligent study and invincible
determination. But, with all his practice, he never became a ready
speaker; all his orations, especially the most famous of them,
exhibiting indications of careful elaboration,--the art and industry
of the orator being visible in almost every sentence.
Similar illustrations of character imitating character, and
moulding itself by the style and manner and genius of great men, are
to be found pervading all history. Warriors, statesmen, orators,
patriots, poets, and artists--all have been, more or less
unconsciously, nurtured by the lives and actions of others living
before them or presented for their imitation.
Great men have evoked the admiration of kings, popes, and
emperors. Francis de Medicis never spoke to Michael Angelo without
uncovering, and Julius III. made him sit by his side while a dozen
cardinals were standing. Charles V. made way for Titian; and one day,
when the brush dropped from the painter's hand, Charles stooped and
picked it up, saying, "You deserve to be served by an emperor." Leo
X. threatened with excommunication whoever should print and sell the
poems of Ariosto without the author's consent. The same pope attended
the deathbed of Raphael, as Francis I. did that of Leonardo da Vinci.
Though Haydn once archly observed that he was loved and esteemed
by everybody except professors of music, yet all the greatest
musicians were unusually ready to recognise each other's greatness.
Haydn himself seems to have been entirely free from petty jealousy.
His admiration of the famous Porpora was such, that he resolved to
gain admission to his house, and serve him as a valet. Having made
the acquaintance of the family with whom Porpora lived, he was allowed
to officiate in that capacity. Early each morning he took care to
brush the veteran's coat, polish his shoes, and put his rusty wig in
order. At first Porpora growled at the intruder, but his asperity
soon softened, and eventually melted into affection. He quickly
discovered his valet's genius, and, by his instructions, directed it
into the line in which Haydn eventually acquired so much distinction.
Haydn himself was enthusiastic in his admiration of Handel. "He
is the father of us all," he said on one occasion. Scarlatti
followed Handel in admiration all over Italy, and, when his name was
mentioned, be crossed himself in token of veneration. Mozart's
recognition of the great composer was not less hearty. "When he
chooses," said he, "Handel strikes like the thunderbolt." Beethoven
hailed him as "The monarch of the musical kingdom." When Beethoven was
dying, one of his friends sent him a present of Handel's works, in
forty volumes. They were brought into his chamber, and, gazing on
them with reanimated eye, be exclaimed, pointing at them with his
finger, "There--there is the truth!"
Haydn not only recognised the genius of the great men who had
passed away, but of his young contemporaries, Mozart and Beethoven.
Small men may be envious of their fellows, but really great men seek
out and love each other. Of Mozart, Haydn wrote "I only wish I could
impress on every friend of music, and on great men in particular, the
same depth of musical sympathy, and profound appreciation of Mozart's
inimitable music, that I myself feel and enjoy; then nations would vie
with each other to possess such a jewel within their frontiers.
Prague ought not only to strive to retain this precious man, but also
to remunerate him; for without this the history of a great genius is
sad indeed.... It enrages me to think that the unparalleled Mozart is
not yet engaged by some imperial or royal court. Forgive my
excitement; but I love the man so dearly!"
Mozart was equally generous in his recognition of the merits of
Haydn. "Sir," said he to a critic, speaking of the latter, "if you
and I were both melted down together, we should not furnish materials
for one Haydn." And when Mozart first heard Beethoven, he observed:
"Listen to that young man; be assured that he will yet make a great
name in the world."
Buffon set Newton above all other philosophers, and admired him so
highly that he had always his portrait before him while he sat at
work. So Schiller looked up to Shakspeare, whom he studied
reverently and zealously for years, until he became capable of
comprehending nature at first-hand, and then his admiration became
even more ardent than before.
Pitt was Canning's master and hero, whom he followed and admired
with attachment and devotion. "To one man, while he lived," said
Canning, "I was devoted with all my heart and all my soul. Since the
death of Mr. Pitt I acknowledge no leader; my political allegiance
lies buried in his grave." (11)
A French physiologist, M. Roux, was occupied one day in lecturing
to his pupils, when Sir Charles Bell, whose discoveries were even
better known and more highly appreciated abroad than at home,
strolled into his class-room. The professor, recognising his
visitor, at once stopped his exposition, saying: "MESSIEURS, C'EST
ASSEZ POUR AUJOURD'HUI, VOUS AVEZ VU SIR CHARLES BELL!"
The first acquaintance with a great work of art has usually proved
an important event in every young artist's life. When Correggio
first gazed on Raphael's 'Saint Cecilia,' he felt within himself an
awakened power, and exclaimed, "And I too am a painter" So Constable
used to look back on his first sight of Claude's picture of 'Hagar,'
as forming an epoch in his career. Sir George Beaumont's admiration
of the same picture was such that he always took it with him in his
carriage when he travelled from home.
The examples set by the great and good do not die; they continue
to live and speak to all the generations that succeed them. It was
very impressively observed by Mr. Disraeli, in the House of Commons,
shortly after the death of Mr. Cobden:--"There is this consolation
remaining to us, when we remember our unequalled and irreparable
losses, that those great men are not altogether lost to us--that their
words will often be quoted in this House--that their examples will
often be referred to and appealed to, and that even their expressions
will form part of our discussions and debates. There are now, I may
say, some members of Parliament who, though they may not be present,
are still members of this House--who are independent of dissolutions,
of the caprices of constituencies, and even of the course of time. I
think that Mr. Cobden was one of those men."
It is the great lesson of biography to teach what man can be and
can do at his best. It may thus give each man renewed strength and
confidence. The humblest, in sight of even the greatest, may admire,
and hope, and take courage. These great brothers of ours in blood and
lineage, who live a universal life, still speak to us from their
graves, and beckon us on in the paths which they have trod. Their
example is still with us, to guide, to influence, and to direct us.
For nobility of character is a perpetual bequest; living from age to
age, and constantly tending to reproduce its like.
"The sage," say the Chinese, "is the instructor of a hundred ages.
When the manners of Loo are heard of, the stupid become intelligent,
and the wavering determined." Thus the acted life of a good man
continues to be a gospel of freedom and emancipation to all who
succeed him:
"To live in hearts we leave behind, is not to die."
The golden words that good men have uttered, the examples they
have set, live through all time: they pass into the thoughts and
hearts of their successors, help them on the road of life, and often
console them in the hour of death. "And the most miserable or most
painful of deaths," said Henry Marten, the Commonwealth man, who died
in prison, "is as nothing compared with the memory of a well-spent
life; and great alone is he who has earned the glorious privilege of
bequeathing such a lesson and example to his successors!
NOTES.
(1) 'Letters of Sir Charles Bell,' p. 10. (2) 'Autobiography of
Mary Anne Schimmelpenninck,' p. 179.
(3) Dean Stanley's 'Life of Dr. Arnold,' i. 151 (Ed. 1858).
(4) Lord Cockburn's 'Memorials,' pp. 25-6.
(5) From a letter of Canon Moseley, read at a Memorial Meeting held
shortly after the death of the late Lord Herbert of Lea.
(6) Izaak Walton's 'Life of George Herbert.'
(7) Stanley's 'Life and Letters of Dr. Arnold,' i. 33.
(8) Philip de Comines gives a curious illustration of the
subservient, though enforced, imitation of Philip, Duke of Burgundy,
by his courtiers. When that prince fell ill, and had his head shaved,
he ordered that all his nobles, five hundred in number, should in
like manner shave their heads; and one of them, Pierre de Hagenbach,
to prove his devotion, no sooner caught sight of an unshaven nobleman,
than he forthwith had him seized and carried off to the
barber!--Philip de Comines (Bohn's Ed.), p. 243.
(9) 'Life,' i. 344.
(10) Introduction to 'The Principal Speeches and Addresses of
H.R.H. the Prince Consort,' p. 33.
"Arise therefore, and be doing, and the Lord be with thee."
--l CHRONICLES xxii. 16.
"Work as if thou hadst to live for aye;
Worship as if thou wert to die to-day."--TUSCAN PROVERB.
"C'est par le travail qu'on regne."--LOUIS XIV
"Blest work! if ever thou wert curse of God,
What must His blessing be!"--J. B. SELKIRK.
"Let every man be OCCUPIED, and occupied in the highest employment
of which his nature is capable, and die with the consciousness
that he has done his best"--Sydney Smith.
WORK is one of the best educators of practical character. It
evokes and disciplines obedience, self-control, attention,
application, and perseverance; giving a man deftness and skill in his
special calling, and aptitude and dexterity in dealing with the
affairs of ordinary life.
Work is the law of our being--the living principle that carries
men and nations onward. The greater number of men have to work with
their hands, as a matter of necessity, in order to live; but all must
work in one way or another, if they would enjoy life as it ought to be
enjoyed.
Labour may be a burden and a chastisement, but it is also an
honour and a glory. Without it, nothing can be accomplished. All
that is great in man comes through work; and civilisation is its
product. Were labour abolished, the race of Adam were at once
stricken by moral death.
It is idleness that is the curse of man--not labour. Idleness
eats the heart out of men as of nations, and consumes them as rust
does iron. When Alexander conquered the Persians, and had an
opportunity of observing their manners, he remarked that they did not
seem conscious that there could be anything more servile than a life
of pleasure, or more princely than a life of toil.
When the Emperor Severus lay on his deathbed at York, whither he
had been borne on a litter from the foot of the Grampians, his final
watchword to his soldiers was, "LABOREMUS" (we must work); and nothing
but constant toil maintained the power and extended the authority of
the Roman generals.
In describing the earlier social condition of Italy, when the
ordinary occupations of rural life were considered compatible with
the highest civic dignity, Pliny speaks of the triumphant generals
and their men, returning contentedly to the plough. In those days
the lands were tilled by the hands even of generals, the soil
exulting beneath a ploughshare crowned with laurels, and guided by a
husbandman graced with triumphs: "IPSORUM TUNC MANIBUS IMPERATORUM
COLEBANTUR AGRI: UT FAS EST CREDERE, GAUDENTE TERRA VOMERE LAUREATO ET
TRIUMPHALI ARATORE." (1) It was only after slaves became extensively
employed in all departments of industry that labour came to be
regarded as dishonourable and servile. And so soon as indolence and
luxury became the characteristics of the ruling classes of Rome, the
downfall of the empire, sooner or later, was inevitable.
There is, perhaps, no tendency of our nature that has to be more
carefully guarded against than indolence. When Mr. Gurney asked an
intelligent foreigner who had travelled over the greater part of the
world, whether he had observed any one quality which, more than
another, could be regarded as a universal characteristic of our
species, his answer was, in broken English, "Me tink dat all men LOVE
LAZY." It is characteristic of the savage as of the despot. It is
natural to men to endeavour to enjoy the products of labour without
its toils. Indeed, so universal is this desire, that James Mill has
argued that it was to prevent its indulgence at the expense of society
at large, that the expedient of Government was originally invented.
(2)
Indolence is equally degrading to individuals as to nations. Sloth
never made its mark in the world, and never will. Sloth never climbed
a hill, nor overcame a difficulty that it could avoid. Indolence
always failed in life, and always will. It is in the nature of things
that it should not succeed in anything. It is a burden, an
incumbrance, and a nuisance--always useless, complaining, melancholy,
and miserable.
Burton, in his quaint and curious, book--the only one, Johnson
says, that ever took him out of bed two hours sooner than he wished
to rise--describes the causes of Melancholy as hingeing mainly on
Idleness. "Idleness," he says, "is the bane of body and mind, the
nurse of naughtiness, the chief mother of all mischief, one of the
seven deadly sins, the devil's cushion, his pillow and chief
reposal.... An idle dog will be mangy; and how shall an idle person
escape? Idleness of the mind is much worse than that of the body: wit,
without employment, is a disease--the rust of the soul, a plague, a
hell itself. As in a standing pool, worms and filthy creepers
increase, so do evil and corrupt thoughts in an idle person; the soul
is contaminated.... Thus much I dare boldly say: he or she that is
idle, be they of what condition they will, never so rich, so well
allied, fortunate, happy--let them have all things in abundance and
felicity that heart can wish and desire, all contentment--so long as
he, or she, or they, are idle, they shall never be pleased, never well
in body or mind, but weary still, sickly still, vexed still, loathing
still, weeping, sighing, grieving, suspecting, offended with the
world, with every object, wishing themselves gone or dead, or else
carried away with some foolish phantasie or other." (3)
Burton says a great deal more to the same effect; the burden and
lesson of his book being embodied in the pregnant sentence with which
it winds up:- "Only take this for a corollary and conclusion, as thou
tenderest thine own welfare in this, and all other melancholy, thy
good health of body and mind, observe this short precept, Give not way
to solitariness and idleness. BE NOT SOLITARY--BE NOT IDLE." (4)
The indolent, however, are not wholly indolent. Though the body
may shirk labour, the brain is not idle. If it do not grow corn, it
will grow thistles, which will be found springing up all along the
idle man's course in life. The ghosts of indolence rise up in the
dark, ever staring the recreant in the face, and tormenting him:
"The gods are just, and of our pleasant vices, Make instrument to
scourge us."
True happiness is never found in torpor of the faculties, (5) but
in their action and useful employment. It is indolence that
exhausts, not action, in which there is life, health, and pleasure.
The spirits may be exhausted and wearied by employment, but they are
utterly wasted by idleness. Hense a wise physician was accustomed to
regard occupation as one of his most valuable remedial measures.
"Nothing is so injurious," said Dr. Marshall Hall, "as unoccupied
time." An archbishop of Mayence used to say that "the human heart is
like a millstone: if you put wheat under it, it grinds the wheat into
flour; if you put no wheat, it grinds on, but then 'tis itself it
wears away."
Indolence is usually full of excuses; and the sluggard, though
unwilling to work, is often an active sophist. "There is a lion in
the path ;" or "The hill is hard to climb;" or "There is no use
trying--I have tried, and failed, and cannot do it." To the
sophistries of such an excuser, Sir Samuel Romilly once wrote to a
young man:- "My attack upon your indolence, loss of time, was most
serious, and I really think that it can be to nothing but your
habitual want of exertion that can be ascribed your using such curious
arguments as you do in your defence. Your theory is this: Every man
does all the good that he can. If a particular individual does no
good, it is a proof that he is incapable of doing it. That you don't
write proves that you can't; and your want of inclination demonstrates
your want of talents. What an admirable system!--and what beneficial
effects would it be attended with, if it were but universally
received!"
It has been truly said, that to desire to possess, without being
burdened with the trouble of acquiring, is as much a sign of
weakness, as to recognise that everything worth having is only to be
got by paying its price, is the prime secret of practical strength.
Even leisure cannot be enjoyed unless it is won by effort. If it
have not been earned by work, the price has not been paid for it. (6)
There must be work before and work behind, with leisure to fall
back upon; but the leisure, without the work, can no more be enjoyed
than a surfeit. Life must needs be disgusting alike to the idle rich
man as to the idle poor man, who has no work to do, or, having work,
will not do it. The words found tattooed on the right arm of a
sentimental beggar of forty, undergoing his eighth imprisonment in the
gaol of Bourges in France, might be adopted as the motto of all
idlers: "LE PASSE M'A TROMPE; LE PRESENT ME TOURMENTE; L'AVENIR
M'EPOUVANTE;"--(The past has deceived me; the present torments me; the
future terrifies me)
The duty of industry applies to all classes and conditions of
society. All have their work to do in the irrespective conditions of
life--the rich as well as the poor. (7) The gentleman by birth and
education, however richly he may be endowed with worldly possessions,
cannot but feel that he is in duty bound to contribute his quota of
endeavour towards the general wellbeing in which he shares. He cannot
be satisfied with being fed, clad, and maintained by the labour of
others, without making some suitable return to the society that
upholds him. An honest highminded man would revolt at the idea of
sitting down to and enjoying a feast, and then going away without
paying his share of the reckoning. To be idle and useless is neither
an honour nor a privilege; and though persons of small natures may be
content merely to consume-- FRUGES CONSUMERE NATI--men of average
endowment, of manly aspirations, and of honest purpose, will feel such
a condition to be incompatible with real honour and true dignity.
"I don't believe," said Lord Stanley (now Earl of Derby) at
Glasgow, "that an unemployed man, however amiable and otherwise
respectable, ever was, or ever can be, really happy. As work is our
life, show me what you can do, and I will show you what you are. I
have spoken of love of one's work as the best preventive of merely low
and vicious tastes. I will go further, and say that it is the best
preservative against petty anxieties, and the annoyances that arise
out of indulged self-love. Men have thought before now that they
could take refuge from trouble and vexation by sheltering themselves
as it were in a world of their own. The experiment has, often been
tried, and always with one result. You cannot escape from anxiety and
labour--it is the destiny of humanity.... Those who shirk from facing
trouble, find that trouble comes to them. The indolent may contrive
that he shall have less than his share of the world's work to do, but
Nature proportioning the instinct to the work, contrives that the
little shall be much and hard to him. The man who has only himself to
please finds, sooner or later, and probably sooner than later, that
he has got a very hard master; and the excessive weakness which
shrinks from responsibility has its own punishment too, for where
great interests are excluded little matters become great, and the same
wear and tear of mind that might have been at least usefully and
healthfully expended on the real business of life is often wasted in
petty and imaginary vexations, such as breed and multiply in the
unoccupied brain." (8)
Even on the lowest ground--that of personal enjoyment--constant
useful occupation is necessary. He who labours not, cannot enjoy the
reward of labour. "We sleep sound," said Sir Walter Scott, "and our
waking hours are happy, when they are employed; and a little sense of
toil is necessary to the enjoyment of leisure, even when earned by
study and sanctioned by the discharge of duty."
It is true, there are men who die of overwork; but many more die
of selfishness, indulgence, and idleness. Where men break down by
overwork, it is most commonly from want of duly ordering their lives,
and neglect of the ordinary conditions of physical health. Lord
Stanley was probably right when he said, in his address to the Glasgow
students above mentioned, that he doubted whether "hard work, steadily
and regularly carried on, ever yet hurt anybody."
Then, again, length of YEARS is no proper test of length of LIFE.
A man's life is to be measured by what he does in it, and what he
feels in it. The more useful work the man does, and the more he
thinks and feels, the more he really lives. The idle useless man, no
matter to what extent his life may be prolonged, merely vegetates.
The early teachers of Christianity ennobled the lot of toil by
their example. "He that will not work," said Saint Paul, "neither
shall he eat;" and he glorified himself in that he had laboured with
his hands, and had not been chargeable to any man. When St. Boniface
landed in Britain, he came with a gospel in one hand and a carpenter's
rule in the other; and from England he afterwards passed over into
Germany, carrying thither the art of building. Luther also, in the
midst of a multitude of other employments, worked diligently for a
living, earning his bread by gardening, building, turning, and even
clockmaking. (9)
It was characteristic of Napoleon, when visiting a work of
mechanical excellence, to pay great respect to the inventor, and on
taking his leave, to salute him with a low bow. Once at St. Helena,
when walking with Mrs. Balcombe, some servants came along carrying a
load. The lady, in an angry tone, ordered them out of the way, on
which Napoleon interposed, saying, "Respect the burden, madam." Even
the drudgery of the humblest labourer contributes towards the general
wellbeing of society; and it was a wise saying of a Chinese Emperor,
that "if there was a man who did not work, or a woman that was idle,
somebody must suffer cold or hunger in the empire."
The habit of constant useful occupation is as essential for the
happiness and wellbeing of woman as of man. Without it, women are
apt to sink into a state of listless ENNUI and uselessness,
accompanied by sick headache and attacks of "nerves." Caroline
Perthes carefully warned her married daughter Louisa to beware of
giving way to such listlessness. "I myself," she said, "when the
children are gone out for a half-holiday, sometimes feel as stupid
and dull as an owl by daylight; but one must not yield to this, which
happens more or less to all young wives. The best relief is WORK,
engaged in with interest and diligence. Work, then, constantly and
diligently, at something or other; for idleness is the devil's snare
for small and great, as your grandfather says, and he says true." (10)
Constant useful occupation is thus wholesome, not only for the
body, but for the mind. While the slothful man drags himself
indolently through life, and the better part of his nature sleeps a
deep sleep, if not morally and spiritually dead, the energetic man is
a source of activity and enjoyment to all who come within reach of his
influence. Even any ordinary drudgery is better than idleness.
Fuller says of Sir Francis Drake, who was early sent to sea, and kept
close to his work by his master, that such "pains and patience in his
youth knit the joints of his soul, and made them more solid and
compact." Schiller used to say that he considered it a great
advantage to be employed in the discharge of some daily mechanical
duty--some regular routine of work, that rendered steady application
necessary.
Thousands can bear testimony to the truth of the saying of Greuze,
the French painter, that work--employment, useful occupation--is one
of the great secrets of happiness. Casaubon was once induced by the
entreaties of his friends to take a few days entire rest, but he
returned to his work with the remark, that it was easier to bear
illness doing something, than doing nothing.
When Charles Lamb was released for life from his daily drudgery of
desk-work at the India Office, he felt himself the happiest of men.
"I would not go back to my prison," he said to a friend, "ten years
longer, for ten thousand pounds." He also wrote in the same ecstatic
mood to Bernard Barton: "I have scarce steadiness of head to compose a
letter," he said; "I am free! free as air! I will live another fifty
years.... Would I could sell you some of my leisure! Positively the
best thing a man can do is--Nothing; and next to that, perhaps, Good
Works." Two years--two long and tedious years passed; and Charles
Lamb's feelings had undergone an entire change. He now discovered
that official, even humdrum work --"the appointed round, the daily
task"--had been good for him, though he knew it not. Time had
formerly been his friend; it had now become his enemy. To Bernard
Barton he again wrote: "I assure you, NO work is worse than overwork;
the mind preys on itself-- the most unwholesome of food. I have
ceased to care for almost anything.... Never did the waters of heaven
pour down upon a forlorner head. What I can do, and overdo, is to
walk. I am a sanguinary murderer of time. But the oracle is silent."
No man could be more sensible of the practical importance of
industry than Sir Walter Scott, who was himself one of the most
laborious and indefatigable of men. Indeed, Lockhart says of him
that, taking all ages and countries together, the rare example of
indefatigable energy, in union with serene self-possession of mind
and manner, such as Scott's, must be sought for in the roll of great
sovereigns or great captains, rather than in that of literary genius.
Scott himself was most anxious to impress upon the minds of his own
children the importance of industry as a means of usefulness and
happiness in the world. To his son Charles, when at school, he
wrote:- "I cannot too much impress upon your mind that LABOUR is the
condition which God has imposed on us in every station of life; there
is nothing worth having that can be had without it, from the bread
which the peasant wins with the sweat of his brow, to the sports by
which the rich man must get rid of his ENNUI.... As for knowledge, it
can no more be planted in the human mind without labour than a field
of wheat can be produced without the previous use of the plough.
There is, indeed, this great difference, that chance or circumstances
may so cause it that another shall reap what the farmer sows; but no
man can be deprived, whether by accident or misfortune, of the fruits
of his own studies; and the liberal and extended acquisitions of
knowledge which he makes are all for his own use. Labour, therefore,
my dear boy, and improve the time. In youth our steps are light, and
our minds are ductile, and knowledge is easily laid up; but if we
neglect our spring, our summers will be useless and contemptible, our
harvest will be chaff, and the winter of our old age unrespected and
desolate." (11)
Southey was as laborious a worker as Scott. Indeed, work might
almost be said to form part of his religion. He was only nineteen
when he wrote these words:- "Nineteen years! certainly a fourth part
of my life; perhaps how great a part! and yet I have been of no
service to society. The clown who scares crows for twopence a day is
a more useful man; he preserves the bread which I eat in idleness."
And yet Southey had not been idle as a boy--on the contrary, he had
been a most diligent student. He had not only read largely in English
literature, but was well acquainted, through translations, with Tasso,
Ariosto, Homer, and Ovid. He felt, however, as if his life had been
purposeless, and he determined to do something. He began, and from
that time forward he pursued an unremitting career of literary labour
down to the close of his life--"daily progressing in learning," to use
his own words--"not so learned as he is poor, not so poor as proud,
not so proud as happy."
The maxims of men often reveal their character. (12) That of Sir
Walter Scott was, "Never to be doing nothing." Robertson the
historian, as early as his fifteenth year, adopted the maxim of "VITA
SINE LITERIS MORS EST" (Life without learning is death). Voltaire's
motto was, "TOUJOURS AU TRAVAIL" (Always at work). The favourite
maxim of Lacepede, the naturalist, was, "VIVRE C'EST VEILLER" (To live
is to observe): it was also the maxim of Pliny. When Bossuet was at
college, he was so distinguished by his ardour in study, that his
fellow students, playing upon his name, designated him as "BOS-SUETUS
ARATRO" (The ox used to the plough). The name of VITA-LIS (Life a
struggle), which the Swedish poet Sjoberg assumed, as Frederik von
Hardenberg assumed that of NOVA- LIS, described the aspirations and
the labours of both these men of genius.
We have spoken of work as a discipline: it is also an educator of
character. Even work that produces no results, because it IS work,
is better than torpor,--inasmuch as it educates faculty, and is thus
preparatory to successful work. The habit of working teaches method.
It compels economy of time, and the disposition of it with judicious
forethought. And when the art of packing life with useful occupations
is once acquired by practice, every minute will be turned to account;
and leisure, when it comes, will be enjoyed with all the greater zest.
Coleridge has truly observed, that "if the idle are described as
killing time, the methodical man may be justly said to call it into
life and moral being, while he makes it the distinct object not only
of the consciousness, but of the conscience. He organizes the hours
and gives them a soul; and by that, the very essence of which is to
fleet and to have been, he communicates an imperishable and spiritual
nature. Of the good and faithful servant, whose energies thus
directed are thus methodized, it is less truly affirmed that he lives
in time than that time lives in him. His days and months and years,
as the stops and punctual marks in the record of duties performed,
will survive the wreck of worlds, and remain extant when time itself
shall be no more." (13)
It is because application to business teaches method most
effectually, that it is so useful as an educator of character. The
highest working qualities are best trained by active and sympathetic
contact with others in the affairs of daily life. It does not matter
whether the business relate to the management of a household or of a
nation. Indeed, as we have endeavoured to show in a preceding
chapter, the able housewife must necessarily be an efficient woman of
business. She must regulate and control the details of her home, keep
her expenditure within her means, arrange everything according to plan
and system, and wisely manage and govern those subject to her rule.
Efficient domestic management implies industry, application, method,
moral discipline, forethought, prudence, practical ability, insight
into character, and power of organization--all of which are required
in the efficient management of business of whatever sort.
Business qualities have, indeed, a very large field of action.
They mean aptitude for affairs, competency to deal successfully with
the practical work of life--whether the spur of action lie in domestic
management, in the conduct of a profession, in trade or commerce, in
social organization, or in political government. And the training
which gives efficiency in dealing with these various affairs is of all
others the most useful in practical life. (14) Moreover, it is the
best discipline of character; for it involves the exercise of
diligence, attention, self-denial, judgment, tact, knowledge of and
sympathy with others.
Such a discipline is far more productive of happiness5 as well as
useful efficiency in life, than any amount of literary culture or
meditative seclusion; for in the long run it will usually be found
that practical ability carries it over intellect, and temper and
habits over talent. It must, however, he added that this is a kind
of culture that can only be acquired by diligent observation and
carefully improved experience. "To be a good blacksmith," said
General Trochu in a recent publication, "one must have forged all his
life: to be a good administrator one should have passed his whole life
in the study and practice of business."
It was characteristic of Sir Walter Scott to entertain the highest
respect for able men of business; and he professed that he did not
consider any amount of literary distinction as entitled to be spoken
of in the same breath with a mastery in the higher departments of
practical life--least of all with a first-rate captain.
The great commander leaves nothing to chance, but provides for
every contingency. He condescends to apparently trivial details.
Thus, when Wellington was at the head of his army in Spain, he
directed the precise manner in which the soldiers were to cook their
provisions. When in India, he specified the exact speed at which the
bullocks were to be driven; every detail in equipment was carefully
arranged beforehand. And thus not only was efficiency secured, but
the devotion of his men, and their boundless confidence in his
command. (15)
Like other great captains, Wellington had an almost boundless
capacity for work. He drew up the heads of a Dublin Police Bill
(being still the Secretary for Ireland), when tossing off the mouth
of the Mondego, with Junot and the French army waiting for him on the
shore. So Caesar, another of the greatest commanders, is said to have
written an essay on Latin Rhetoric while crossing the Alps at the head
of his army. And Wallenstein when at the head of 60,000 men, and in
the midst of a campaign with the enemy before him, dictated from
headquarters the medical treatment of his poultry-yard.
Washington, also, was an indefatigable man of business. From his
boyhood he diligently trained himself in habits of application, of
study, and of methodical work. His manuscript school-books, which
are still preserved, show that, as early as the age of thirteen, he
occupied himself voluntarily in copying out such things as forms of
receipts, notes of hand, bills of exchange, bonds, indentures, leases,
land-warrants, and other dry documents, all written out with great
care. And the habits which he thus early acquired were, in a great
measure, the foundation of those admirable business qualities which he
afterwards so successfully brought to bear in the affairs of
government.
The man or woman who achieves success in the management of any
great affair of business is entitled to honour,--it may be, to as
much as the artist who paints a picture, or the author who writes a
book, or the soldier who wins a battle. Their success may have been
gained in the face of as great difficulties, and after as great
struggles; and where they have won their battle, it is at least a
peaceful one, and there is no blood on their hands.
The idea has been entertained by some, that business habits are
incompatible with genius. In the Life of Richard Lovell Edgeworth,
(16) it is observed of a Mr. Bicknell--a respectable but ordinary man,
of whom little is known but that he married Sabrina Sidney, the ELEVE
of Thomas Day, author of 'Sandford and Merton'--that "he had some of
the too usual faults of a man of genius: he detested the drudgery of
business." But there cannot be a greater mistake. The greatest
geniuses have, without exception, been the greatest workers, even to
the extent of drudgery. They have not only worked harder than
ordinary men, but brought to their work higher faculties and a more
ardent spirit. Nothing great and durable was ever improvised. It is
only by noble patience and noble labour that the masterpieces of
genius have been achieved.
Power belongs only to the workers; the idlers are always
powerless. It is the laborious and painstaking men who are the
rulers of the world. There has not been a statesman of eminence but
was a man of industry. "It is by toil," said even Louis XIV., "that
kings govern." When Clarendon described Hampden, he spoke of him as
"of an industry and vigilance not to be tired out or wearied by the
most laborious, and of parts not to be imposed on by the most subtle
and sharp, and of a personal courage equal to his best parts." While
in the midst of his laborious though self- imposed duties, Hampden, on
one occasion, wrote to his mother: "My lyfe is nothing but toyle, and
hath been for many yeares, nowe to the Commonwealth, nowe to the
Kinge.... Not so much tyme left as to doe my dutye to my deare
parents, nor to sende to them." Indeed, all the statesmen of the
Commonwealth were great toilers; and Clarendon himself, whether in
office or out of it, was a man of indefatigable application and
industry.
The same energetic vitality, as displayed in the power of working,
has distinguished all the eminent men in our own as well as in past
times. During the Anti-Corn Law movement, Cobden, writing to a
friend, described himself as "working like a horse, with not a moment
to spare." Lord Brougham was a remarkable instance of the
indefatigably active and laborious man; and it might be said of Lord
Palmerston, that he worked harder for success in his extreme old age
than he had ever done in the prime of his manhood-- preserving his
working faculty, his good-humour and BONHOMMIE, unimpaired to the end.
(17) He himself was accustomed to say, that being in office, and
consequently full of work, was good for his health. It rescued him
from ENNUI. Helvetius even held, that it is man's sense of ENNUI that
is the chief cause of his superiority over the brute,--that it is the
necessity which he feels for escaping from its intolerable suffering
that forces him to employ himself actively, and is hence the great
stimulus to human progress.
Indeed, this living principle of constant work, of abundant
occupation, of practical contact with men in the affairs of life, has
in all times been the best ripener of the energetic vitality of strong
natures. Business habits, cultivated and disciplined, are found alike
useful in every pursuit--whether in politics, literature, science, or
art. Thus, a great deal of the best literary work has been done by
men systematically trained in business pursuits. The same industry,
application, economy of time and labour, which have rendered them
useful in the one sphere of employment, have been found equally
available in the other.
Most of the early English writers were men of affairs, trained to
business; for no literary class as yet existed, excepting it might be
the priesthood. Chaucer, the father of English poetry, was first a
soldier, and afterwards a comptroller of petty customs. The office was
no sinecure either, for he had to write up all the records with his
own hand; and when he had done his "reckonings" at the custom-house,
he returned with delight to his favourite studies at home--poring over
his books until his eyes were "dazed" and dull.
The great writers in the reign of Elizabeth, during which there
was such a development of robust life in England, were not literary
men according to the modern acceptation of the word, but men of action
trained in business. Spenser acted as secretary to the Lord Deputy of
Ireland; Raleigh was, by turns, a courtier, soldier, sailor, and
discoverer; Sydney was a politician, diplomatist, and soldier; Bacon
was a laborious lawyer before he became Lord Keeper and Lord
Chancellor; Sir Thomas Browne was a physician in country practice at
Norwich; Hooker was the hardworking pastor of a country parish;
Shakspeare was the manager of a theatre, in which he was himself but
an indifferent actor, and he seems to have been even more careful of
his money investments than he was of his intellectual offspring. Yet
these, all men of active business habits, are among the greatest
writers of any age: the period of Elizabeth and James I. standing out
in the history of England as the era of its greatest literary
activity and splendour.
In the reign of Charles I., Cowley held various offices of trust
and confidence. He acted as private secretary to several of the
royalist leaders, and was afterwards engaged as private secretary to
the Queen, in ciphering and deciphering the correspondence which
passed between her and Charles I.; the work occupying all his days,
and often his nights, during several years. And while Cowley was thus
employed in the royal cause, Milton was employed by the Commonwealth,
of which he was the Latin secretary, and afterwards secretary to the
Lord Protector. Yet, in the earlier part of his life, Milton was
occupied in the humble vocation of a teacher. Dr. Johnson says, "that
in his school, as in everything else which he undertook, he laboured
with great diligence, there is no reason for doubting" It was after
the Restoration, when his official employment ceased, that Milton
entered upon the principal literary work of his life; but before he
undertook the writing of his great epic, he deemed it indispensable
that to "industrious and select reading" he should add "steady
observation" and "insight into all seemly and generous arts and
affairs." (18)
Locke held office in different reigns: first under Charles II. as
Secretary to the Board of Trade and afterwards under William III. as
Commissioner of Appeals and of Trade and Plantations. Many literary
men of eminence held office in Queen Anne's reign. Thus Addison was
Secretary of State; Steele, Commissioner of Stamps; Prior,
Under-Secretary of State, and afterwards Ambassador to France;
Tickell, Under-Secretary of State, and Secretary to the Lords Justices
of Ireland; Congreve, Secretary of Jamaica;, and Gay, Secretary of
Legation at Hanover.
Indeed, habits of business, instead of unfitting a cultivated mind
for scientific or literary pursuits, are often the best training for
them. Voltaire insisted with truth that the real spirit of business
and literature are the same; the perfection of each being the union of
energy and thoughtfulness, of cultivated intelligence and practical
wisdom, of the active and contemplative essence--a union commended by
Lord Bacon as the concentrated excellence of man's nature. It has
been said that even the man of genius can write nothing worth reading
in relation to human affairs, unless he has been in some way or other
connected with the serious everyday business of life.
Hence it has happened that many of the best books, extant have
been written by men of business, with whom literature was a pastime
rather than a profession. Gifford, the editor of the 'Quarterly,' who
knew the drudgery of writing for a living, once observed that "a
single hour of composition, won from the business of the day, is worth
more than the whole day's toil of him who works at the trade of
literature: in the one case, the spirit comes joyfully to refresh
itself, like a hart to the waterbrooks; in the other, it pursues its
miserable way, panting and jaded, with the dogs and hunger of
necessity behind." (19)
The first great men of letters in Italy were not mere men of
letters; they were men of business--merchants, statesmen,
diplomatists, judges, and soldiers. Villani, the author of the best
History of Florence, was a merchant; Dante, Petrarch, and Boccacio,
were all engaged in more or less important embassies; and Dante,
before becoming a diplomatist, was for some time occupied as a chemist
and druggist. Galileo, Galvani, and Farini were physicians, and
Goldoni a lawyer. Ariosto's talent for affairs was as great as his
genius for poetry. At the death of his father, he was called upon to
manage the family estate for the benefit of his younger brothers and
sisters, which he did with ability and integrity. His genius for
business having been recognised, he was employed by the Duke of
Ferrara on important missions to Rome and elsewhere. Having
afterwards been appointed governor of a turbulent mountain district,
he succeeded, by firm and just governments in reducing it to a
condition of comparative good order and security. Even the bandits of
the country respected him. Being arrested one day in the mountains by
a body of outlaws, he mentioned his name, when they at once offered to
escort him in safety wherever he chose.
It has been the same in other countries. Vattel, the author of
the 'Rights of Nations,' was a practical diplomatist, and a first-
rate man of business. Rabelais was a physician, and a successful
practitioner; Schiller was a surgeon; Cervantes, Lope de Vega,
Calderon, Camoens, Descartes, Maupertius, La Rochefoucauld, Lacepede,
Lamark, were soldiers in the early part of their respective lives.
In our own country, many men now known by their writings, earned
their living by their trade. Lillo spent the greater part of his
life as a working jeweller in the Poultry; occupying the intervals of
his leisure in the production of dramatic works, some of them of
acknowledged power and merit. Izaak Walton was a linendraper in Fleet
Street, reading much in his leisure hours, and storing his mind with
facts for future use in his capacity of biographer. De Foe was by
turns horse-factor, brick and tile maker, shopkeeper, author, and
political agent.
Samuel Richardson successfully combined literature, with business;
writing his novels in his back-shop in Salisbury Court, Fleet Street,
and selling them over the counter in his front-shop. William Hutton,
of Birmingham, also successfully combined the occupations of
bookselling and authorship. He says, in his Autobiography, that a man
may live half a century and not be acquainted with his own character.
He did not know that he was an antiquary until the world informed him
of it, from having read his 'History of Birmingham,' and then, he
said, he could see it himself. Benjamin Franklin was alike eminent as
a printer and bookseller--an author, a philosopher and a statesman.
Coming down to our own time, we find Ebenezer Elliott successfully
carrying on the business of a bar-iron merchant in Sheffield, during
which time he wrote and published the greater number of his poems; and
his success in business was such as to enable him to retire into the
country and build a house of his own, in which he spent the remainder
of his days. Isaac Taylor, the author of the 'Natural History of
Enthusiasm,' was an engraver of patterns for Manchester
calico-printers; and other members of this gifted family were
followers of the same branch of art.
The principal early works of John Stuart Mill were written in the
intervals of official work, while he held the office of principal
examiner in the East India House,--in which Charles Lamb, Peacock the
author of 'Headlong Hall,' and Edwin Norris the philologist, were also
clerks. Macaulay wrote his 'Lays of Ancient Rome' in the War Office,
while holding the post of Secretary of War. It is well known that the
thoughtful writings of Mr. Helps are literally "Essays written in the
Intervals of Business." Many of our best living authors are men
holding important public offices--such as Sir Henry Taylor, Sir John
Kaye, Anthony Trollope, Tom Taylor, Matthew Arnold, and Samuel Warren.
Mr. Proctor the poet, better known as "Barry Cornwall," was a
barrister and commissioner in lunacy. Most probably he assumed the
pseudonym for the same reason that Dr. Paris published his 'Philosophy
in Sport made Science in Earnest' anonymously-- because he apprehended
that, if known, it might compromise his professional position. For it
is by no means an uncommon prejudice, still prevalent amongst City
men, that a person who has written a book, and still more one who has
written a poem, is good for nothing in the way of business. Yet
Sharon Turner, though an excellent historian, was no worse a solicitor
on that account; while the brothers Horace and James Smith, authors of
'The Rejected Addresses,' were men of such eminence in their
profession, that they were selected to fill the important and
lucrative post of solicitors to the Admiralty, and they filled it
admirably.
It was while the late Mr. Broderip, the barrister, was acting as a
London police magistrate, that he was attracted to the study of
natural history, in which he occupied the greater part of his
leisure. He wrote the principal articles on the subject for the
'Penny Cyclopaedia,' besides several separate works of great merit,
more particularly the 'Zoological Recreations,' and 'Leaves from the
Notebook of a Naturalist.' It is recorded of him that, though he
devoted so much of his time to the production of his works, as well as
to the Zoological Society and their admirable establishment in
Regent's Park, of which he was one of the founders, his studies never
interfered with the real business of his life, nor is it known that a
single question was ever raised upon his conduct or his decisions.
And while Mr. Broderip devoted himself to natural history, the late
Lord Chief Baron Pollock devoted his leisure to natural science,
recreating himself in the practice of photography and the study of
mathematics, in both of which he was thoroughly proficient.
Among literary bankers we find the names of Rogers, the poet;
Roscoe, of Liverpool, the biographer of Lorenzo de Medici; Ricardo,
the author of 'Political Economy and Taxation; (20) Grote, the author
of the 'History of Greece;' Sir John Lubbock, the scientific
antiquarian; (21) and Samuel Bailey, of Sheffield, the author of
'Essays on the Formation and Publication of Opinions,' besides various
important works on ethics, political economy, and philosophy.
Nor, on the other hand, have thoroughly-trained men of science and
learning proved themselves inefficient as first-rate men of business.
Culture of the best sort trains the habit of application and
industry, disciplines the mind, supplies it with resources, and gives
it freedom and vigour of action--all of which are equally requisite in
the successful conduct of business. Thus, in young men, education and
scholarship usually indicate steadiness of character, for they imply
continuous attention, diligence, and the ability and energy necessary
to master knowledge; and such persons will also usually be found
possessed of more than average promptitude, address, resource, and
dexterity.
Montaigne has said of true philosophers, that "if they were great
in science, they were yet much greater in action;... and whenever
they have been put upon the proof, they have been seen to fly to so
high a pitch, as made it very well appear their souls were strangely
elevated and enriched with the knowledge of things." (22)
At the same time, it must be acknowledged that too exclusive a
devotion to imaginative and philosophical literature, especially if
prolonged in life until the habits become formed, does to a great
extent incapacitate a man for the business of practical life.
Speculative ability is one thing, and practical ability another; and
the man who, in his study, or with his pen in hand, shows himself
capable of forming large views of life and policy, may, in the outer
world, be found altogether unfitted for carrying them into practical
effect.
Speculative ability depends on vigorous thinking--practical
ability on vigorous acting; and the two qualities are usually found
combined in very unequal proportions. The speculative man is prone to
indecision: he sees all the sides of a question, and his action
becomes suspended in nicely weighing the pros and cons, which are
often found pretty nearly to balance each other; whereas the practical
man overleaps logical preliminaries, arrives at certain definite
convictions, and proceeds forthwith to carry his policy into action.
(23)
Yet there have been many great men of science who have proved
efficient men of business. We do not learn that Sir Isaac Newton
made a worse Master of the Mint because he was the greatest of
philosophers. Nor were there any complaints as to the efficiency of
Sir John Herschel, who held the same office. The brothers Humboldt
were alike capable men in all that they undertook-- whether it was
literature, philosophy, mining, philology, diplomacy, or
statesmanship.
Niebuhr, the historian, was distinguished for his energy and
success as a man of business. He proved so efficient as secretary
and accountant to the African consulate, to which he had been
appointed by the Danish Government, that he was afterwards selected
as one of the commissioners to manage the national finances; and he
quitted that office to undertake the joint directorship of a bank at
Berlin. It was in the midst of his business occupations that he found
time to study Roman history, to master the Arabic, Russian, and other
Sclavonic languages, and to build up the great reputation as an author
by which he is now chiefly remembered.
Having regard to the views professed by the First Napoleon as to
men of science, it was to have been expected that he would endeavour
to strengthen his administration by calling them to his aid. Some of
his appointments proved failures, while others were completely
successful. Thus Laplace was made Minister of the Interior; but he
had no sooner been appointed than it was seen that a mistake had been
made. Napoleon afterwards said of him, that "Laplace looked at no
question in its true point of view. He was always searching after
subtleties; all his ideas were problems, and he carried the spirit of
the infinitesimal calculus into the management of business." But
Laplace's habits had been formed in the study, and he was too old to
adapt them to the purposes of practical life.
With Darn it was different. But Darn had the advantage of some
practical training in business, having served as an intendant of the
army in Switzerland under Massena, during which he also distinguished
himself as an author. When Napoleon proposed to appoint him a
councillor of state and intendant of the Imperial Household, Darn
hesitated to accept the office. "I have passed the greater part of my
life," he said, "among books, and have not had time to learn the
functions of a courtier." "Of courtiers," replied Napoleon, "I have
plenty about me; they will never fail. But I want a minister, at once
enlightened, firm, and vigilant; and it is for these qualities that I
have selected you." Darn complied with the Emperor's wishes, and
eventually became his Prime Minister, proving thoroughly efficient in
that capacity, and remaining the same modest, honourable, and
disinterested man that he had ever been through life.
Men of trained working faculty so contract the habit of labour
that idleness becomes intolerable to them; and when driven by
circumstances from their own special line of occupation, they find
refuge in other pursuits. The diligent man is quick to find
employment for his leisure; and he is able to make leisure when the
idle man finds none. "He hath no leisure," says George Herbert, "who
useth it not." "The most active or busy man that hath been or can
be," says Bacon, "hath, no question, many vacant times of leisure,
while he expecteth the tides and returns of business, except he be
either tedious and of no despatch, or lightly and unworthily ambitious
to meddle with things that may be better done by others." Thus many
great things have been done during such "vacant times of leisure," by
men to whom industry had become a second nature, and who found it
easier to work than to be idle.
Even hobbies are useful as educators of the working faculty.
Hobbies evoke industry of a certain kind, and at least provide
agreeable occupation. Not such hobbies as that of Domitian, who
occupied himself in catching flies. The hobbies of the King of
Macedon who made lanthorns, and of the King of France who made locks,
were of a more respectable order. Even a routine mechanical
employment is felt to be a relief by minds acting under high-pressure:
it is an intermission of labour--a rest--a relaxation, the pleasure
consisting in the work itself rather than in the result.
But the best of hobbies are intellectual ones. Thus men of active
mind retire from their daily business to find recreation in other
pursuits--some in science, some in art, and the greater number in
literature. Such recreations are among the best preservatives
against selfishness and vulgar worldliness. We believe it was Lord
Brougham who said, "Blessed is the man that hath a hobby!" and in the
abundant versatility of his nature, he himself had many, ranging from
literature to optics, from history and biography to social science.
Lord Brougham is even said to have written a novel; and the
remarkable story of the 'Man in the Bell,' which appeared many years
ago in 'Blackwood,' is reputed to have been from his pen.
Intellectual hobbies, however, must not be ridden too hard--else,
instead of recreating, refreshing, and invigorating a man's nature,
they may only have the effect of sending him back to his business
exhausted, enervated, and depressed.
Many laborious statesmen besides Lord Brougham have occupied their
leisure, or consoled themselves in retirement from office, by the
composition of works which have become part of the standard
literature of the world. Thus 'Caesar's Commentaries' still survive
as a classic; the perspicuous and forcible style in which they are
written placing him in the same rank with Xenophon, who also
successfully combined the pursuit of letters with the business of
active life.
When the great Sully was disgraced as a minister, and driven into
retirement, he occupied his leisure in writing out his 'Memoirs,' in
anticipation of the judgment of posterity upon his career as a
statesman. Besides these, he also composed part of a romance after
the manner of the Scuderi school, the manuscript of which was found
amongst his papers at his death.
Turgot found a solace for the loss of office, from which he had
been driven by the intrigues of his enemies, in the study of physical
science. He also reverted to his early taste for classical
literature. During his long journeys, and at nights when tortured by
the gout, he amused himself by making Latin verses; though the only
line of his that has been preserved was that intended to designate the
portrait of Benjamin Franklin:
"Eripuit caelo fulmen, sceptrumque tyrannis."
Among more recent French statesmen--with whom, however, literature
has been their profession as much as politics--may be mentioned De
Tocqueville, Thiers, Guizot, and Lamartine, while Napoleon III.
challenged a place in the Academy by his 'Life of Caesar.'
Literature has also been the chief solace of our greatest English
statesmen. When Pitt retired from office, like his great
contemporary Fox, he reverted with delight to the study of the Greek
and Roman classics. Indeed, Grenville considered Pitt the best Greek
scholar he had ever known. Canning and Wellesley, when in retirement,
occupied themselves in translating the odes and satires of Horace.
Canning's passion for literature entered into all his pursuits, and
gave a colour to his whole life. His biographer says of him, that
after a dinner at Pitt's, while the rest of the company were dispersed
in conversation, he and Pitt would be observed poring over some old
Grecian in a corner of the drawing-room. Fox also was a diligent
student of the Greek authors, and, like Pitt, read Lycophron. He was
also the author of a History of James II., though the book is only a
fragment, and, it must be confessed, is rather a disappointing work.
One of the most able and laborious of our recent statesmen--with
whom literature was a hobby as well as a pursuit--was the late Sir
George Cornewall Lewis. He was an excellent man of business--
diligent, exact, and painstaking. He filled by turns the offices of
President of the Poor Law Board--the machinery of which he
created,--Chancellor of the Exchequer, Home Secretary, and Secretary
at War; and in each he achieved the reputation of a thoroughly
successful administrator. In the intervals of his official labours,
he occupied himself with inquiries into a wide range of
subjects--history, politics, philology, anthropology, and
antiquarianism. His works on 'The Astronomy of the Ancients,' and
'Essays on the Formation of the Romanic Languages,' might have been
written by the profoundest of German SAVANS. He took especial delight
in pursuing the abstruser branches of learning, and found in them his
chief pleasure and recreation. Lord Palmerston sometimes remonstrated
with him, telling him he was "taking too much out of himself" by
laying aside official papers after office-hours in order to study
books; Palmerston himself declaring that he had no time to read
books--that the reading of manuscript was quite enough for him.
Doubtless Sir George Lewis rode his hobby too hard, and but for
his devotion to study, his useful life would probably have been
prolonged. Whether in or out of office, he read, wrote, and studied.
He relinquished the editorship of the 'Edinburgh Review' to become
Chancellor of the Exchequer; and when no longer occupied in preparing
budgets, he proceeded to copy out a mass of Greek manuscripts at the
British Museum. He took particular delight in pursuing any difficult
inquiry in classical antiquity. One of the odd subjects with which he
occupied himself was an examination into the truth of reported cases
of longevity, which, according to his custom, he doubted or
disbelieved. This subject was uppermost in his mind while pursuing
his canvass of Herefordshire in 1852. On applying to a voter one day
for his support, he was met by a decided refusal. "I am sorry," was
the candidate's reply, "that you can't give me your vote; but perhaps
you can tell me whether anybody in your parish has died at an
extraordinary age!"
The contemporaries of Sir George Lewis also furnish many striking
instances of the consolations afforded by literature to statesmen
wearied with the toils of public life. Though the door of office may
be closed, that of literature stands always open, and men who are at
daggers-drawn in politics, join hands over the poetry of Homer and
Horace. The late Earl of Derby, on retiring from power, produced his
noble version of 'The Iliad,' which will probably continue to be read
when his speeches have been forgotten. Mr. Gladstone similarly
occupied his leisure in preparing for the press his 'Studies on
Homer,' (24) and in editing a translation of 'Farini's Roman State;'
while Mr. Disraeli signalised his retirement from office by the
production of his 'Lothair.' Among statesmen who have figured as
novelists, besides Mr. Disraeli, are Lord Russell, who has also
contributed largely to history and biography; the Marquis of Normanby,
and the veteran novelist, Lord Lytton, with whom, indeed, politics may
be said to have been his recreation, and literature the chief
employment of his life.
To conclude: a fair measure of work is good for mind as well as
body. Man is an intelligence sustained and preserved by bodily
organs, and their active exercise is necessary to the enjoyment of
health. It is not work, but overwork, that is hurtful; and it is not
hard work that is injurious so much as monotonous work, fagging work,
hopeless work. All hopeful work is healthful; and to be usefully and
hopefully employed is one of the great secrets of happiness.
Brain-work, in moderation, is no more wearing than any other kind of
work. Duly regulated, it is as promotive of health as bodily
exercise; and, where due attention is paid to the physical system, it
seems difficult to put more upon a man than he can bear. Merely to
eat and drink and sleep one's way idly through life is vastly more
injurious. The wear-and-tear of rust is even faster than the
tear-and-wear of work.
But overwork is always bad economy. It is, in fact, great waste,
especially if conjoined with worry. Indeed, worry kills far more
than work does. It frets, it excites, it consumes the body--as sand
and grit, which occasion excessive friction, wear out the wheels of a
machine. Overwork and worry have both to be guarded against. For
over-brain-work is strain-work; and it is exhausting and destructive
according as it is in excess of nature. And the brain-worker may
exhaust and overbalance his mind by excess, just as the athlete may
overstrain his muscles and break his back by attempting feats beyond
the strength of his physical system.
NOTES
(1)In the third chapter of his Natural History, Pliny relates in
what high honour agriculture was held in the earlier days of Rome; how
the divisions of land were measured by the quantity which could be
ploughed by a yoke of oxen in a certain time (JUGERUM, in one day;
ACTUS, at one spell); how the greatest recompence to a general or
valiant citizen was a JUGERUM; how the earliest surnames were derived
from agriculture (Pilumnus, from PILUM, the pestle for pounding corn;
Piso, from PISO, to grind coin; Fabius, from FABA, a bean; Lentulus,
from LENS, a lentil; Cicero, from CICER, a chickpea; Babulcus, from
BOS, how the highest compliment was to call a man a good
agriculturist, or a good husbandman (LOCUPLES, rich, LOCI PLENUS,
PECUNIA, from PECUS, how the pasturing of cattle secretly by night
upon unripe crops was a capital offence, punishable by hanging; how
the rural tribes held the foremost rank, while those of the city had
discredit thrown upon them as being an indolent race; and how "GLORIAM
DENIQUE IPSAM, A FARRIS HONORE, 'ADOREAM' APPELLABANT;" ADOREA, or
Glory, the reward of valour, being derived from Ador, or spelt, a
kind of grain.
(2) 'Essay on Government,' in 'Encyclopaedia Britannica.'
(3) Burton's 'Anatomy of Melancholy,' Part i., Mem. 2, Sub. 6.
(4) Ibid. End of concluding chapter.
(5) It is characteristic of the Hindoos to regard entire inaction
as the most perfect state, and to describe the Supreme Being as "The
Unmoveable."
(6) Lessing was so impressed with the conviction that stagnant
satisfaction was fatal to man, that he went so far as to say: "If the
All-powerful Being, holding in one hand Truth, and in the other the
search for Truth, said to me, 'Choose,' I would answer Him, 'O
All-powerful, keep for Thyself the Truth; but leave to me the search
for it, which is the better for me.'" On the other hand, Bossuet
said: "Si je concevais une nature purement intelligente, il me semble
que je n'y mettrais qu'entendre et aimer la verite, et que cela seul
la rendrait heureux."
(7) The late Sir John Patteson, when in his seventieth year,
attended an annual ploughing-match dinner at Feniton, Devon, at which
he thought it worth his while to combat the notion, still too
prevalent, that because a man does not work merely with his bones and
muscles, he is therefore not entitled to the appellation of a
workingman. "In recollecting similar meetings to the present," he
said, "I remember my friend, John Pyle, rather throwing it in my
teeth that I had not worked for nothing; but I told him, 'Mr. Pyle,
you do not know what you are talking about. We are all workers. The
man who ploughs the field and who digs the hedge is a worker; but
there are other workers in other stations of life as well. For
myself, I can say that I have been a worker ever since I have been a
boy.'... Then I told him that the office of judge was by no means a
sinecure, for that a judge worked as hard as any man in the country.
He has to work at very difficult questions of law, which are brought
before him continually, giving him great anxiety; and sometimes the
lives of his fellow-creatures are placed in his hands, and are
dependent very much upon the manner in which he places the facts
before the jury. That is a matter of no little anxiety, I can assure
you. Let any man think as he will, there is no man who has been
through the ordeal for the length of time that I have, but must feel
conscious of the importance and gravity of the duty which is cast upon
a judge."
(8) Lord Stanley's Address to the Students of Glasgow University,
on his installation as Lord Rector, 1869.
(9) Writing to an abbot at Nuremberg, who had sent him a store of
turning-tools, Luther said: "I have made considerable progress in
clockmaking, and I am very much delighted at it, for these drunken
Saxons need to be constantly reminded of what the real time is; not
that they themselves care much about it, for as long as their glasses
are kept filled, they trouble themselves very little as to whether
clocks, or clockmakers, or the time itself, go right."-- Michelet's
LUTHER (Bogue Ed.), p. 200.
(10) 'Life of Perthes," ii. 20.
(11) Lockhart's 'Life of Scott' (8vo. Ed.), p. 442.
(12) Southey expresses the opinion in 'The Doctor', that the
character of a person may be better known by the letters which other
persons write to him than by what he himself writes.
(13) 'Dissertation on the Science of Method.'
(14) The following passage, from a recent article in the PALL MALL
GAZETTE, will commend itself to general aproval:- "There can be no
question nowadays, that application to work, absorption in affairs,
contact with men, and all the stress which business imposes on us,
gives a noble training to the intellect, and splendid opportunity for
discipline of character. It is an utterly low view of business which
regards it as only a means of getting a living. A man's business is
his part of the world's work, his share of the great activities which
render society possible. He may like it or dislike it, but it is
work, and as such requires application, self-denial, discipline. It
is his drill, and he cannot be thorough in his occupation without
putting himself into it, checking his fancies, restraining his
impulses, and holding himself to the perpetual round of small
details-- without, in fact, submitting to his drill. But the
perpetual call on a man's readiness, sell-control, and vigour which
business makes, the constant appeal to the intellect, the stress upon
the will, the necessity for rapid and responsible exercise of judgment
--all these things constitute a high culture, though not the highest.
It is a culture which strengthens and invigorates if it does not
refine, which gives force if not polish--the FORTITER IN RE, if not
the SUAVITER IN MODO. It makes strong men and ready men, and men of
vast capacity for affairs, though it does not necessarily make refined
men or gentlemen."
(15) On the first publication of his 'Despatches,' one of his
friends said to him, on reading the records of his Indian campaigns:
"It seems to me, Duke, that your chief business in India was to
procure rice and bullocks." "And so it was," replied Wellington:
"for if I had rice and bullocks, I had men; and if I had men, I knew
I could beat the enemy."
(16) Maria Edgeworth, 'Memoirs of R. L. Edgeworth,' ii. 94.
(17) A friend of Lord Palmerston has communicated to us the
following anecdote. Asking him one day when he considered a man to be
in the prime of life, his immediate reply was, "Seventy-nine!" "But,"
he added, with a twinkle in his eye, "as I have just entered my
eightieth year, perhaps I am myself a little past it."
(18) 'Reasons of Church Government,' Book II.
(19) Coleridge's advice to his young friends was much to the same
effect. "With the exception of one extraordinary man," he says, "I
have never known an individual, least of all an individual of genius,
healthy or happy without a profession: i.e., some regular employment
which does not depend on the will of the moment, and which can be
carried on so far mechanically, that an average quantum only of
health, spirits, and intellectual exertion are requisite to its
faithful discharge. Three hours of leisure, unalloyed by any alien
anxiety, and looked forward to with delight as a change and
recreation, will suffice to realise in literature a larger product of
what is truly genial, than weeks of compulsion.... If facts are
required to prove the possibility of combining weighty performances in
literature with full and independent employment, the works of Cicero
and Xenophon, among the ancients--of Sir Thomas More, Bacon, Baxter,
or (to refer at once to later and contemporary instances) Darwin and
Roscoe, are at once decisive of the question." --BIOGRAPHIA
LITERARIA, Chap. xi.
(20) Mr. Ricardo published his celebrated 'Theory of Rent,' at the
urgent recommendation of James Mill (like his son, a chief clerk in
the India House), author of the 'History of British India.' When the
'Theory of Rent' was written, Ricardo was so dissatisfied with it that
he wished to burn it; but Mr. Mill urged him to publish it, and the
book was a great success.
(21) The late Sir John Lubbock, his father, was also eminent as a
mathematician and astronomer.
(22) Thales, once inveighing in discourse against the pains and
care men put themselves to, to become rich, was answered by one in the
company that he did like the fox, who found fault with what he could
not obtain. Thereupon Thales had a mind, for the jest's sake, to show
them the contrary; and having upon this occasion for once made a
muster of all his wits, wholly to employ them in the service of
profit, he set a traffic on foot, which in one year brought him in so
great riches, that the most experienced in that trade could hardly in
their whole lives, with all their industry, have raked so much
together. --Montaignes ESSAYS, Book I., chap. 24.
(23) "The understanding," says Mr. Bailey, "that is accustomed to
pursue a regular and connected train of ideas, becomes in some
measure incapacitated for those quick and versatile movements which
are learnt in the commerce of the world, and are indispensable to
those who act a part in it. Deep thinking and practical talents
require indeed habits of mind so essentially dissimilar, that while a
man is striving after the one, he will be unavoidably in danger of
losing the other." "Thence," he adds, "do we so often find men, who
are 'giants in the closet,' prove but 'children in the
world.'"--'Essays on the Formation and Publication of Opinions,'
pp.251-3.
(24) Mr. Gladstone is as great an enthusiast in literature as
Canning was. It is related of him that, while he was waiting in his
committee-room at Liverpool for the returns coming in on the day of
the South Lancashire polling, he occupied himself in proceeding with
the translation of a work which he was then preparing for the press.
"It is not but the tempest that doth show
The seaman's cunning; but the field that tries
The captain's courage; and we come to know
Best what men are, in their worst jeopardies."--DANIEL.
"If thou canst plan a noble deed,
And never flag till it succeed,
Though in the strife thy heart should bleed,
Whatever obstacles control,
Thine hour will come--go on, true soul!
Thou'lt win the prize, thou'lt reach the goal."--C. MACKAY.
"The heroic example of other days is in great part the source of
the courage of each generation; and men walk up composedly to the
most perilous enterprises, beckoned onwards by the shades of the
brave that were."--HELPS.
"That which we are, we are,
One equal temper of heroic hearts,
Made weak by time and fate, but strong in will
To strive, to seek, to find, and not to yield."--TENNYSON.
THE world owes much to its men and women of courage. We do not
mean physical courage, in which man is at least equalled by the
bulldog; nor is the bulldog considered the wisest of his species.
The courage that displays itself in silent effort and endeavour--
that dares to endure all and suffer all for truth and duty--is more
truly heroic than the achievements of physical valour, which are
rewarded by honours and titles, or by laurels sometimes steeped in
blood.
It is moral courage that characterises the highest order of
manhood and womanhood--the courage to seek and to speak the truth;
the courage to be just; the courage to be honest; the courage to
resist temptation; the courage to do one's duty. If men and women do
not possess this virtue, they have no security whatever for the
preservation of any other.
Every step of progress in the history of our race has been made in
the face of opposition and difficulty, and been achieved and secured
by men of intrepidity and valour--by leaders in the van of thought--by
great discoverers, great patriots, and great workers in all walks of
life. There is scarcely a great truth or doctrine but has had to
fight its way to public recognition in the face of detraction,
calumny, and persecution. "Everywhere," says Heine, "that a great
soul gives utterance to its thoughts, there also is a Golgotha."
"Many loved Truth and lavished life's best oil, Amid the dust of
books to find her, Content at last, for guerdon of their toil, With
the cast mantle she had left behind her. Many in sad faith sought for
her, Many with crossed hands sighed for her, But these, our brothers,
fought for her, At life's dear peril wrought for her, So loved her
that they died for her, Tasting the raptured fleetness Of her divine
completeness." (1)
Socrates was condemned to drink the hemlock at Athens in his
seventy-second year, because his lofty teaching ran counter to the
prejudices and party-spirit of his age. He was charged by his
accusers with corrupting the youth of Athens by inciting them to
despise the tutelary deities of the state. He had the moral courage
to brave not only the tyranny of the judges who condemned him, but of
the mob who could not understand him. He died discoursing of the
doctrine of the immortality of the soul; his last words to his judges
being, "It is now time that we depart--I to die, you to live; but
which has the better destiny is unknown to all, except to the God."
How many great men and thinkers have been persecuted in the name
of religion! Bruno was burnt alive at Rome, because of his exposure
of the fashionable but false philosophy of his time. When the judges
of the Inquisition condemned him, to die, Bruno said proudly: "You are
more afraid to pronounce my sentence than I am to receive it."
To him succeeded Galileo, whose character as a man of science is
almost eclipsed by that of the martyr. Denounced by the priests from
the pulpit, because of the views he taught as to the motion of the
earth, he was summoned to Rome, in his seventieth year, to answer for
his heterodoxy. And he was imprisoned in the Inquisition, if he was
not actually put to the torture there. He was pursued by persecution
even when dead, the Pope refusing a tomb for his body.
Roger Bacon, the Franciscan monk, was persecuted on account of his
studies in natural philosophy, and he was charged with, dealing in
magic, because of his investigations in chemistry. His writings were
condemned, and he was thrown into prison, where he lay for ten years,
during the lives of four successive Popes. It is even averred that he
died in prison.
Ockham, the early English speculative philosopher, was
excommunicated by the Pope, and died in exile at Munich, where he was
protected by the friendship of the then Emperor of Germany.
The Inquisition branded Vesalius as a heretic for revealing man to
man, as it had before branded Bruno and Galileo for revealing the
heavens to man. Vesalius had the boldness to study the structure of
the human body by actual dissection, a practice until then almost
entirely forbidden. He laid the foundations of a science, but he paid
for it with his life. Condemned by the Inquisition, his penalty was
commuted, by the intercession of the Spanish king, into a pilgrimage
to the Holy Land; and when on his way back, while still in the prime
of life, he died miserably at Zante, of fever and want--a martyr to
his love of science.
When the 'Novum Organon' appeared, a hue-and-cry was raised
against it, because of its alleged tendency to produce "dangerous
revolutions," to "subvert governments," and to "overturn the
authority of religion;" (2) and one Dr. Henry Stubbe (whose name
would otherwise have been forgotten) wrote a book against the new
philosophy, denouncing the whole tribe of experimentalists as "a
Bacon-faced generation." Even the establishment of the Royal Society
was opposed, on the ground that "experimental philosophy is subversive
of the Christian faith."
While the followers of Copernicus were persecuted as infidels,
Kepler was branded with the stigma of heresy, "because," said he, "I
take that side which seems to me to be consonant with the Word of
God." Even the pure and simpleminded Newton, of whom Bishop Burnet
said that he had the WHITEST SOUL he ever knew--who was a very infant
in the purity of his mind--even Newton was accused of "dethroning the
Deity" by his sublime discovery of the law of gravitation; and a
similar charge was made against Franklin for explaining the nature of
the thunderbolt.
Spinoza was excommunicated by the Jews, to whom he belonged,
because of his views of philosophy, which were supposed to be adverse
to religion; and his life was afterwards attempted by an assassin for
the same reason. Spinoza remained courageous and self-reliant to the
last, dying in obscurity and poverty.
The philosophy of Descartes was denounced as leading to
irreligion; the doctrines of Locke were said to produce materialism;
and in our own day, Dr. Buckland, Mr. Sedgwick, and other leading
geologists, have been accused of overturning revelation with regard to
the constitution and history of the earth. Indeed, there has scarcely
been a discovery in astronomy, in natural history, or in physical
science, that has not been attacked by the bigoted and narrow-minded
as leading to infidelity.
Other great discoverers, though they may not have been charged
with irreligion, have had not less obloquy of a professional and
public nature to encounter. When Dr. Harvey published his theory of
the circulation of the blood, his practice fell off, (3) and the
medical profession stigmatised him as a fool. "The few good things I
have been able to do," said John Hunter, "have been accomplished with
the greatest difficulty, and encountered the greatest opposition."
Sir Charles Bell, while employed in his important investigations as
to the nervous system, which issued in one of the greatest of
physiological discoveries, wrote to a friend: "If I were not so poor,
and had not so many vexations to encounter, how happy would I be!"
But he himself observed that his practice sensibly fell off after the
publication of each successive stage of his discovery.
Thus, nearly every enlargement of the domain of knowledge, which
has made us better acquainted with the heavens, with the earth, and
with ourselves, has been established by the energy, the devotion, the
self-sacrifice, and the courage of the great spirits of past times,
who, however much they have been opposed or reviled by their
contemporaries, now rank amongst those whom the enlightened of the
human race most delight to honour.
Nor is the unjust intolerance displayed towards men of science in
the past, without its lesson for the present. It teaches us to be
forbearant towards those who differ from us, provided they observe
patiently, think honestly, and utter their convictions freely and
truthfully. It was a remark of Plato, that "the world is God's
epistle to mankind;" and to read and study that epistle, so as to
elicit its true meaning, can have no other effect on a well- ordered
mind than to lead to a deeper impression of His power, a clearer
perception of His wisdom, and a more grateful sense of His goodness.
While such has been the courage of the martyrs of science, not
less glorious has been the courage of the martyrs of faith. The
passive endurance of the man or woman who, for conscience sake, is
found ready to suffer and to endure in solitude, without so much as
the encouragement of even a single sympathising voice, is an
exhibition of courage of a far higher kind than that displayed in the
roar of battle, where even the weakest feels encouraged and inspired
by the enthusiasm of sympathy and the power of numbers. Time would
fail to tell of the deathless names of those who through faith in
principles, and in the face of difficulty, danger, and suffering,
"have wrought righteousness and waxed valiant" in the moral warfare of
the world, and been content to lay down their lives rather than prove
false to their conscientious convictions of the truth.
Men of this stamp, inspired by a high sense of duty, have in past
times exhibited character in its most heroic aspects, and continue to
present to us some of the noblest spectacles to be seen in history.
Even women, full of tenderness and gentleness, not less than men,
have in this cause been found capable of exhibiting the most
unflinching courage. Such, for instance, as that of Anne Askew, who,
when racked until her bones were dislocated, uttered no cry, moved no
muscle, but looked her tormentors calmly in the face, and refused
either to confess or to recant; or such as that of Latimer and Ridley,
who, instead of bewailing their hard fate and beating their breasts,
went as cheerfully to their death as a bridegroom to the altar--the
one bidding the other to "be of good comfort," for that "we shall this
day light such a candle in England, by God's grace, as shall never be
put out;" or such, again, as that of Mary Dyer, the Quakeress, hanged
by the Puritans of New England for preaching to the people, who
ascended the scaffold with a willing step, and, after calmly
addressing those who stood about, resigned herself into the hands of
her persecutors, and died in peace and joy.
Not less courageous was the behaviour of the good Sir Thomas More,
who marched willingly to the scaffold, and died cheerfully there,
rather than prove false to his conscience. When More had made his
final decision to stand upon his principles, he felt as if he had won
a victory, and said to his son-in-law Roper: "Son Roper, I thank Our
Lord, the field is won!" The Duke of Norfolk told him of his danger,
saying: "By the mass, Master More, it is perilous striving with
princes; the anger of a prince brings death!". "Is that all, my
lord?" said More; "then the difference between you and me is
this--that I shall die to-day, and you to-morrow."
While it has been the lot of many great men, in times of
difficulty and danger, to be cheered and supported by their wives,
More had no such consolation. His helpmate did anything but console
him during his imprisonment in the Tower. (4) She could not conceive
that there was any sufficient reason for his continuing to lie there,
when by merely doing what the King required of him, he might at once
enjoy his liberty, together with his fine house at Chelsea, his
library, his orchard, his gallery, and the society of his wife and
children. "I marvel," said she to him one day, "that you, who have
been alway hitherto taken for wise, should now so play the fool as to
lie here in this close filthy prison, and be content to be shut up
amongst mice and rats, when you might be abroad at your liberty, if
you would but do as the bishops have done?" But More saw his duty
from a different point of view: it was not a mere matter of personal
comfort with him; and the expostulations of his wife were of no avail.
He gently put her aside, saying cheerfully, "Is not this house as
nigh heaven as my own?"--to which she contemptuously rejoined: "Tilly
vally --tilly vally!"
More's daughter, Margaret Roper, on the contrary, encouraged her
father to stand firm in his principles, and dutifully consoled and
cheered him during his long confinement. Deprived of pen-and-ink, he
wrote his letters to her with a piece of coal, saying in one of them:
"If I were to declare in writing how much pleasure your daughterly
loving letters gave me, a PECK OF COALS would not suffice to make the
pens." More was a martyr to veracity: he would not swear a false
oath; and he perished because he was sincere. When his head had been
struck off, it was placed on London Bridge, in accordance with the
barbarous practice of the times. Margaret Roper had the courage to
ask for the head to be taken down and given to her, and, carrying her
affection for her father beyond the grave, she desired that it might
be buried with her when she died; and long after, when Margaret
Roper's tomb was opened, the precious relic was observed lying on the
dust of what had been her bosom.
Martin Luther was not called upon to lay down his life for his
faith; but, from the day that he declared himself against the Pope,
he daily ran the risk of losing it. At the beginning of his great
struggle, he stood almost entirely alone. The odds against him were
tremendous. "On one side," said he himself, "are learning, genius,
numbers, grandeur, rank, power, sanctity, miracles; on the other
Wycliffe, Lorenzo Valla, Augustine, and Luther--a poor creature, a man
of yesterday, standing wellnigh alone with a few friends." Summoned
by the Emperor to appear at Worms; to answer the charge made against
him of heresy, he determined to answer in person. Those about him
told him that he would lose his life if he went, and they urged him to
fly. "No," said he, "I will repair thither, though I should find
there thrice as many devils as there are tiles upon the housetops!"
Warned against the bitter enmity of a certain Duke George, he
said--"I will go there, though for nine whole days running it rained
Duke Georges."
Luther was as good as his word; and he set forth upon his perilous
journey. When he came in sight of the old bell-towers of Worms, he
stood up in his chariot and sang, "EIN FESTE BURG IST UNSER
GOTT."--the 'Marseillaise' of the Reformation--the words and music of
which he is said to have improvised only two days before. Shortly
before the meeting of the Diet, an old soldier, George Freundesberg,
put his hand upon Luther's shoulder, and said to him: "Good monk, good
monk, take heed what thou doest; thou art going into a harder fight
than any of us have ever yet been in. But Luther's only answer to the
veteran was, that he had "determined to stand upon the Bible and his
conscience."
Luther's courageous defence before the Diet is on record, and
forms one of the most glorious pages in history. When finally urged
by the Emperor to retract, he said firmly: "Sire, unless I am
convinced of my error by the testimony of Scripture, or by manifest
evidence, I cannot and will not retract, for we must never act
contrary to our conscience. Such is my profession of faith, and you
must expect none other from me. HIER STEHE ICH: ICH KANN NICHT
ANDERS: GOTT HELFE MIR!" (Here stand I: I cannot do otherwise: God
help me!). He had to do his duty--to obey the orders of a Power higher
than that of kings; and he did it at all hazards.
Afterwards, when hard pressed by his enemies at Augsburg, Luther
said that "if he had five hundred heads, he would lose them all
rather than recant his article concerning faith." Like all
courageous men, his strength only seemed to grow in proportion to the
difficulties he had to encounter and overcome. "There is no man in
Germany," said Hutten, "who more utterly despises death than does
Luther." And to his moral courage, perhaps more than to that of any
other single man, do we owe the liberation of modern thought, and the
vindication of the great rights of the human understanding.
The honourable and brave man does not fear death compared with
ignominy. It is said of the Royalist Earl of Strafford that, as he
walked to the scaffold on Tower Hill, his step and manner were those
of a general marching at the head of an army to secure victory, rather
than of a condemned man to undergo sentence of death. So the
Commonwealth's man, Sir John Eliot, went alike bravely to his death on
the same spot, saying: "Ten thousand deaths rather than defile my
conscience, the chastity and purity of which I value beyond all this
world." Eliot's greatest tribulation was on account of his wife, whom
he had to leave behind. When he saw her looking down upon him from
the Tower window, he stood up in the cart, waved his hat, and cried:
"To heaven, my love!--to heaven!--and leave you in the storm!" As he
went on his way, one in the crowd called out, "That is the most
glorious seat you ever sat on;" to which he replied: "It is so,
indeed!" and rejoiced exceedingly. (5)
Although success is the guerdon for which all men toil, they have
nevertheless often to labour on perseveringly, without any glimmer of
success in sight. They have to live, meanwhile, upon their
courage--sowing their seed, it may be, in the dark, in the hope that
it will yet take root and spring up in achieved result. The best of
causes have had to fight their way to triumph through a long
succession of failures, and many of the assailants have died in the
breach before the fortress has been won. The heroism they have
displayed is to be measured, not so much by their immediate success,
as by the opposition they have encountered, and the courage with which
they have maintained the struggle.
The patriot who fights an always-losing battle--the martyr who
goes to death amidst the triumphant shouts of his enemies--the
discoverer, like Columbus, whose heart remains undaunted through the
bitter years of his "long wandering woe"--are examples of the moral
sublime which excite a profounder interest in the hearts of men than
even the most complete and conspicuous success. By the side of such
instances as these, how small by comparison seem the greatest deeds of
valour, inciting men to rush upon death and die amidst the frenzied
excitement of physical warfare!
But the greater part of the courage that is needed in the world is
not of a heroic kind. Courage may be displayed in everyday life as
well as in historic fields of action. There needs, for example, the
common courage to be honest--the courage to resist temptation--the
courage to speak the truth--the courage to be what we really are, and
not to pretend to be what we are not--the courage to live honestly
within our own means, and not dishonestly upon the means of others.
A great deal of the unhappiness, and much of the vice, of the
world is owing to weakness and indecision of purpose--in other words,
to lack of courage. Men may know what is right, and yet fail to
exercise the courage to do it; they may understand the duty they have
to do, but will not summon up the requisite resolution to perform it.
The weak and undisciplined man is at the mercy of every temptation;
he cannot say "No," but falls before it. And if his companionship be
bad, he will be all the easier led away by bad example into
wrongdoing.
Nothing can be more certain than that the character can only be
sustained and strengthened by its own energetic action. The will,
which is the central force of character, must be trained to habits of
decision--otherwise it will neither be able to resist evil nor to
follow good. Decision gives the power of standing firmly, when to
yield, however slightly, might be only the first step in a downhill
course to ruin.
Calling upon others for help in forming a decision is worse than
useless. A man must so train his habits as to rely upon his own
powers and depend upon his own courage in moments of emergency.
Plutarch tells of a King of Macedon who, in the midst of an action,
withdrew into the adjoining town under pretence of sacrificing to
Hercules; whilst his opponent Emilius, at the same time that he
implored the Divine aid, sought for victory sword in hand, and won the
battle. And so it ever is in the actions of daily life.
Many are the valiant purposes formed, that end merely in words;
deeds intended, that are never done; designs projected, that are
never begun; and all for want of a little courageous decision. Better
far the silent tongue but the eloquent deed. For in life and in
business, despatch is better than discourse; and the shortest answer
of all is, DOING. "In matters of great concern, and which must be
done," says Tillotson, "there is no surer argument of a weak mind than
irresolution--to be undetermined when the case is so plain and the
necessity so urgent. To be always intending to live a new life, but
never to find time to set about it,--this is as if a man should put
off eating and drinking and sleeping from one day to another, until
he is starved and destroyed."
There needs also the exercise of no small degree of moral courage
to resist the corrupting influences of what is called "Society."
Although "Mrs. Grundy" may be a very vulgar and commonplace
personage, her influence is nevertheless prodigious. Most men, but
especially women, are the moral slaves of the class or caste to which
they belong. There is a sort of unconscious conspiracy existing
amongst them against each other's individuality. Each circle and
section, each rank and class, has its respective customs and
observances, to which conformity is required at the risk of being
tabooed. Some are immured within a bastile of fashion, others of
custom, others of opinion; and few there are who have the courage to
think outside their sect, to act outside their party, and to step out
into the free air of individual thought and action. We dress, and
eat, and follow fashion, though it may be at the risk of debt, ruin,
and misery; living not so much according to our means, as according to
the superstitious observances of our class. Though we may speak
contemptuously of the Indians who flatten their heads, and of the
Chinese who cramp their toes, we have only to look at the deformities
of fashion amongst ourselves, to see that the reign of "Mrs. Grundy"
is universal.
But moral cowardice is exhibited quite as much in public as in
private life. Snobbism is not confined to the toadying of the rich,
but is quite as often displayed in the toadying of the poor. Formerly,
sycophancy showed itself in not daring to speak the truth to those in
high places; but in these days it rather shows itself in not daring to
speak the truth to those in low places. Now that "the masses" (6)
exercise political power, there is a growing tendency to fawn upon
them, to flatter them, and to speak nothing but smooth words to them.
They are credited with virtues which they themselves know they do not
possess. The public enunciation of wholesome because disagreeable
truths is avoided; and, to win their favour, sympathy is often
pretended for views, the carrying out of which in practice is known to
be hopeless.
It is not the man of the noblest character--the highest-cultured
and best-conditioned man--whose favour is now sought, so much as that
of the lowest man, the least-cultured and worst-conditioned man,
because his vote is usually that of the majority. Even men of rank,
wealth, and education, are seen prostrating themselves before the
ignorant, whose votes are thus to be got. They are ready to be
unprincipled and unjust rather than unpopular. It is so much easier
for some men to stoop, to bow, and to flatter, than to be manly,
resolute, and magnanimous; and to yield to prejudices than run counter
to them. It requires strength and courage to swim against the stream,
while any dead fish can float with it.
This servile pandering to popularity has been rapidly on the
increase of late years, and its tendency has been to lower and
degrade the character of public men. Consciences have become more
elastic. There is now one opinion for the chamber, and another for
the platform. Prejudices are pandered to in public, which in private
are despised. Pretended conversions--which invariably jump with party
interests are more sudden; and even hypocrisy now appears to be
scarcely thought discreditable.
The same moral cowardice extends downwards as well as upwards. The
action and reaction are equal. Hypocrisy and timeserving above are
accompanied by hypocrisy and timeserving below. Where men of high
standing have not the courage of their opinions, what is to be
expected from men of low standing? They will only follow such
examples as are set before them. They too will skulk, and dodge, and
prevaricate--be ready to speak one way and act another --just like
their betters. Give them but a sealed box, or some hole-and-corner to
hide their act in, and they will then enjoy their "liberty!"
Popularity, as won in these days, is by no means a presumption in
a man's favour, but is quite as often a presumption against him. "No
man," says the Russian proverb, "can rise to honour who is cursed with
a stiff backbone." But the backbone of the popularity-hunter is of
gristle; and he has no difficulty in stooping and bending himself in
any direction to catch the breath of popular applause.
Where popularity is won by fawning upon the people, by withholding
the truth from them, by writing and speaking down to the lowest
tastes, and still worse by appeals to class-hatred, (7) such a
popularity must be simply contemptible in the sight of all honest
men. Jeremy Bentham, speaking of a well-known public character,
said: "His creed of politics results less from love of the many than
from hatred of the few; it is too much under the influence of selfish
and dissocial affection." To how many men in our own day might not
the same description apply?
Men of sterling character have the courage to speak the truth,
even when it is unpopular. It was said of Colonel Hutchinson by his
wife, that he never sought after popular applause, or prided himself
on it: "He more delighted to do well than to be praised, and never set
vulgar commendations at such a rate as to act contrary to his own
conscience or reason for the obtaining them; nor would he forbear a
good action which he was bound to, though all the world disliked it;
for he ever looked on things as they were in themselves, not through
the dim spectacles of vulgar estimation." (8)
"Popularity, in the lowest and most common sense," said Sir John
Pakington, on a recent occasion, (9) "is not worth the having. Do
your duty to the best of your power, win the approbation of your own
conscience, and popularity, in its best and highest sense, is sure to
follow."
When Richard Lovell Edgeworth, towards the close of his life,
became very popular in his neighbourhood, he said one day to his
daughter: "Maria, I am growing dreadfully popular; I shall be good
for nothing soon; a man cannot be good for anything who is very
popular." Probably he had in his mind at the time the Gospel curse
of the popular man, "Woe unto you, when all men shall speak well of
you! for so did their fathers to the false prophets."
Intellectual intrepidity is one of the vital conditions of
independence and self-reliance of character. A man must have the
courage to be himself, and not the shadow or the echo of another. He
must exercise his own powers, think his own thoughts, and speak his
own sentiments. He must elaborate his own opinions, and form his own
convictions. It has been said that he who dare not form an opinion,
must be a coward; he who will not, must be an idler; he who cannot,
must be a fool.
But it is precisely in this element of intrepidity that so many
persons of promise fall short, and disappoint the expectations of
their friends. They march up to the scene of action, but at every
step their courage oozes out. They want the requisite decision,
courage, and perseverance. They calculate the risks, and weigh the
chances, until the opportunity for effective effort has passed, it may
be never to return.
Men are bound to speak the truth in the love of it. "I had rather
suffer," said John Pym, the Commonwealth man, "for speaking the
truth, than that the truth should suffer for want of my speaking."
When a man's convictions are honestly formed, after fair and full
consideration, he is justified in striving by all fair means to bring
them into action. There are certain states of society and conditions
of affairs in which a man is bound to speak out, and be
antagonistic--when conformity is not only a weakness, but a sin.
Great evils are in some cases only to be met by resistance; they
cannot be wept down, but must be battled down.
The honest man is naturally antagonistic to fraud, the truthful
man to lying, the justice-loving man to oppression, the pureminded
man to vice and iniquity. They have to do battle with these
conditions, and if possible overcome them. Such men have in all ages
represented the moral force of the world. Inspired by benevolence and
sustained by courage, they have been the mainstays of all social
renovation and progress. But for their continuous antagonism to evil
conditions, the world were for the most part given over to the
dominion of selfishness and vice. All the great reformers and martyrs
were antagonistic men--enemies to falsehood and evildoing. The
Apostles themselves were an organised band of social antagonists, who
contended with pride, selfishness, superstition, and irreligion. And
in our own time the lives of such men as Clarkson and Granville
Sharpe, Father Mathew and Richard Cobden, inspired by singleness of
purpose, have shown what highminded social antagonism can effect.
It is the strong and courageous men who lead and guide and rule
the world. The weak and timid leave no trace behind them; whilst the
life of a single upright and energetic man is like a track of light.
His example is remembered and appealed to; and his thoughts, his
spirit, and his courage continue to be the inspiration of succeeding
generations.
It is energy--the central element of which is will--that produces
the miracles of enthusiasm in all ages. Everywhere it is the
mainspring of what is called force of character, and the sustaining
power of all great action. In a righteous cause the determined man
stands upon his courage as upon a granite block; and, like David, he
will go forth to meet Goliath, strong in heart though an host be
encamped against him.
Men often conquer difficulties because they feel they can. Their
confidence in themselves inspires the confidence of others. When
Caesar was at sea, and a storm began to rage, the captain of the ship
which carried him became unmanned by fear. "What art thou afraid of?"
cried the great captain; "thy vessel carries Caesar!" The courage of
the brave man is contagious, and carries others along with it. His
stronger nature awes weaker natures into silence, or inspires them
with his own will and purpose.
The persistent man will not be baffled or repulsed by opposition.
Diogenes, desirous of becoming the disciple of Antisthenes, went and
offered himself to the cynic. He was refused. Diogenes still
persisting, the cynic raised his knotty staff, and threatened to
strike him if he did not depart. "Strike!" said Diogenes; "you will
not find a stick hard enough to conquer my perseverance." Antisthenes,
overcome, had not another word to say, but forthwith accepted him as
his pupil.
Energy of temperament, with a moderate degree of wisdom, will
carry a man further than any amount of intellect without it. Energy
makes the man of practical ability. It gives him VIS, force,
MOMENTUM. It is the active motive power of character; and if combined
with sagacity and self-possession, will enable a man to employ his
powers to the best advantage in all the affairs of life.
Hence it is that, inspired by energy of purpose, men of
comparatively mediocre powers have often been enabled to accomplish
such extraordinary results. For the men who have most powerfully
influenced the world have not been so much men of genius as men of
strong convictions and enduring capacity for work, impelled by
irresistible energy and invincible determination: such men, for
example, as were Mahomet, Luther, Knox, Calvin, Loyola, and Wesley.
Courage, combined with energy and perseverance, will overcome
difficulties apparently insurmountable. It gives force and impulse
to effort, and does not permit it to retreat. Tyndall said of
Faraday, that "in his warm moments he formed a resolution, and in his
cool ones he made that resolution good." Perseverance, working in the
right direction, grows with time, and when steadily practised, even by
the most humble, will rarely fail of its reward. Trusting in the help
of others is of comparatively little use. When one of Michael
Angelo's principal patrons died, he said: "I begin to understand that
the promises of the world are for the most part vain phantoms, and
that to confide in one's self, and become something of worth and
value, is the best and safest course."
Courage is by no means incompatible with tenderness. On the
contrary, gentleness and tenderness have been found to characterise
the men, not less than the women, who have done the most courageous
deeds. Sir Charles Napier gave up sporting, because he could not bear
to hurt dumb creatures. The same gentleness and tenderness
characterised his brother, Sir William, the historian of the
Peninsular War. (10) Such also was the character of Sir James Outram,
pronounced by Sir Charles Napier to be "the Bayard of India, SANS PEUR
ET SANS REPROCHE"--one of the bravest and yet gentlest of men;
respectful and reverent to women, tender to children, helpful of the
weak, stern to the corrupt, but kindly as summer to the honest and
deserving. Moreover, he was himself as honest as day, and as pure as
virtue. Of him it might be said with truth, what Fulke Greville said
of Sidney: "He was a true model of worth--a man fit for conquest,
reformation, plantation, or what action soever is the greatest and
hardest among men; his chief ends withal being above all things the
good of his fellows, and the service of his sovereign and country."
When Edward the Black Prince won the Battle of Poictiers, in which
he took prisoner the French king and his son, he entertained them in
the evening at a banquet, when he insisted on waiting upon and serving
them at table. The gallant prince's knightly courtesy and demeanour
won the hearts of his captives as completely as his valour had won
their persons; for, notwithstanding his youth, Edward was a true
knight, the first and bravest of his time--a noble pattern and example
of chivalry; his two mottoes, 'Hochmuth' and 'Ich dien' (high spirit
and reverent service) not inaptly expressing his prominent and
pervading qualities.
It is the courageous man who can best afford to be generous; or
rather, it is his nature to be so. When Fairfax, at the Battle of
Naseby, seized the colours from an ensign whom he had struck down in
the fight, he handed them to a common soldier to take care of. The
soldier, unable to resist the temptation, boasted to his comrades that
he had himself seized the colours, and the boast was repeated to
Fairfax. "Let him retain the honour," said the commander; "I have
enough beside."
So when Douglas, at the Battle of Bannockburn, saw Randolph, his
rival, outnumbered and apparently overpowered by the enemy, he
prepared to hasten to his assistance; but, seeing that Randolph was
already driving them back, he cried out, "Hold and halt! We are come
too late to aid them; let us not lessen the victory they have won by
affecting to claim a share in it."
Quite as chivalrous, though in a very different field of action,
was the conduct of Laplace to the young philosopher Biot, when the
latter had read to the French Academy his paper, "SUR LES EQUATIONS
AUX DIFFERENCE MELEES." The assembled SAVANS, at its close,
felicitated the reader of the paper on his originality. Monge was
delighted at his success. Laplace also praised him for the clearness
of his demonstrations, and invited Biot to accompany him home.
Arrived there, Laplace took from a closet in his study a paper,
yellow with age, and handed it to the young philosopher. To Biot's
surprise, he found that it contained the solutions, all worked out,
for which he had just gained so much applause. With rare magnanimity,
Laplace withheld all knowledge of the circumstance from Biot until the
latter had initiated his reputation before the Academy; moreover, he
enjoined him to silence; and the incident would have remained a secret
had not Biot himself published it, some fifty years afterwards.
An incident is related of a French artisan, exhibiting the same
characteristic of self-sacrifice in another form. In front of a
lofty house in course of erection at Paris was the usual scaffold,
loaded with men and materials. The scaffold, being too weak,
suddenly broke down, and the men upon it were precipitated to the
ground--all except two, a young man and a middle-aged one, who hung
on to a narrow ledge, which trembled under their weight, and was
evidently on the point of giving way. "Pierre," cried the elder of
the two, "let go; I am the father of a family." "C'EST JUSTE!" said
Pierre; and, instantly letting go his hold, he fell and was killed on
the spot. The father of the family was saved.
The brave man is magnanimous as well as gentle. He does not take
even an enemy at a disadvantage, nor strike a man when he is down and
unable to defend himself. Even in the midst of deadly strife such
instances of generosity have not been uncommon. Thus, at the Battle
of Dettingen, during the heat of the action, a squadron of French
cavalry charged an English regiment; but when the young French officer
who led them, and was about to attack the English leader, observed
that he had only one arm, with which he held his bridle, the Frenchman
saluted him courteously with his sword, and passed on. (11)
It is related of Charles V., that after the siege and capture of
Wittenburg by the Imperialist army, the monarch went to see the tomb
of Luther. While reading the inscription on it, one of the servile
courtiers who accompanied him proposed to open the grave, and give the
ashes of the "heretic" to the winds. The monarch's cheek flushed with
honest indignation: "I war not with the dead," said he; "let this
place be respected."
The portrait which the great heathen, Aristotle, drew of the
Magnanimous Man, in other words the True Gentleman, more than two
thousand years ago, is as faithful now as it was then. "The
magnanimous man," he said, "will behave with moderation under both
good fortune and bad. He will know how to be exalted and how to be
abased. He will neither be delighted with success nor grieved by
failure. He will neither shun danger nor seek it, for there are few
things which he cares for. He is reticent, and somewhat slow of
speech, but speaks his mind openly and boldly when occasion calls for
it. He is apt to admire, for nothing is great to him. He overlooks
injuries. He is not given to talk about himself or about others; for
he does not care that he himself should be praised, or that other
people should be blamed. He does not cry out about trifles, and
craves help from none."
On the other hand, mean men admire meanly. They have neither
modesty, generosity, nor magnanimity. They are ready to take
advantage of the weakness or defencelessness of others, especially
where they have themselves succeeded, by unscrupulous methods, in
climbing to positions of authority. Snobs in high places are always
much less tolerable than snobs of low degree, because they have more
frequent opportunities of making their want of manliness felt. They
assume greater airs, and are pretentious in all that they do; and the
higher their elevation, the more conspicuous is the incongruity of
their position. "The higher the monkey climbs," says the proverb,
"the more he shows his tail."
Much depends on the way in which a thing is done. An act which
might be taken as a kindness if done in a generous spirit, when done
in a grudging spirit, may be felt as stingy, if not harsh and even
cruel. When Ben Jonson lay sick and in poverty, the king sent him a
paltry message, accompanied by a gratuity. The sturdy plainspoken
poet's reply was: "I suppose he sends me this because I live in an
alley; tell him his soul lives in an alley."
From what we have said, it will be obvious that to be of an
enduring and courageous spirit, is of great importance in the
formation of character. It is a source not only of usefulness in
life, but of happiness. On the other hand, to be of a timid and,
still more, of a cowardly nature is one of the greatest misfortunes.
A. wise man was accustomed to say that one of the principal objects
he aimed at in the education of his sons and daughters was to train
them in the habit of fearing nothing so much as fear. And the habit
of avoiding fear is, doubtless, capable of being trained like any
other habit, such as the habit of attention, of diligence, of study,
or of cheerfulness.
Much of the fear that exists is the offspring of imagination,
which creates the images of evils which MAY happen, but perhaps
rarely do; and thus many persons who are capable of summoning up
courage to grapple with and overcome real dangers, are paralysed or
thrown into consternation by those which are imaginary. Hence, unless
the imagination be held under strict discipline, we are prone to meet
evils more than halfway--to suffer them by forestalment, and to assume
the burdens which we ourselves create.
Education in courage is not usually included amongst the branches
of female training, and yet it is really of greater importance than
either music, French, or the use of the globes. Contrary to the view
of Sir Richard Steele, that women should be characterised by a "tender
fear," and "an inferiority which makes her lovely," we would have
women educated in resolution and courage, as a means of rendering them
more helpful, more self-reliant, and vastly more useful and happy.
There is, indeed, nothing attractive in timidity, nothing loveable
in fear. All weakness, whether of mind or body, is equivalent to
deformity, and the reverse of interesting. Courage is graceful and
dignified, whilst fear, in any form, is mean and repulsive. Yet the
utmost tenderness and gentleness are consistent with courage. Ary
Scheffer, the artist, once wrote to his daughter:- "Dear daughter,
strive to be of good courage, to be gentle- hearted; these are the
true qualities for woman. 'Troubles' everybody must expect. There is
but one way of looking at fate-- whatever that be, whether blessings
or afflictions--to behave with dignity under both. We must not lose
heart, or it will be the worse both for ourselves and for those whom
we love. To struggle, and again and again to renew the conflict
--THIS is life's inheritance." (12)
In sickness and sorrow, none are braver and less complaining
sufferers than women. Their courage, where their hearts are
concerned, is indeed proverbial:
"Oh! femmes c'est a tort qu'on vous nommes timides, A la voix de
vos coeurs vous etes intrepides."
Experience has proved that women can be as enduring as men, under
the heaviest trials and calamities; but too little pains are taken to
teach them to endure petty terrors and frivolous vexations with
fortitude. Such little miseries, if petted and indulged, quickly run
into sickly sensibility, and become the bane of their life, keeping
themselves and those about them in a state of chronic discomfort.
The best corrective of this condition of mind is wholesome moral
and mental discipline. Mental strength is as necessary for the
development of woman's character as of man's. It gives her capacity
to deal with the affairs of life, and presence of mind, which enable
her to act with vigour and effect in moments of emergency. Character,
in a woman, as in a man, will always be found the best safeguard of
virtue, the best nurse of religion, the best corrective of Time.
Personal beauty soon passes; but beauty of mind and character
increases in attractiveness the older it grows.
Ben Jonson gives a striking portraiture of a noble woman in these
lines:-
"I meant she should be courteous, facile, sweet, Free from that
solemn vice of greatness, pride; I meant each softed virtue there
should meet, Fit in that softer bosom to abide. Only a learned and a
manly soul, I purposed her, that should with even powers, The rock,
the spindle, and the shears control Of destiny, and spin her own free
hours.'
The courage of woman is not the less true because it is for the
most part passive. It is not encouraged by the cheers of the world,
for it is mostly exhibited in the recesses of private life. Yet there
are cases of heroic patience and endurance on the part of women which
occasionally come to the light of day. One of the most celebrated
instances in history is that of Gertrude Von der Wart. Her husband,
falsely accused of being an accomplice in the murder of the Emperor
Albert, was condemned to the most frightful of all punishments--to be
broken alive on the wheel. With most profound conviction of her
husband's innocence the faithful woman stood by his side to the last,
watching over him during two days and nights, braving the empress's
anger and the inclemency of the weather, in the hope of contributing
to soothe his dying agonies. (13)
But women have not only distinguished themselves for their passive
courage: impelled by affection, or the sense of duty, they have
occasionally become heroic. When the band of conspirators, who
sought the life of James II. of Scotland, burst into his lodgings at
Perth, the king called to the ladies, who were in the chamber outside
his room, to keep the door as well as they could, and give him time to
escape. The conspirators had previously destroyed the locks of the
doors, so that the keys could not be turned; and when they reached the
ladies' apartment, it was found that the bar also had been removed.
But, on hearing them approach, the brave Catherine Douglas, with the
hereditary courage of her family, boldly thrust her arm across the
door instead of the bar; and held it there until, her arm being
broken, the conspirators burst into the room with drawn swords and
daggers, overthrowing the ladies, who, though unarmed, still
endeavoured to resist them.
The defence of Lathom House by Charlotte de la Tremouille, the
worthy descendant of William of Nassau and Admiral Coligny, was
another striking instance of heroic bravery on the part of a noble
woman. When summoned by the Parliamentary forces to surrender, she
declared that she had been entrusted by her husband with the defence
of the house, and that she could not give it up without her dear
lord's orders, but trusted in God for protection and deliverance. In
her arrangements for the defence, she is described as having "left
nothing with her eye to be excused afterwards by fortune or
negligence, and added to her former patience a most resolved
fortitude." The brave lady held her house and home good against the
enemy for a whole year--during three months of which the place was
strictly besieged and bombarded--until at length the siege was raised,
after a most gallant defence, by the advance of the Royalist army.
Nor can we forget the courage of Lady Franklin, who persevered to
the last, when the hopes of all others had died out, in prosecuting
the search after the Franklin Expedition. On the occasion of the
Royal Geographical Society determining to award the Founder's Medal to
Lady Franklin, Sir Roderick Murchison observed, that in the course of
a long friendship with her, he had abundant opportunities of observing
and testing the sterling qualities of a woman who had proved herself
worthy of the admiration of mankind. "Nothing daunted by failure
after failure, through twelve long years of hope deferred, she had
persevered, with a singleness of purpose and a sincere devotion which
were truly unparalleled. And now that her one last expedition of the
FOX, under the gallant M'Clintock, had realised the two great
facts--that her husband had traversed wide seas unknown to former
navigators, and died in discovering a north-west passage--then,
surely, the adjudication of the medal would be hailed by the nation
as one of the many recompences to which the widow of the illustrious
Franklin was so eminently entitled."
But that devotion to duty which marks the heroic character has
more often been exhibited by women in deeds of charity and mercy. The
greater part of these are never known, for they are done in private,
out of the public sight, and for the mere love of doing good. Where
fame has come to them, because of the success which has attended their
labours in a more general sphere, it has come unsought and unexpected,
and is often felt as a burden. Who has not heard of Mrs. Fry and Miss
Carpenter as prison visitors and reformers; of Mrs. Chisholm and Miss
Rye as promoters of emigration; and of Miss Nightingale and Miss
Garrett as apostles of hospital nursing?
That these women should have emerged from the sphere of private
and domestic life to become leaders in philanthropy, indicates no
small, degree of moral courage on their part; for to women, above all
others, quiet and ease and retirement are most natural and welcome.
Very few women step beyond the boundaries of home in search of a
larger field of usefulness. But when they have desired one, they have
had no difficulty in finding it. The ways in which men and women can
help their neighbours are innumerable. It needs but the willing heart
and ready hand. Most of the philanthropic workers we have named,
however, have scarcely been influenced by choice. The duty lay in
their way--it seemed to be the nearest to them--and they set about
doing it without desire for fame, or any other reward but the approval
of their own conscience.
Among prison-visitors, the name of Sarah Martin is much less known
than that of Mrs. Fry, although she preceded her in the work. How
she was led to undertake it, furnishes at the same time an
illustration of womanly trueheartedness and earnest womanly courage.
Sarah Martin was the daughter of poor parents, and was left an
orphan at an early age. She was brought up by her grandmother, at
Caistor, near Yarmouth, and earned her living by going out to
families as assistant-dressmaker, at a shilling a day. In 1819, a
woman was tried and sentenced to imprisonment in Yarmouth Gaol, for
cruelly beating and illusing her child, and her crime became the talk
of the town. The young dressmaker was much impressed by the report of
the trial, and the desire entered her mind of visiting the woman in
gaol, and trying to reclaim her. She had often before, on passing the
walls of the borough gaol, felt impelled to seek admission, with the
object of visiting the inmates, reading the Scriptures to them, and
endeavouring to lead them back to the society whose laws they had
violated.
At length she could not resist her impulse to visit the mother.
She entered the gaol-porch, lifted the knocker, and asked the gaoler
for admission. For some reason or other she was refused; but she
returned, repeated her request, and this time she was admitted. The
culprit mother shortly stood before her. When Sarah Martin told the
motive of her visit, the criminal burst into tears, and thanked her.
Those tears and thanks shaped the whole course of Sarah Martin's
after-life; and the poor seamstress, while maintaining herself by her
needle, continued to spend her leisure hours in visiting the
prisoners, and endeavouring to alleviate their condition. She
constituted herself their chaplain and schoolmistress, for at that
time they had neither; she read to them from the Scriptures, and
taught them to read and write. She gave up an entire day in the week
for this purpose, besides Sundays, as well as other intervals of spare
time, "feeling," she says, "that the blessing of God was upon her."
She taught the women to knit, to sew, and to cut out; the sale of the
articles enabling her to buy other materials, and to continue the
industrial education thus begun. She also taught the men to make
straw hats, men's and boys' caps, gray cotton shirts, and even
patchwork--anything to keep them out of idleness, and from preying on
their own thoughts. Out of the earnings of the prisoners in this way,
she formed a fund, which she applied to furnishing them with work on
their discharge; thus enabling them again to begin the world honestly,
and at the same time affording her, as she herself says, "the
advantage of observing their conduct."
By attending too exclusively to this prison-work, however, Sarah
Martin's dressmaking business fell off; and the question arose with
her, whether in order to recover her business she was to suspend her
prison-work. But her decision had already been made. "I had counted
the cost," she said, "and my mind, was made up. If, whilst imparting
truth to others, I became exposed to temporal want, the privations so
momentary to an individual would not admit of comparison with
following the Lord, in thus administering to others." She now devoted
six or seven hours every day to the prisoners, converting what would
otherwise have been a scene of dissolute idleness into a hive of
orderly industry. Newly- admitted prisoners were sometimes
refractory, but her persistent gentleness eventually won their respect
and co-operation. Men old in years and crime, pert London
pickpockets, depraved boys and dissolute sailors, profligate women,
smugglers, poachers, and the promiscuous horde of criminals which
usually fill the gaol of a seaport and county town, all submitted to
the benign influence of this good woman; and under her eyes they might
be seen, for the first time in their lives, striving to hold a pen, or
to master the characters in a penny primer. She entered into their
confidences--watched, wept, prayed, and felt for all by turns. She
strengthened their good resolutions, cheered the hopeless and
despairing, and endeavoured to put all, and hold all, in the right
road of amendment.
For more than twenty years this good and truehearted woman pursued
her noble course, with little encouragement, and not much help;
almost her only means of subsistence consisting in an annual income
of ten or twelve pounds left by her grandmother, eked out by her
little earnings at dressmaking. During the last two years of her
ministrations, the borough magistrates of Yarmouth, knowing that her
self-imposed labours saved them the expense of a schoolmaster and
chaplain (which they had become bound by law to appoint), made a
proposal to her of an annual salary of œ12 a year; but they did it in
so indelicate a manner as greatly to wound her sensitive feelings.
She shrank from becoming the salaried official of the corporation,
and bartering for money those serviced which had throughout been
labours of love. But the Gaol Committee coarsely informed her, "that
if they permitted her to visit the prison she must submit to their
terms, or be excluded." For two years, therefore, she received the
salary of œ12 a year--the acknowledgment of the Yarmouth corporation
for her services as gaol chaplain and schoolmistress! She was now,
however, becoming old and infirm, and the unhealthy atmosphere of the
gaol did much towards finally disabling her. While she lay on her
deathbed, she resumed the exercise of a talent she had occasionally
practised before in her moments of leisure--the composition of sacred
poetry. As works of art, they may not excite admiration; yet never
were verses written truer in spirit, or fuller of Christian love. But
her own life was a nobler poem than any she ever wrote--full of true
courage, perseverance, charity, and wisdom. It was indeed a
commentary upon her own words:
"The high desire that others may be blest Savours of heaven."
NOTES
(1) James Russell Lowell.
(2) Yet Bacon himself had written, "I would rather believe all the
faiths in the Legend, and the Talmud, and the Alcoran, than that this
universal frame is without a mind."
(3) Aubrey, in his 'Natural History of Wiltshire,' alluding to
Harvey, says: "He told me himself that upon publishing that book he
fell in his practice extremely."
(4) Sir Thomas More's first wife, Jane Colt, was originally a young
country girl, whom he himself instructed in letters, and moulded to
his own tastes and manners. She died young, leaving a son and three
daughters, of whom the noble Margaret Roper most resembled More
himself. His second wife was Alice Middleton, a widow, some seven
years older than More, not beautiful--for he characterized her as "NEC
BELLA, NEC PUELLA"--but a shrewd worldly woman, not by any means
disposed to sacrifice comfort and good cheer for considerations such
as those which so powerfully influenced the mind of her husband.
(5)Before being beheaded, Eliot said, "Death is but a little word;
but ''tis a great work to die.'" In his 'Prison Thoughts' before his
execution, he wrote: "He that fears not to die, fears nothing....
There is a time to live, and a time to die. A good death is far
better and more eligible than an ill life. A wise man lives but so
long as his life is worth more than his death. The longer life is not
always the better."
(6) Mr. J. S. Mill, in his book 'On Liberty,' describes "the
masses," as "collective mediocrity." "The initiation of all wise or
noble things," he says, "comes, and must come, from individuals--
generally at first from some one individual. The honour and glory of
the average man is that he is capable of following that imitation;
that he can respond internally to wise and noble things, and be led to
them with his eyes open.... In this age, the mere example of
nonconformity, the mere refusal to bend the knee to custom, is itself
a service. Precisely because the tyranny of opinion is such as to
make eccentricity a reproach, it is desirable, in order to break
through that tyranny, that people should be eccentric. Eccentricity
has always abounded when and where strength of character has abounded;
and the amount of eccentricity in a society has generally been
proportional to the amount of genius, mental vigour, and moral courage
which it contained. That so few now dare to be eccentric, marks the
chief danger of the time."--Pp. 120-1.
(7) Mr. Arthur Helps, in one of his thoughtful books, published in
1845, made some observations on this point, which are not less
applicable now. He there said: "it is a grievous thing to see
literature made a vehicle for encouraging the enmity of class to
class. Yet this, unhappily, is not unfrequent now. Some great man
summed up the nature of French novels by calling them the Literature
of Despair; the kind of writing that I deprecate may be called the
Literature of Envy.... Such writers like to throw their influence, as
they might say, into the weaker scale. But that is not the proper way
of looking at the matter. I think, if they saw the ungenerous nature
of their proceedings, that alone would stop them. They should
recollect that literature may fawn upon the masses as well as the
aristocracy; and in these days the temptation is in the former
direction. But what is most grievous in this kind of writing is the
mischief it may do to the working- people themselves. If you have
their true welfare at heart, you will not only care for their being
fed and clothed, but you will be anxious not to encourage unreasonable
expectations in them-- not to make them ungrateful or greedy-minded.
Above all, you will be solicitous to preserve some self-reliance in
them. You will be careful not to let them think that their condition
can be wholly changed without exertion of their own. You would not
desire to have it so changed. Once elevate your ideal of what you
wish to happen amongst the labouring population, and you will not
easily admit anything in your writings that may injure their moral or
their mental character, even if you thought it might hasten some
physical benefit for them. That is the way to make your genius most
serviceable to mankind. Depend upon it, honest and bold things
require to be said to the lower as well as the higher classes; and the
former are in these times much less likely to have, such things
addressed to them."-Claims of Labour, pp. 253-4.
(8) 'Memoirs of Colonel Hutchinson' (Bohn's Ed.), p. 32.
(9) At a public meeting held at Worcester, in 1867, in recognition
of Sir J. Pakington's services as Chairman of Quarter Sessions for a
period of twenty-four years, the following remarks, made by Sir John
on the occasion, are just and valuable as they are modest:- "I am
indebted for whatever measure of success I have attained in my public
life, to a combination of moderate abilities, with honesty of
intention, firmness of purpose, and steadiness of conduct. If I were
to offer advice to any young man anxious to make himself useful in
public life, I would sum up the results of my experience in three
short rules--rules so simple that any man may understand them, and so
easy that any man may act upon them. My first rule would be--leave it
to others to judge of what duties you are capable, and for what
position you are fitted; but never refuse to give your services in
whatever capacity it may be the opinion of others who are competent to
judge that you may benefit your neighbours or your country. My second
rule is--when you agree to undertake public duties, concentrate every
energy and faculty in your possession with the determination to
discharge those duties to the best of your ability. Lastly, I would
counsel you that, in deciding on the line which you will take in
public affairs, you should be guided in your decision by that which,
after mature deliberation, you believe to be right, and not by that
which, in the passing hour, may happen to be fashionable or popular."
(10) The following illustration of one of his minute acts of
kindness is given in his biography:- "He was one day taking a long
country walk near Freshford, when he met a little girl, about five
years old, sobbing over a broken bowl; she had dropped and broken it
in bringing it back from the field to which she had taken her
father's dinner in it, and she said she would be beaten on her return
home for having broken it; when, with a sudden gleam of hope, she
innocently looked up into his face, and said, 'But yee can mend it,
can't ee?'
"My father explained that he could not mend the bowl, but the
trouble he could, by the gift of a sixpence to buy another. However,
on opening his purse it was empty of silver, and he had to make amends
by promising to meet his little friend in the same spot at the same
hour next day, and to bring the sixpence with him, bidding her,
meanwhile, tell her mother she had seen a gentleman who would bring
her the money for the bowl next day. The child, entirely trusting him,
went on her way comforted. On his return home he found an invitation
awaiting him to dine in Bath the following evening, to meet some one
whom he specially wished to see. He hesitated for some little time,
trying to calculate the possibility of giving the meeting to his
little friend of the broken bowl and of still being in time for the
dinner-party in Bath; but finding this could not be, he wrote to
decline accepting the invitation on the plea of 'a pre- engagement,'
saying to us, 'I cannot disappoint her, she trusted me so
implicitly.'"
(11) Miss Florence Nightingale has related the following incident
as having occurred before Sebastopol:- "I remember a sergeant who, on
picket, the rest of the picket killed and himself battered about the
head, stumbled back to camp, and on his way picked up a wounded man
and brought him in on his shoulders to the lines, where he fell down
insensible. When, after many hours, he recovered his senses, I
believe after trepanning, his first words were to ask after his
comrade, 'Is he alive?' 'Comrade, indeed; yes, he's alive--it is the
general.' At that moment the general, though badly wounded, appeared
at the bedside. 'Oh, general, it's you, is it, I brought in? I'm so
glad; I didn't know your honour. But, ---, if I'd known it was you,
I'd have saved you all the same.' This is the true soldier's spirit."
In the same letter, Miss Nightingale says: "England, from her
grand mercantile and commercial successes, has been called sordid;
God knows she is not. The simple courage, the enduring patience, the
good sense, the strength to suffer in silence--what nation shows more
of this in war than is shown by her commonest soldier? I have seen men
dying of dysentery, but scorning to report themselves sick lest they
should thereby throw more labour on their comrades, go down to the
trenches and make the trenches their deathbed. There is nothing in
history to compare with it....
Say what men will, there is something more truly Christian in the
man who gives his time, his strength, his life, if need be, for
something not himself--whether he call it his Queen, his country, or
his colours--than in all the asceticism, the fasts, the humiliations,
and confessions which have ever been made: and this spirit of giving
one's life, without calling it a sacrifice, is found nowhere so truly
as in England."
(12) Mrs. Grote's 'Life of Ary Scheffer,' pp. 154-5.
(13) The sufferings of this noble woman, together with those of her
unfortunate husband, were touchingly described in a letter afterwards
addressed by her to a female friend, which was published some years
ago at Haarlem, entitled, 'Gertrude von der Wart; or, Fidelity unto
Death.' Mrs. Hemans wrote a poem of great pathos and beauty,
commemorating the sad story in her 'Records of Woman.'
"Honour and profit do not always lie in the same sack."--GEORGE
HERBERT.
"The government of one's self is the only true freedom for the
Individual."--FREDERICK PERTHES.
"It is in length of patience, and endurance, and forbearance, that
so much of what is good in mankind and womankind is shown."--
ARTHUR HELPS.
"Temperance, proof
Against all trials; industry severe
And constant as the motion of the day;
Stern self-denial round him spread, with shade
That might be deemed forbidding, did not there
All generous feelings flourish and rejoice;
Forbearance, charity indeed and thought,
And resolution competent to take
Out of the bosom of simplicity
All that her holy customs recommend."--WORDSWORTH.
Self-control is only courage under another form. It may almost be
regarded as the primary essence of character. It is in virtue of
this quality that Shakspeare defines man as a being "looking before
and after." It forms the chief distinction between man and the mere
animal; and, indeed, there can be no true manhood without it.
Self-control is at the root of all the virtues. Let a man give
the reins to his impulses and passions, and from that moment he
yields up his moral freedom. He is carried along the current of
life, and becomes the slave of his strongest desire for the time
being.
To be morally free--to be more than an animal--man must be able to
resist instinctive impulse, and this can only be done by the exercise
of self-control. Thus it is this power which constitutes the real
distinction between a physical and a moral life, and that forms the
primary basis of individual character.
In the Bible praise is given, not to the strong man who "taketh a
city," but to the stronger man who "ruleth his own spirit." This
stronger man is he who, by discipline, exercises a constant control
over his thoughts, his speech, and his acts. Nine-tenths of the
vicious desires that degrade society, and which, when indulged, swell
into the crimes that disgrace it, would shrink into insignificance
before the advance of valiant self-discipline, self-respect, and
self-control. By the watchful exercise of these virtues, purity of
heart and mind become habitual, and the character is built up in
chastity, virtue, and temperance.
The best support of character will always be found in habit,
which, according as the will is directed rightly or wrongly, as the
case may be, will prove either a benignant ruler or a cruel despot.
We may be its willing subject on the one hand, or its servile slave
on the other. It may help us on the road to good, or it may hurry us
on the road to ruin.
Habit is formed by careful training. And it is astonishing how
much can be accomplished by systematic discipline and drill. See
how, for instance, out of the most unpromising materials--such as
roughs picked up in the streets, or raw unkempt country lads taken
from the plough--steady discipline and drill will bring out the
unsuspected qualities of courage, endurance, and self-sacrifice; and
how, in the field of battle, or even on the more trying occasions of
perils by sea--such as the burning of the SARAH SANDS or the wreck of
the BIRKENHEAD--such men, carefully disciplined, will exhibit the
unmistakable characteristics of true bravery and heroism!
Nor is moral discipline and drill less influential in the
formation of character. Without it, there will be no proper system
and order in the regulation of the life. Upon it depends the
cultivation of the sense of self-respect, the education of the habit
of obedience, the development of the idea of duty. The most
self-reliant, self-governing man is always under discipline: and the
more perfect the discipline, the higher will be his moral condition.
He has to drill his desires, and keep them in subjection to the
higher powers of his nature. They must obey the word of command of
the internal monitor, the conscience-- otherwise they will be but the
mere slaves of their inclinations, the sport of feeling and impulse.
"In the supremacy of self-control," says Herbert Spencer,
"consists one of the perfections of the ideal man. Not to be
impulsive--not to be spurred hither and thither by each desire that
in turn comes uppermost--but to be self-restrained, self- balanced,
governed by the joint decision of the feelings in council assembled,
before whom every action shall have been fully debated and calmly
determined--that it is which education, moral education at least,
strives to produce." (1)
The first seminary of moral discipline, and the best, as we have
already shown, is the home; next comes the school, and after that the
world, the great school of practical life. Each is preparatory to the
other, and what the man or woman becomes, depends for the most part
upon what has gone before. If they have enjoyed the advantage of
neither the home nor the school, but have been allowed to grow up
untrained, untaught, and undisciplined, then woe to themselves--woe to
the society of which they form part!
The best-regulated home is always that in which the discipline is
the most perfect, and yet where it is the least felt. Moral
discipline acts with the force of a law of nature. Those subject to
it yield themselves to it unconsciously; and though it shapes and
forms the whole character, until the life becomes crystallized in
habit, the influence thus exercised is for the most part unseen and
almost unfelt.
The importance of strict domestic discipline is curiously
illustrated by a fact mentioned in Mrs. Schimmelpenninck's Memoirs,
to the following effect: that a lady who, with her husband, had
inspected most of the lunatic asylums of England and the Continent,
found the most numerous class of patients was almost always composed
of those who had been only children, and whose wills had therefore
rarely been thwarted or disciplined in early life; whilst those who
were members of large families, and who had been trained in
self-discipline, were far less frequent victims to the malady.
Although the moral character depends in a great degree on
temperament and on physical health, as well as on domestic and early
training and the example of companions, it is also in the power of
each individual to regulate, to restrain, and to discipline it by
watchful and persevering self-control. A competent teacher has said
of the propensities and habits, that they are as teachable as Latin
and Greek, while they are much more essential to happiness.
Dr. Johnson, though himself constitutionally prone to melancholy,
and afflicted by it as few have been from his earliest years, said
that "a man's being in a good or bad humour very much depends upon
his will." We may train ourselves in a habit of patience and
contentment on the one hand, or of grumbling and discontent on the
other. We may accustom ourselves to exaggerate small evils, and to
underestimate great blessings. We may even become the victim of petty
miseries by giving way to them. Thus, we may educate ourselves in a
happy disposition, as well as in a morbid one. Indeed, the habit of
viewing things cheerfully, and of thinking about life hopefully, may
be made to grow up in us like any other habit. (2) It was not an
exaggerated estimate of Dr. Johnson to say, that the habit of looking
at the best side of any event is worth far more than a thousand pounds
a year.
Th religious man's life is pervaded by rigid self-discipline and
self-restraint. He is to be sober and vigilant, to eschew evil and
do good, to walk in the spirit, to be obedient unto death, to
withstand in the evil day, and having done all, to stand; to wrestle
against spiritual wickedness, and against the rulers of the darkness
of this world; to be rooted and built up in faith, and not to be weary
of well-doing; for in due season he shall reap, if he faint not.
The man of business also must needs be subject to strict rule and
system. Business, like life, is managed by moral leverage; success
in both depending in no small degree upon that regulation of temper
and careful self-discipline, which give a wise man not only a command
over himself, but over others. Forbearance and self-control smooth
the road of life, and open many ways which would otherwise remain
closed. And so does self-respect: for as men respect themselves, so
will they usually respect the personality of others.
It is the same in politics as in business. Success in that sphere
of life is achieved less by talent than by temper, less by genius
than by character. If a man have not self-control, he will lack
patience, be wanting in tact, and have neither the power of governing
himself nor of managing others. When the quality most needed in a
Prime Minister was the subject of conversation in the presence of Mr.
Pitt, one of the speakers said it was "Eloquence;" another said it was
"Knowledge;" and a third said it was "Toil," "No," said Pitt, "it is
Patience!" And patience means self- control, a quality in which he
himself was superb. His friend George Rose has said of him that he
never once saw Pitt out of temper. (3) Yet, although patience is
usually regarded as a "slow" virtue, Pitt combined with it the most
extraordinary readiness, vigour, and rapidity of thought as well as
action.
It is by patience and self-control that the truly heroic character
is perfected. These were among the most prominent characteristics of
the great Hampden, whose noble qualities were generously acknowledged
even by his political enemies. Thus Clarendon described him as a man
of rare temper and modesty, naturally cheerful and vivacious, and
above all, of a flowing courtesy. He was kind and intrepid, yet
gentle, of unblameable conversation, and his heart glowed with love to
all men. He was not a man of many words, but, being of unimpeachable
character, every word he uttered carried weight. "No man had ever a
greater power over himself.... He was very temperate in diet, and a
supreme governor over all his passions and affections; and he had
thereby great power over other men's." Sir Philip Warwick, another of
his political opponents, incidentally describes his great influence in
a certain debate: "We had catched at each other's locks, and sheathed
our swords in each other's bowels, had not the sagacity and great
calmness of Mr. Hampden, by a short speech, prevented it, and led us
to defer our angry debate until the next morning."
A strong temper is not necessarily a bad temper. But the stronger
the temper, the greater is the need of self-discipline and self-
control. Dr. Johnson says men grow better as they grow older, and
improve with experience; but this depends upon the width, and depth,
and generousness of their nature. It is not men's faults that ruin
them so much as the manner in which they conduct themselves after the
faults have been committed. The wise will profit by the suffering
they cause, and eschew them for the future; but there are those on
whom experience exerts no ripening influence, and who only grow
narrower and bitterer and more vicious with time.
What is called strong temper in a young man, often indicates a
large amount of unripe energy, which will expend itself in useful
work if the road be fairly opened to it. It is said of Stephen
Gerard, a Frenchman, who pursued a remarkably successful career in
the United States, that when he heard of a clerk with a strong
temper, he would readily take him into his employment, and set him to
work in a room by himself; Gerard being of opinion that such persons
were the best workers, and that their energy would expend itself in
work if removed from the temptation to quarrel.
Strong temper may only mean a strong and excitable will.
Uncontrolled, it displays itself in fitful outbreaks of passion; but
controlled and held in subjection--like steam pent-up within the
organised mechanism of a steam-engine, the use of which is regulated
and controlled by slide-valves and governors and levers --it may
become a source of energetic power and usefulness. Hence, some of the
greatest characters in history have been men of strong temper, but of
equally strong determination to hold their motive power under strict
regulation and control.
The famous Earl of Strafford was of an extremely choleric and
passionate nature, and had great struggles with himself in his
endeavours to control his temper. Referring to the advice of one of
his friends, old Secretary Cooke, who was honest enough to tell him of
his weakness, and to caution him against indulging it, he wrote: "You
gave me a good lesson to be patient; and, indeed, my years and natural
inclinations give me heat more than enough, which, however, I trust
more experience shall cool, and a watch over myself in time altogether
overcome; in the meantime, in this at least it will set forth itself
more pardonable, because my earnestness shall ever be for the honour,
justice, and profit of my master; and it is not always anger, but the
misapplying of it, that is the vice so blameable, and of disadvantage
to those that let themselves loose there-unto." (4)
Cromwell, also, is described as having been of a wayward and
violent temper in his youth--cross, untractable, and masterless--
with a vast quantity of youthful energy, which exploded in a variety
of youthful mischiefs. He even obtained the reputation of a roysterer
in his native town, and seemed to be rapidly going to the bad, when
religion, in one of its most rigid forms, laid hold upon his strong
nature, and subjected it to the iron discipline of Calvinism. An
entirely new direction was thus given to his energy of temperament,
which forced an outlet for itself into public life, and eventually
became the dominating influence in England for a period of nearly
twenty years.
The heroic princes of the House of Nassau were all distinguished
for the same qualities of self-control, self-denial, and
determination of purpose. William the Silent was so called, not
because he was a taciturn man--for he was an eloquent and powerful
speaker where eloquence was necessary--but because he was a man who
could hold his tongue when it was wisdom not to speak, and because he
carefully kept his own counsel when to have revealed it might have
been dangerous to the liberties of his country. He was so gentle and
conciliatory in his manner that his enemies even described him as
timid and pusillanimous. Yet, when the time for action came, his
courage was heroic, his determination unconquerable. "The rock in the
ocean," says Mr. Motley, the historian of the Netherlands, "tranquil
amid raging billows, was the favourite emblem by which his friends
expressed their sense of his firmness."
Mr. Motley compares William the Silent to Washington, whom he in
many respects resembled. The American, like the Dutch patriot,
stands out in history as the very impersonation of dignity, bravery,
purity, and personal excellence. His command over his feelings, even
in moments of great difficulty and danger, was such as to convey the
impression, to those who did not know him intimately, that he was a
man of inborn calmness and almost impassiveness of disposition. Yet
Washington was by nature ardent and impetuous; his mildness,
gentleness, politeness, and consideration for others, were the result
of rigid self-control and unwearied self-discipline, which he
diligently practised even from his boyhood. His biographer says of
him, that "his temperament was ardent, his passions strong, and amidst
the multiplied scenes of temptation and excitement through which he
passed, it was his constant effort, and ultimate triumph, to check
the one and subdue the other." And again: "His passions were strong,
and sometimes they broke out with vehemence, but he had the power of
checking them in an instant. Perhaps self-control was the most
remarkable trait of his character. It was in part the effect of
discipline; yet he seems by nature to have possessed this power in a
degree which has been denied to other men. (*5)
The Duke of Wellington's natural temper, like that of Napoleon,
was irritable in the extreme; and it was only by watchful self-
control that he was enabled to restrain it. He studied calmness and
coolness in the midst of danger, like any Indian chief. At Waterloo,
and elsewhere, he gave his orders in the most critical moments,
without the slightest excitement, and in a tone of voice almost more
than usually subdued. (6)
Wordsworth the poet was, in his childhood, "of a stiff, moody, and
violent temper," and "perverse and obstinate in defying
chastisement." When experience of life had disciplined his temper,
he learnt to exercise greater self-control; but, at the same time, the
qualities which distinguished him as a child were afterwards useful in
enabling him to defy the criticism of his enemies. Nothing was more
marked than Wordsworth's self-respect and self-determination, as well
as his self-consciousness of power, at all periods of his history.
Henry Martyn, the missionary, was another instance of a man in
whom strength of temper was only so much pent-up, unripe energy. As a
boy he was impatient, petulant, and perverse; but by constant
wrestling against his tendency to wrongheadedness, he gradually
gained the requisite strength, so as to entirely overcome it, and to
acquire what he so greatly coveted--the gift of patience.
A man may be feeble in organization, but, blessed with a happy
temperament, his soul may be great, active, noble, and sovereign.
Professor Tyndall has given us a fine picture of the character of
Faraday, and of his self-denying labours in the cause of science--
exhibiting him as a man of strong, original, and even fiery nature,
and yet of extreme tenderness and sensibility. "Underneath his
sweetness and gentleness," he says, "was the heat of a volcano. He
was a man of excitable and fiery nature; but, through high
self-discipline, he had converted the fire into a central glow and
motive power of life, instead of permitting it to waste itself in
useless passion."
There was one fine feature in Faraday's character which is worthy
of notice--one closely akin to self-control: it was his self- denial.
By devoting himself to analytical chemistry, he might have speedily
realised a large fortune; but he nobly resisted the temptation, and
preferred to follow the path of pure science. "Taking the duration of
his life into account," says Mr. Tyndall, "this son of a blacksmith
and apprentice to a bookbinder had to decide between a fortune of
œ150,000 on the one side, and his undowered science on the other. He
chose the latter, and died a poor man. But his was the glory of
holding aloft among the nations the scientific name of England for a
period of forty years." (7)
Take a like instance of the self-denial of a Frenchman. The
historian Anquetil was one of the small number of literary men in
France who refused to bow to the Napoleonic yoke. He sank into great
poverty, living on bread-and-milk, and limiting his expenditure to
only three sous a day. "I have still two sous a day left," said he,
"for the conqueror of Marengo and Austerlitz." "But if you fall sick,"
said a friend to him, "you will need the help of a pension. Why not
do as others do? Pay court to the Emperor--you have need of him to
live." "I do not need him to die," was the historian's reply. But
Anquetil did not die of poverty; he lived to the age of ninety-four,
saying to a friend, on the eve of his death, "Come, see a man who dies
still full of life!"
Sir James Outram exhibited the same characteristic of noble self-
denial, though in an altogether different sphere of life. Like the
great King Arthur, he was emphatically a man who "forbore his own
advantage." He was characterised throughout his whole career by his
noble unselfishness. Though he might personally disapprove of the
policy he was occasionally ordered to carry out, he never once
faltered in the path of duty. Thus he did not approve of the policy
of invading Scinde; yet his services throughout the campaign were
acknowledged by General Sir C. Napier to have been of the most
brilliant character. But when the war was over, and the rich spoils
of Scinde lay at the conqueror's feet, Outram said: "I disapprove of
the policy of this war--I will accept no share of the prize-money!"
Not less marked was his generous self-denial when despatched with
a strong force to aid Havelock in fighting his way to Lucknow. As
superior officer, he was entitled to take upon himself the chief
command; but, recognising what Havelock had already done, with rare
disinterestedness, he left to his junior officer the glory of
completing the campaign, offering to serve under him as a volunteer.
"With such reputation," said Lord Clyde, "as Major- General Outram
has won for himself, he can afford to share glory and honour with
others. But that does not lessen the value of the sacrifice he has
made with such disinterested generosity."
If a man would get through life honourably and peaceably, he must
necessarily learn to practise self-denial in small things as well as
great. Men have to bear as well as forbear. The temper has to be
held in subjection to the judgment; and the little demons of
ill-humour, petulance, and sarcasm, kept resolutely at a distance. If
once they find an entrance to the mind, they are very apt to return,
and to establish for themselves a permanent occupation there.
It is necessary to one's personal happiness, to exercise control
over one's words as well as acts: for there are words that strike
even harder than blows; and men may "speak daggers," though they use
none. "UN COUP DE LANGUE," says the French proverb, "EST PIRE QU'UN
COUP DE LANCE." The stinging repartee that rises to the lips, and
which, if uttered, might cover an adversary with confusion, how
difficult it sometimes is to resist saying it! "Heaven keep us," says
Miss Bremer in her 'Home,' "from the destroying power of words! There
are words which sever hearts more than sharp swords do; there are
words the point of which sting the heart through the course of a whole
life."
Thus character exhibits itself in self-control of speech as much
as in anything else. The wise and forbearant man will restrain his
desire to say a smart or severe thing at the expense of another's
feelings; while the fool blurts out what he thinks, and will sacrifice
his friend rather than his joke. "The mouth of a wise man," said
Solomon, "is in his heart; the heart of a fool is in his mouth."
There are, however, men who are no fools, that are headlong in
their language as in their acts, because of their want of forbearance
and self-restraining patience. The impulsive genius, gifted with
quick thought and incisive speech--perhaps carried away by the cheers
of the moment--lets fly a sarcastic sentence which may return upon him
to his own infinite damage. Even statesmen might be named, who have
failed through their inability to resist the temptation of saying
clever and spiteful things at their adversary's expense. "The turn of
a sentence," says Bentham, "has decided the fate of many a friendship,
and, for aught that we know, the fate of many a kingdom." So, when
one is tempted to write a clever but harsh thing, though it may be
difficult to restrain it, it is always better to leave it in the
inkstand. "A goose's quill," says the Spanish proverb, "often hurts
more than a lion's claw."
Carlyle says, when speaking of Oliver Cromwell, "He that cannot
withal keep his mind to himself, cannot practise any considerable
thing whatsoever." It was said of William the Silent, by one of his
greatest enemies, that an arrogant or indiscreet word was never known
to fall from his lips. Like him, Washington was discretion itself in
the use of speech, never taking advantage of an opponent, or seeking a
shortlived triumph in a debate. And it is said that in the long run,
the world comes round to and supports the wise man who knows when and
how to be silent.
We have heard men of great experience say that they have often
regretted having spoken, but never once regretted holding their
tongue. "Be silent," says Pythagoras, "or say something better than
silence." "Speak fitly," says George Herbert, "or be silent wisely."
St. Francis de Sales, whom Leigh Hunt styled "the Gentleman Saint,"
has said: "It is better to remain silent than to speak the truth
ill-humouredly, and so spoil an excellent dish by covering it with bad
sauce." Another Frenchman, Lacordaire, characteristically puts speech
first, and silence next. "After speech," he says, "silence is the
greatest power in the world." Yet a word spoken in season, how
powerful it may be! As the old Welsh proverb has it, "A golden tongue
is in the mouth of the blessed."
It is related, as a remarkable instance of self-control on the
part of De Leon, a distinguished Spanish poet of the sixteenth
century, who lay for years in the dungeons of the Inquisition without
light or society, because of his having translated a part of the
Scriptures into his native tongue, that on being liberated and
restored to his professorship, an immense crowd attended his first
lecture, expecting some account of his long imprisonment; but Do Leon
was too wise and too gentle to indulge in recrimination. He merely
resumed the lecture which, five years before, had been so sadly
interrupted, with the accustomed formula "HERI DICEBAMUS," and went
directly into his subject.
There are, of course, times and occasions when the expression of
indignation is not only justifiable but necessary. We are bound to
be indignant at falsehood, selfishness, and cruelty. A man of true
feeling fires up naturally at baseness or meanness of any sort, even
in cases where he may be under no obligation to speak out. "I would
have nothing to do," said Perthes, "with the man who cannot be moved
to indignation. There are more good people than bad in the world, and
the bad get the upper hand merely because they are bolder. We cannot
help being pleased with a man who uses his powers with decision; and
we often take his side for no other reason than because he does so use
them. No doubt, I have often repented speaking; but not less often
have I repented keeping silence." (8)
One who loves right cannot be indifferent to wrong, or wrongdoing.
If he feels warmly, he will speak warmly, out of the fulness of his
heart. As a noble lady (9) has written:
"A noble heart doth teach a virtuous scorn-- To scorn to owe a
duty overlong, To scorn to be for benefits forborne, To scorn to lie,
to scorn to do a wrong, To scorn to bear an injury in mind, To scorn
a freeborn heart slave-like to bind."
We have, however, to be on our guard against impatient scorn. The
best people are apt to have their impatient side; and often, the very
temper which makes men earnest, makes them also intolerant. (10) "Of
all mental gifts," says Miss Julia Wedgwood, "the rarest is
intellectual patience; and the last lesson of culture is to believe in
difficulties which are invisible to ourselves."
The best corrective of intolerance in disposition, is increase of
wisdom and enlarged experience of life. Cultivated good sense will
usually save men from the entanglements in which moral impatience is
apt to involve them; good sense consisting chiefly in that temper of
mind which enables its possessor to deal with the practical affairs of
life with justice, judgment, discretion, and charity. Hence men of
culture and experience are invariably, found the most forbearant and
tolerant, as ignorant and narrowminded persons are found the most
unforgiving and intolerant. Men of large and generous natures, in
proportion to their practical wisdom, are disposed to make allowance
for the defects and disadvantages of others--allowance for the
controlling power of circumstances in the formation of character, and
the limited power of resistance of weak and fallible natures to
temptation and error. "I see no fault committed," said Goethe, "which
I also might not have committed." So a wise and good man exclaimed,
when he saw a criminal drawn on his hurdle to Tyburn: "There goes
Jonathan Bradford--but for the grace of God!"
Life will always be, to a great extent, what we ourselves make it.
The cheerful man makes a cheerful world, the gloomy man a gloomy one.
We usually find but our own temperament reflected in the dispositions
of those about us. If we are ourselves querulous, we will find them
so; if we are unforgiving and uncharitable to them, they will be the
same to us. A person returning from an evening party not long ago,
complained to a policeman on his beat that an ill-looking fellow was
following him: it turned out to be only his own shadow! And such
usually is human life to each of us; it is, for the most part, but the
reflection of ourselves.
If we would be at peace with others, and ensure their respect, we
must have regard for their personality. Every man has his
peculiarities of manner and character, as he has peculiarities of
form and feature; and we must have forbearance in dealing with them,
as we expect them to have forbearance in dealing with us. We may not
be conscious of our own peculiarities, yet they exist nevertheless.
There is a village in South America where gotos or goitres are so
common that to be without one is regarded as a deformity. One day a
party of Englishmen passed through the place, when quite a crowd
collected to jeer them, shouting: "See, see these people--they have
got NO GOTOS!"
Many persons give themselves a great deal of fidget concerning
what other people think of them and their peculiarities. Some are
too much disposed to take the illnatured side, and, judging by
themselves, infer the worst. But it is very often the case that the
uncharitableness of others, where it really exists, is but the
reflection of our own want of charity and want of temper. It still
oftener happens, that the worry we subject ourselves to, has its
source in our own imagination. And even though those about us may
think of us uncharitably, we shall not mend matters by exasperating
ourselves against them. We may thereby only expose ourselves
unnecessarily to their illnature or caprice. "The ill that comes out
of our mouth," says Herbert, "ofttimes falls into our bosom."
The great and good philosopher Faraday communicated the following
piece of admirable advice, full of practical wisdom, the result of a
rich experience of life, in a letter to his friend Professor Tyndall:-
"Let me, as an old man, who ought by this time to have profited by
experience, say that when I was younger I found I often misrepresented
the intentions of people, and that they did not mean what at the time
I supposed they meant; and further, that, as a general rule, it was
better to be a little dull of apprehension where phrases seemed to
imply pique, and quick in perception when, on the contrary, they
seemed to imply kindly feeling. The real truth never fails ultimately
to appear; and opposing parties, if wrong, are sooner convinced when
replied to forbearingly, than when overwhelmed. All I mean to say is,
that it is better to be blind to the results of partisanship, and
quick to see goodwill. One has more happiness in one's self in
endeavouring to follow the things that make for peace. You can
hardly imagine how often I have been heated in private when opposed,
as I have thought unjustly and superciliously, and yet I have striven,
and succeeded, I hope, in keeping down replies of the like kind. And
I know I have never lost by it." (11)
While the painter Barry was at Rome, he involved himself, as was
his wont, in furious quarrels with the artists and dilettanti, about
picture-painting and picture-dealing, upon which his friend and
countryman, Edmund Burke--always the generous friend of struggling
merit--wrote to him kindly and sensibly: "Believe me, dear Barry, that
the arms with which the ill-dispositions of the world are to be
combated, and the qualities by which it is to be reconciled to us, and
we reconciled to it, are moderation, gentleness, a little indulgence
to others, and a great deal of distrust of ourselves; which are not
qualities of a mean spirit, as some may possibly think them, but
virtues of a great and noble kind, and such as dignify our nature as
much as they contribute to our repose and fortune; for nothing can be
so unworthy of a well- composed soul as to pass away life in
bickerings and litigations-- in snarling and scuffling with every one
about us. We must be at peace with our species, if not for their
sakes, at least very much for our own." (12)
No one knew the value of self-control better than the poet Burns,
and no one could teach it more eloquently to others; but when it came
to practice, Burns was as weak as the weakest. He could not deny
himself the pleasure of uttering a harsh and clever sarcasm at
another's expense. One of his biographers observes of him, that it
was no extravagant arithmetic to say that for every ten jokes he made
himself a hundred enemies. But this was not all. Poor Burns exercised
no control over his appetites, but freely gave them rein:
"Thus thoughtless follies laid him low And stained his name."
Nor had he the self-denial to resist giving publicity to
compositions originally intended for the delight of the tap-room, but
which continue secretly to sow pollution broadcast in the minds of
youth. Indeed, notwithstanding the many exquisite poems of this
writer, it is not saying too much to aver that his immoral writings
have done far more harm than his purer writings have done good; and
that it would be better that all his writings should be destroyed and
forgotten provided his indecent songs could be destroyed with them.
The remark applies alike to Beranger, who has been styled "The
Burns of France." Beranger was of the same bright incisive genius;
he had the same love of pleasure, the same love of popularity; and
while he flattered French vanity to the top of its bent, he also
painted the vices most loved by his countrymen with the pen of a
master. Beranger's songs and Thiers' History probably did more than
anything else to reestablish the Napoleonic dynasty in France. But
that was a small evil compared with the moral mischief which many of
Beranger's songs are calculated to produce; for, circulating freely as
they do in French households, they exhibit pictures of nastiness and
vice, which are enough to pollute and destroy a nation.
One of Burns's finest poems, written, in his twenty-eighth year,
is entitled 'A Bard's Epitaph.' It is a description, by
anticipation, of his own life. Wordsworth has said of it: "Here is a
sincere and solemn avowal; a public declaration from his own will; a
confession at once devout, poetical and human; a history in the shape
of a prophecy." It concludes with these lines:-
"Reader, attend--whether thy soul Soars fancy's flights beyond the
pole, Or darkling grubs this earthly hole In low pursuit;
Know--prudent, cautious self-control, Is Wisdom's root."
One of the vices before which Burns fell--and it may be said to be
a master-vice, because it is productive of so many other vices --was
drinking. Not that he was a drunkard, but because he yielded to the
temptations of drink, with its degrading associations, and thereby
lowered and depraved his whole nature. (13) But poor Burns did not
stand alone; for, alas! of all vices, the unrestrained appetite for
drink was in his time, as it continues to be now, the most prevalent,
popular, degrading, and destructive.
Were it possible to conceive the existence of a tyrant who should
compel his people to give up to him one-third or more of their
earnings, and require them at the same time to consume a commodity
that should brutalise and degrade them, destroy the peace and comfort
of their families, and sow in themselves the seeds of disease and
premature death--what indignation meetings, what monster processions
there would be! 'What eloquent speeches and apostrophes to the spirit
of liberty!--what appeals against a despotism so monstrous and so
unnatural! And yet such a tyrant really exists amongst us--the tyrant
of unrestrained appetite, whom no force of arms, or voices, or votes
can resist, while men are willing to be his slaves.
The power of this tyrant can only be overcome by moral means--by
self-discipline, self-respect, and self-control. There is no other
way of withstanding the despotism of appetite in any of its forms. No
reform of institutions, no extended power of voting, no improved form
of government, no amount of scholastic instruction, can possibly
elevate the character of a people who voluntarily abandon themselves
to sensual indulgence. The pursuit of ignoble pleasure is the
degradation of true happiness; it saps the morals, destroys the
energies, and degrades the manliness and robustness of individuals as
of nations.
The courage of self-control exhibits itself in many ways, but in
none more clearly than in honest living. Men without the virtue of
self-denial are not only subject to their own selfish desires, but
they are usually in bondage to others who are likeminded with
themselves. What others do, they do. They must live according to
the artificial standard of their class, spending like their
neighbours, regardless of the consequences, at the same time that all
are, perhaps, aspiring after a style of living higher than their
means. Each carries the others along with him, and they have not the
moral courage to stop. They cannot resist the temptation of living
high, though it may be at the expense of others; and they gradually
become reckless of debt, until it enthrals them. In all this there is
great moral cowardice, pusillanimity, and want of manly independence
of character.
A rightminded man will shrink from seeming to be what he is not,
or pretending to be richer than he really is, or assuming a style of
living that his circumstances will not justify. He will have the
courage to live honestly within his own means, rather than dishonestly
upon the means of other people; for he who incurs debts in striving to
maintain a style of living beyond his income, is in spirit as
dishonest as the man who openly picks your pocket.
To many, this may seem an extreme view, but it will bear the
strictest test. Living at the cost of others is not only dishonesty,
but it is untruthfulness in deed, as lying is in word. The proverb of
George Herbert, that "debtors are liars," is justified by experience.
Shaftesbury somewhere says that a restlessness to have something
which we have not, and to be something which we are not, is the root
of all immorality. (14) No reliance is to be placed on the saying--a
very dangerous one--of Mirabeau, that "LA PETITE MORALE ETAIT
L'ENNEMIE DE LA GRANDE." On the contrary, strict adherence to even the
smallest details of morality is the foundation of all manly and noble
character.
The honourable man is frugal of his means, and pays his way
honestly. He does not seek to pass himself off as richer than he is,
or, by running into debt, open an account with ruin. As that man is
not poor whose means are small, but whose desires are uncontrolled, so
that man is rich whose means are more than sufficient for his wants.
When Socrates saw a great quantity of riches, jewels, and furniture
of great value, carried in pomp through Athens, he said, "Now do I see
how many things I do NOT desire." "I can forgive everything but
selfishness," said Perthes. "Even the narrowest circumstances admit
of greatness with reference to 'mine and thine'; and none but the very
poorest need fill their daily life with thoughts of money, if they
have but prudence to arrange their housekeeping within the limits of
their income."
A man may be indifferent to money because of higher
considerations, as Faraday was, who sacrificed wealth to pursue
science; but if he would have the enjoyments that money can purchase,
he must honestly earn it, and not live upon the earnings of others, as
those do who habitually incur debts which they have no means of
paying. When Maginn, always drowned in debt, was asked what he paid
for his wine, he replied that he did not know, but he believed they
"put something down in a book." (15)
This "putting-down in a book" has proved the ruin of a great many
weakminded people, who cannot resist the temptation of taking things
upon credit which they have not the present means of paying for; and
it would probably prove of great social benefit if the law which
enables creditors to recover debts contracted under certain
circumstances were altogether abolished. But, in the competition for
trade, every encouragement is given to the incurring of debt, the
creditor relying upon the law to aid him in the last extremity. When
Sydney Smith once went into a new neighbourhood, it was given out in
the local papers that he was a man of high connections, and he was
besought on all sides for his "custom." But he speedily undeceived
his new neighbours. "We are not great people at all," he said: "we
are only common honest people--people that pay our debts."
Hazlitt, who was a thoroughly honest though rather thriftless man,
speaks of two classes of persons, not unlike each other--those who
cannot keep their own money in their hands, and those who cannot keep
their hands from other people's. The former are always in want of
money, for they throw it away on any object that first presents
itself, as if to get rid of it; the latter make away with what they
have of their own, and are perpetual borrowers from all who will lend
to them; and their genius for borrowing, in the long run, usually
proves their ruin.
Sheridan was one of such eminent unfortunates. He was impulsive
and careless in his expenditure, borrowing money, and running into
debt with everybody who would trust him. When he stood for
Westminster, his unpopularity arose chiefly from his general
indebtedness. "Numbers of poor people," says Lord Palmerston in one
of his letters, "crowded round the hustings, demanding payment for the
bills he owed them." In the midst of all his difficulties, Sheridan
was as lighthearted as ever, and cracked many a good joke at his
creditors' expense. Lord Palmerston was actually present at the
dinner given by him, at which the sheriff's in possession were dressed
up and officiated as waiters
Yet however loose Sheridan's morality may have been as regarded
his private creditors, he was honest(so far as the public money was
concerned. Once, at dinner, at which Lord Byron happened to be
present, an observation happened to be made as to the sturdiness of
the Whigs in resisting office, and keeping to their principles--on
which Sheridan turned sharply and said: "Sir, it is easy for my Lord
this, or Earl that, or the Marquis of t'other, with thousands upon
thousands a year, some of it either presently derived or inherited in
sinecure or acquisitions from the public money, to boast of their
patriotism, and keep aloof from temptation; but they do not know from
what temptation those have kept aloof who had equal pride, at least
equal talents, and not unequal passions, and nevertheless knew not, in
the course of their lives, what it was to have a shilling of their
own." And Lord Byron adds, that, in saying this, Sheridan wept. (16)
The tone of public morality in money-matters was very low in those
days. Political peculation was not thought discreditable; and heads
of parties did not hesitate to secure the adhesion of their followers
by a free use of the public money. They were generous, but at the
expense of others--like that great local magnate, who,
"Out of his great bounty, Built a bridge at the expense of the
county."
When Lord Cornwallis was appointed Lord-Lieutenant of Ireland, he
pressed upon Colonel Napier, the father of THE Napiers, the
comptrollership of army accounts. "I want," said his Lordship, "AN
HONEST MAN, and this is the only thing I have been able to wrest from
the harpies around me."
It is said that Lord Chatham was the first to set the example of
disdaining to govern by petty larceny; and his great son was alike
honest in his administration. While millions of money were passing
through Pitt's hands, he himself was never otherwise than poor; and he
died poor. Of all his rancorous libellers, not one ever ventured to
call in question his honesty.
In former times, the profits of office were sometimes enormous.
When Audley, the famous annuity-monger of the sixteenth century, was
asked the value of an office which he had purchased in the Court of
Wards, he replied:- "Some thousands to any one who wishes to get to
heaven immediately; twice as much to him who does not mind being in
purgatory; and nobody knows what to him who is not afraid of the
devil."
Sir Walter Scott was a man who was honest to the core of his
nature and his strenuous and determined efforts to pay his debts, or
rather the debts of the firm with which he had become involved, has
always appeared to us one of the grandest things in biography. When
his publisher and printer broke down, ruin seemed to stare him in the
face. There was no want of sympathy for him in his great misfortune,
and friends came forward who offered to raise money enough to enable
him to arrange with his creditors. "No! "said he, proudly; "this
right hand shall work it all off!" "If we lose everything else," he
wrote to a friend, "we will at least keep our honour unblemished."
(17) While his health was already becoming undermined by overwork, he
went on "writing like a tiger," as he himself expressed it, until no
longer able to wield a pen; and though he paid the penalty of his
supreme efforts with his life, he nevertheless saved his honour and
his self-respect.
Everybody knows bow Scott threw off 'Woodstock,' the 'Life of
Napoleon' (which he thought would be his death (18)), articles for
the 'Quarterly,' 'Chronicles of the Canongate,' 'Prose Miscellanies,'
and 'Tales of a Grandfather'--all written in the midst of pain,
sorrow, and ruin. The proceeds of those various works went to his
creditors. "I could not have slept sound," he wrote, "as I now can,
under the comfortable impression of receiving the thanks of my
creditors, and the conscious feeling of discharging my duty as a man
of honour and honesty. I see before me a long, tedious, and dark
path, but it leads to stainless reputation. If I die in the harrows,
as is very likely, I shall die with honour. If I achieve my task, I
shall have the thanks of all concerned, and the approbation of my own
conscience." (19)
And then followed more articles, memoirs, and even sermons--'The
Fair Maid of Perth,' a completely revised edition of his novels,
'Anne of Geierstein,' and more 'Tales of a Grandfather'--until he was
suddenly struck down by paralysis. But he had no sooner recovered
sufficient strength to be able to hold a pen, than we find him again
at his desk writing the 'Letters on Demonology and Witchcraft,' a
volume of Scottish History for 'Lardner's Cyclopaedia,' and a fourth
series of 'Tales of a Grandfather' in his French History. In vain his
doctors told him to give up work; he would not be dissuaded. "As for
bidding me not work," he said to Dr. Abercrombie, "Molly might just as
well put the kettle on the fire and say, 'Now, kettle, don't boil;'"
to which he added, "If I were to be idle I should go mad!"
By means of the profits realised by these tremendous efforts,
Scott saw his debts in course of rapid diminution, and he trusted
that, after a few more years' work, he would again be a free man. But
it was not to be. He went on turning out such works as his 'Count
Robert of Paris' with greatly impaired skill, until he was prostrated
by another and severer attack of palsy. He now felt that the plough
was nearing the end of the furrow; his physical strength was gone; he
was "not quite himself in all things," and yet his courage and
perseverance never failed. "I have suffered terribly," he wrote in
his Diary, "though rather in body than in mind, and I often wish I
could lie down and sleep without waking. But I WILL FIGHT IT OUT IF I
CAN." He again recovered sufficiently to be able to write 'Castle
Dangerous,' though the cunning of the workman's hand had departed.
And then there was his last tour to Italy in search of rest and
health, during which, while at Naples, in spite of all remonstrances,
he gave several hours every morning to the composition of a new novel,
which, however, has not seen the light.
Scott returned to Abbotsford to die. "I have seen much," he said
on his return, "but nothing like my own house--give me one turn
more." One of the last things he uttered, in one of his lucid
intervals, was worthy of him. "I have been," he said, "perhaps the
most voluminous author of my day, and it IS a comfort to me to think
that I have tried to unsettle no man's faith, to corrupt no man's
principles, and that I have written nothing which on my deathbed I
should wish blotted out." His last injunction to his son-in-law was:
"Lockhart, I may have but a minute to speak to you. My dear, be
virtuous--be religious--be a good man. Nothing else will give you any
comfort when you come to lie here."
The devoted conduct of Lockhart himself was worthy of his great
relative. The 'Life of Scott,' which he afterwards wrote, occupied
him several years, and was a remarkably successful work. Yet he
himself derived no pecuniary advantage from it; handing over the
profits of the whole undertaking to Sir Walter's creditors in payment
of debts which he was in no way responsible, but influenced entirely
by a spirit of honour, of regard for the memory of the illustrious
dead.
NOTES
(1) 'Social Statics,' p. 185.
(2) "In all cases," says Jeremy Bentham, "when the power of the
will can be exercised over the thoughts, let those thoughts be
directed towards happiness. Look out for the bright, for the
brightest side of things, and keep your face constantly turned to
it.... A large part of existence is necessarily passed in inaction.
By day (to take an instance from the thousand in constant
recurrence), when in attendance on others, and time is lost by being
kept waiting; by night when sleep is unwilling to close the eyelids,
the economy of happiness recommends the occupation of pleasurable
thought. In walking abroad, or in resting at home, the mind cannot
be vacant; its thoughts may be useful, useless, or pernicious to
happiness. Direct them aright; the habit of happy thought will spring
up like any other habit." DEONTOLOGY, ii. 105-6.
(3) The following extract from a letter of M. Boyd, Esq., is given
by Earl Stanhope in his 'Miscellanies':- "There was a circumstance
told me by the late Mr. Christmas, who for many years held an
important official situation in the Bank of England. He was, I
believe, in early life a clerk in the Treasury, or one of the
government offices, and for some time acted for Mr. Pitt as his
confidential clerk, or temporary private secretary. Christmas was
one of the most obliging men I ever knew; and, from the, position he
occupied, was constantly exposed to interruptions, yet I never saw his
temper in the least ruffled. One day I found him more than usually
engaged, having a mass of accounts to prepare for one of the
law-courts--still the same equanimity, and I could not resist the
opportunity of asking the old gentleman the secret. 'Well, Mr. Boyd,
you shall know it. Mr. Pitt gave it to me:-- NOT TO LOSE MY TEMPER,
IF POSSIBLE, AT ANY TIME, AND NEVER DURING THE HOURS OF BUSINESS. My
labours here (Bank of England) commence at nine and end at three; and,
acting on the advice of the illustrious statesman, I NEVER LOSE MY
TEMPER DURING THOSE HOURS.'"
(4) 'Strafford Papers,' i. 87.
(5) Jared Sparks' 'Life of Washington,' pp. 7, 534.
(6) Brialmont's 'Life of Wellington.'
(7) Professor Tyndall, on 'Faraday as a Discoverer,' p. 156.
(8) 'Life of Perthes,' ii. 216.
(9) Lady Elizabeth Carew.
(10) Francis Horner, in one of his letters, says: "It is among the
very sincere and zealous friends of liberty that you will find the
most perfect specimens of wrongheadedness; men of a dissenting,
provincial cast of virtue--who (according to one of Sharpe's
favourite phrases) WILL drive a wedge the broad end foremost --utter
strangers to all moderation in political business." --Francis Horner's
LIFE AND CORRESPONDENCE (1843), ii. 133.
(11) Professor Tyndall on 'Faraday as a Discoverer,' pp. 40-1.
(12) Yet Burke himself; though capable of giving Barry such
excellent advice, was by no means immaculate as regarded his own
temper. When he lay ill at Beaconsfield, Fox, from whom he had become
separated by political differences arising out of the French
Revolution, went down to see his old friend. But Burke would not
grant him an interview; he positively refused to see him. On his
return to town, Fox told his friend Coke the result of his journey;
and when Coke lamented Burke's obstinacy, Fox only replied,
goodnaturedly: "Ah! never mind, Tom; I always find every Irishman has
got a piece of potato in his head." Yet Fox, with his usual
generosity, when he heard of Burke's impending death, wrote a most
kind and cordial letter to Mrs. Burke, expressive of his grief and
sympathy; and when Burke was no more, Fox was the first to propose
that he should be interred with public honours in Westminster
Abbey--which only Burke's own express wish, that he should be buried
at Beaconsfield, prevented being carried out.
(13) When Curran, the Irish barrister, visited Burns's cabin in
1810, he found it converted into a public house, and the landlord who
showed it was drunk. "There," said he, pointing to a corner on one
side of the fire, with a most MALAPROPOS laugh-"there is the very spot
where Robert Burns was born." "The genius and the fate of the man,"
says Curran, "were already heavy on my heart; but the drunken laugh of
the landlord gave me such a view of the rock on which he had
foundered, that I could not stand it, but burst into tears."
(14) The chaplain of Horsemongerlane Gaol, in his annual report to
the Surrey justices, thus states the result of his careful study of
the causes of dishonesty: "From my experience of predatory crime,
founded upon careful study of the character of a great variety of
prisoners, I conclude that habitual dishonesty is to be referred
neither to ignorance, nor to drunkenness, nor to poverty, nor to
overcrowding in towns, nor to temptation from surrounding wealth--
nor, indeed, to any one of the many indirect causes to which it is
sometimes referred--but mainly TO A DISPOSITION TO ACQUIRE PROPERTY
WITH A LESS DEGREE OF LABOUR THAN ORDINARY INDUSTRY." The italics are
the author's.
(15) S. C. Hall's 'Memories.'
(16) Moore's 'Life of Byron,' 8vo. Ed., p. 182.
(17) Captain Basil Hall records the following conversation with
Scott:- "It occurs to me," I observed, "that people are apt to make
too much fuss about the loss of fortune, which is one of the smallest
of the great evils of life, and ought to be among the most
tolerable."--"Do you call it a small misfortune to be ruined in
money-matters?" he asked. "It is not so painful, at all events, as
the loss of friends."--"I grant that," he said. "As the loss of
character?"--"True again." "As the loss of health?"--"Ay, there you
have me," he muttered to himself, in a tone so melancholy that I
wished I had not spoken. "What is the loss of fortune to the loss of
peace of mind?" I continued. "In short," said he, playfully, "you
will make it out that there is no harm in a man's being plunged
over-head-and-ears in a debt he cannot remove." "Much depends, I
think, on how it was incurred, and what efforts are made to redeem
it--at least, if the sufferer be a rightminded man." "I hope it
does," he said, cheerfully and firmly.--FRAGMENTS OF VOYAGES AND
TRAVELS, 3rd series, pp. 308-9.
(18) "These battles," he wrote in his Diary, "have been the death
of many a man, I think they will be mine."
"I slept, and dreamt that life was Beauty;
I woke, and found that life was Duty."
"Duty! wondrous thought, that workest neither by fond insinuation,
flattery, nor by any threat, but merely by holding up thy naked
law in the soul, and so extorting for thyself always reverence, if
not always obedience; before whom all appetites are dumb, however
secretly they rebel"--KANT.
"How happy is he born and taught,
That serveth not another's will!
Whose armour is his honest thought,
And simple truth his utmost skill!
"Whose passions not his masters are,
Whose soul is still prepared for death;
Unti'd unto the world by care
Of public fame, or private breath.
"This man is freed from servile bands,
Of hope to rise, or fear to fall:
Lord of himself, though not of land;
And having nothing, yet hath all."--WOTTON.
"His nay was nay without recall;
His yea was yea, and powerful all;
He gave his yea with careful heed,
His thoughts and words were well agreed;
His word, his bond and seal."
INSCRIPTION ON BARON STEIN'S TOMB.
DUTY is a thing that is due, and must be paid by every man who
would avoid present discredit and eventual moral insolvency. It is
an obligation--a debt--which can only be discharged by voluntary
effort and resolute action in the affairs of life.
Duty embraces man's whole existence. It begins in the home, where
there is the duty which children owe to their parents on the one
hand, and the duty which parents owe to their children on the other.
There are, in like manner, the respective duties of husbands and
wives, of masters and servants; while outside the home there are the
duties which men and women owe to each other as friends and
neighbours, as employers and employed, as governors and governed.
"Render, therefore," says St. Paul, "to all their dues: tribute to
whom tribute is due; custom to whom custom; fear to whom fear; honour
to whom honour. Owe no man anything, but to love one another; for he
that loveth another hath fulfilled the law,"
Thus duty rounds the whole of life, from our entrance into it
until our exit from it--duty to superiors, duty to inferiors, and
duty to equals--duty to man, and duty to God. Wherever there is
power to use or to direct, there is duty. For we are but as
stewards, appointed to employ the means entrusted to us for our own
and for others' good.
The abiding sense of duty is the very crown of character. It is
the upholding law of man in his highest attitudes. Without it, the
individual totters and falls before the first puff of adversity or
temptation; whereas, inspired by it, the weakest becomes strong and
full of courage. "Duty," says Mrs. Jameson, "is the cement which
binds the whole moral edifice together; without which, all power,
goodness, intellect, truth, happiness, love itself, can have no
permanence; but all the fabric of existence crumbles away from under
us, and leaves us at last sitting in the midst of a ruin, astonished
at our own desolation."
Duty is based upon a sense of justice--justice inspired by love,
which is the most perfect form of goodness. Duty is not a sentiment,
but a principle pervading the life: and it exhibits itself in conduct
and in acts, which are mainly determined by man's conscience and
freewill.
The voice of conscience speaks in duty done; and without its
regulating and controlling influence, the brightest and greatest
intellect may be merely as a light that leads astray. Conscience
sets a man upon his feet, while his will holds him upright.
Conscience is the moral governor of the heart--the governor of right
action, of right thought, of right faith, of right life-- and only
through its dominating influence can the noble and upright character
be fully developed.
The conscience, however, may speak never so loudly, but without
energetic will it may speak in vain. The will is free to choose
between the right course and the wrong one, but the choice is nothing
unless followed by immediate and decisive action. If the sense of
duty be strong, and the course of action clear, the courageous will,
upheld by the conscience, enables a man to proceed on his course
bravely, and to accomplish his purposes in the face of all opposition
and difficulty. And should failure be the issue, there will remain at
least this satisfaction, that it has been in the cause of duty.
"Be and continue poor, young man," said Heinzelmann," while others
around you grow rich by fraud and disloyalty; be without place or
power while others beg their way upwards; bear the pain of
disappointed hopes, while others gain the accomplishment of theirs by
flattery; forego the gracious pressure of the hand, for which others
cringe and crawl. Wrap yourself in your own virtue, and seek a friend
and your daily bread. If you have in your own cause grown gray with
unbleached honour, bless God and die!"
Men inspired by high principles are often required to sacrifice
all that they esteem and love rather than fail in their duty. The old
English idea of this sublime devotion to duty was expressed by the
loyalist poet to his sweetheart, on taking up arms for his sovereign:-
"I could love thee, dear, so much, Loved I not honour more.' (1)
And Sertorius has said: "The man who has any dignity of character,
should conquer with honour, and not use any base means even to save
his life." So St. Paul, inspired by duty and faith, declared himself
as not only "ready to be bound, but to die at Jerusalem."
When the Marquis of Pescara was entreated by the princes of Italy
to desert the Spanish cause, to which he was in honour bound, his
noble wife, Vittoria Colonna, reminded him of his duty. She wrote to
him: "Remember your honour, which raises you above fortune and above
kings; by that alone, and not by the splendour of titles, is glory
acquired--that glory which it will be your happiness and pride to
transmit unspotted to your posterity." Such was the dignified view
which she took of her husband's honour; and when he fell at Pavia,
though young and beautiful, and besought by many admirers, she betook
herself to solitude, that she might lament over her husband's loss and
celebrate his exploits. (2)
To live really, is to act energetically. Life is a battle to be
fought valiantly. Inspired by high and honourable resolve, a man
must stand to his post, and die there, if need be. Like the old
Danish hero, his determination should be, "to dare nobly, to will
strongly, and never to falter in the path of duty." The power of
will, be it great or small, which God has given us, is a Divine gift;
and we ought neither to let it perish for want of using on the one
hand, nor profane it by employing it for ignoble purposes on the
other. Robertson, of Brighton, has truly said, that man's real
greatness consists not in seeking his own pleasure, or fame, or
advancement--"not that every one shall save his own life, not that
every man shall seek his own glory--but that every man shall do his
own duty."
What most stands in the way of the performance of duty, is
irresolution, weakness of purpose, and indecision. On the one side
are conscience and the knowledge of good and evil; on the other are
indolence, selfishness, love of pleasure, or passion. The weak and
ill-disciplined will may remain suspended for a time between these
influences; but at length the balance inclines one way or the other,
according as the will is called into action or otherwise. If it be
allowed to remain passive, the lower influence of selfishness or
passion will prevail; and thus manhood suffers abdication,
individuality is renounced, character is degraded, and the man permits
himself to become the mere passive slave of his senses.
Thus, the power of exercising the will promptly, in obedience to
the dictates of conscience, and thereby resisting the impulses of the
lower nature, is of essential importance in moral discipline, and
absolutely necessary for the development of character in its best
forms. To acquire the habit of well-doing, to resist evil
propensities, to fight against sensual desires, to overcome inborn
selfishness, may require a long and persevering discipline; but when
once the practice of duty is learnt, it becomes consolidated in habit,
and thence-forward is comparatively easy.
The valiant good man is he who, by the resolute exercise of his
freewill, has so disciplined himself as to have acquired the habit of
virtue; as the bad man is he who, by allowing his freewill to remain
inactive, and giving the bridle to his desires and passions, has
acquired the habit of vice, by which he becomes, at last, bound as by
chains of iron.
A man can only achieve strength of purpose by the action of his
own freewill. If he is to stand erect, it must be by his own
efforts; for he cannot be kept propped up by the help of others. He
is master of himself and of his actions. He can avoid falsehood, and
be truthful; he can shun sensualism, and be continent; he can turn
aside from doing a cruel thing, and be benevolent and forgiving. All
these lie within the sphere of individual efforts, and come within the
range of self-discipline. And it depends upon men themselves whether
in these respects they will be free, pure, and good on the one hand;
or enslaved, impure, and miserable on the other.
Among the wise sayings of Epictetus we find the following: "We do
not choose our own parts in life, and have nothing to do with those
parts: our simple duty is confined to playing them well. The slave may
be as free as the consul; and freedom is the chief of blessings; it
dwarfs all others; beside it all others are insignificant; with it all
others are needless; without it no others are possible.... You must
teach men that happiness is not where, in their blindness and misery,
they seek it. It is not in strength, for Myro and Ofellius were not
happy; not in wealth, for Croesus was not happy; not in power, for the
Consuls were not happy; not in all these together, for Nero and
Sardanapulus and Agamemnon sighed and wept and tore their hair, and
were the slaves of circumstances and the dupes of semblances. It lies
in yourselves; in true freedom, in the absence or conquest of every
ignoble fear; in perfect self-government; and in a power of
contentment and peace, and the even flow of life amid poverty, exile,
disease, and the very valley of the shadow of death." (3)
The sense of duty is a sustaining power even to a courageous man.
It holds him upright, and makes him strong. It was a noble saying of
Pompey, when his friends tried to dissuade him from embarking for Rome
in a storm, telling him that he did so at the great peril of his life:
"It is necessary for me to go," he said; "it is not necessary for me
to live." What it was right that he should do, he would do, in the
face of danger and in defiance of storms.
As might be expected of the great Washington, the chief motive
power in his life was the spirit of duty. It was the regal and
commanding element in his character which gave it unity, compactness,
and vigour. When he clearly saw his duty before him, he did it at all
hazards, and with inflexible integrity. He did not do it for effect;
nor did he think of glory, or of fame and its rewards; but of the
right thing to be done, and the best way of doing it.
Yet Washington had a most modest opinion of himself; and when
offered the chief command of the American patriot army, he hesitated
to accept it until it was pressed upon him. When acknowledging in
Congress the honour which had been done him in selecting him to so
important a trust, on the execution of which the future of his country
in a great measure depended, Washington said: "I beg it may be
remembered, lest some unlucky event should happen unfavourable to my
reputation, that I this day declare, with the utmost sincerity, I do
not think myself equal to the command I am honoured with."
And in his letter to his wife, communicating to her his
appointment as Commander-in-Chief, he said: "I have used every
endeavour in my power to avoid it, not only from my unwillingness to
part with you and the family, but from a consciousness of its being a
trust too great for my capacity; and that I should enjoy more real
happiness in one month with you at home, than I have the most distant
prospect of finding abroad, if my stay were to be seven times seven
years. But, as it has been a kind of destiny that has thrown me upon
this service, I shall hope that my undertaking it is designed for some
good purpose. It was utterly out of my power to refuse the
appointment, without exposing my character to such censures as would
have reflected dishonour upon myself, and given pain to my friends.
This, I am sure, could not, and ought not, to be pleasing to you, and
must have lessened me considerably in my own esteem." (4)
Washington pursued his upright course through life, first as
Commander-in-Chief, and afterwards as President, never faltering in
the path of duty. He had no regard for popularity, but held to his
purpose, through good and through evil report, often at the risk of
his power and influence. Thus, on one occasion, when the ratification
of a treaty, arranged by Mr. Jay with Great Britain, was in question,
Washington was urged to reject it. But his honour, and the honour of
his country, was committed, and he refused to do so. A great outcry
was raised against the treaty, and for a time Washington was so
unpopular that he is said to have been actually stoned by the mob.
But he, nevertheless, held it to be his duty to ratify the treaty;
and it was carried out, in despite of petitions and remonstrances from
all quarters. "While I feel," he said, in answer to the remonstrants,
"the most lively gratitude for the many instances of approbation from
my country, I can no otherwise deserve it than by obeying the dictates
of my conscience." Wellington's watchword, like Washington's, was
duty; and no man could be more loyal to it than he was. (5) "There is
little or nothing," he once said, "in this life worth living for; but
we can all of us go straight forward and do our duty." None
recognised more cheerfully than he did the duty of obedience and
willing service; for unless men can serve faithfully, they will not
rule others wisely. There is no motto that becomes the wise man
better than ICH DIEN, "I serve;" and "They also serve who only stand
and wait."
When the mortification of an officer, because of his being
appointed to a command inferior to what he considered to be his
merits, was communicated to the Duke, he said: "In the course of my
military career, I have gone from the command of a brigade to that of
my regiment, and from the command of an army to that of a brigade or a
division, as I was ordered, and without any feeling of mortification."
Whilst commanding the allied army in Portugal, the conduct of the
native population did not seem to Wellington to be either becoming or
dutiful. "We have enthusiasm in plenty," he said, "and plenty of
cries of 'VIVA!' We have illuminations, patriotic songs, and FETES
everywhere. But what we want is, that each in his own station should
do his duty faithfully, and pay implicit obedience to legal
authority."
This abiding ideal of duty seemed to be the governing principle of
Wellington's character. It was always uppermost in his mind, and
directed all the public actions of his life. Nor did it fail to
communicate itself to those under him, who served him in the like
spirit. When he rode into one of his infantry squares at Waterloo,
as its diminished numbers closed up to receive a charge of French
cavalry, he said to the men, "Stand steady, lads; think of what they
will say of us in England;" to which the men replied, "Never fear,
sir--we know our duty."
Duty was also the dominant idea in Nelson's mind. The spirit in
which he served his country was expressed in the famous watchword,
"England expects every man to do his duty," signalled by him to the
fleet before going into action at Trafalgar, as well as in the last
words that passed his lips,--"I have done my duty; I praise God for
it!"
And Nelson's companion and friend--the brave, sensible, homely-
minded Collingwood--he who, as his ship bore down into the great
sea-fight, said to his flag-captain, "Just about this time our wives
are going to church in England,"--Collingwood too was, like his
commander, an ardent devotee of duty. "Do your duty to the best of
your ability," was the maxim which he urged upon many young men
starting on the voyage of life. To a midshipman he once gave the
following manly and sensible advice:- "You may depend upon it, that it
is more in your own power than in anybody else's to promote both your
comfort and advancement. A strict and unwearied attention to your
duty, and a complacent and respectful behaviour, not only to your
superiors but to everybody, will ensure you their regard, and the
reward will surely come; but if it should not, I am convinced you have
too much good sense to let disappointment sour you. Guard carefully
against letting discontent appear in you. It will be sorrow to your
friends, a triumph to your competitors, and cannot be productive of
any good. Conduct yourself so as to deserve the best that can come to
you, and the consciousness of your own proper behaviour will keep you
in spirits if it should not come. Let it be your ambition to be
foremost in all duty. Do not be a nice observer of turns, but ever
present yourself ready for everything, and, unless your officers are
very inattentive men, they will not allow others to impose more duty
on you than they should."
This devotion to duty is said to be peculiar to the English
nation; and it has certainly more or less characterised our greatest
public men. Probably no commander of any other nation ever went into
action with such a signal flying as Nelson at Trafalgar--not "Glory,"
or "Victory," or "Honour," or "Country"-- but simply "Duty!" How few
are the nations willing to rally to such a battle-cry!
Shortly after the wreck of the BIRKENHEAD off the coast of Africa,
in which the officers and men went down firing a FEU-DE-JOIE after
seeing the women and children safely embarked in the boats,--
Robertson of Brighton, referring to the circumstance in one of his
letters, said: "Yes! Goodness, Duty, Sacrifice,--these are the
qualities that England honours. She gapes and wonders every now and
then, like an awkward peasant, at some other things--railway kings,
electro-biology, and other trumperies; but nothing stirs her grand old
heart down to its central deeps universally and long, except the
Right. She puts on her shawl very badly, and she is awkward enough in
a concert-room, scarce knowing a Swedish nightingale from a jackdaw;
but--blessings large and long upon her!--she knows how to teach her
sons to sink like men amidst sharks and billows, without parade,
without display, as if Duty were the most natural thing in the world;
and she never mistakes long an actor for a hero, or a hero for an
actor." (6)
It is a grand thing, after all, this pervading spirit of Duty in a
nation; and so long as it survives, no one need despair of its
future. But when it has departed, or become deadened, and been
supplanted by thirst for pleasure, or selfish aggrandisement, or
"glory"--then woe to that nation, for its dissolution is near at hand!
If there be one point on which intelligent observers are agreed
more than another as to the cause of the late deplorable collapse of
France as a nation, it was the utter absence of this feeling of duty,
as well as of truthfulness, from the mind, not only of the men, but of
the leaders of the French people. The unprejudiced testimony of Baron
Stoffel, French military attache at Berlin, before the war, is
conclusive on this point. In his private report to the Emperor, found
at the Tuileries, which was written in August, 1869, about a year
before the outbreak of the war, Baron Stoffel pointed out that the
highly-educated and disciplined German people were pervaded by an
ardent sense of duty, and did not think it beneath them to reverence
sincerely what was noble and lofty; whereas, in all respects, France
presented a melancholy contrast. There the people, having sneered at
everything, had lost the faculty of respecting anything, and virtue,
family life, patriotism, honour, and religion, were represented to a
frivolous generation as only fitting subjects for ridicule. (7) Alas!
how terribly has France been punished for her sins against truth and
duty!
Yet the time was, when France possessed many great men inspired by
duty; but they were all men of a comparatively remote past. The race
of Bayard, Duguesclin, Coligny, Duquesne, Turenne, Colbert, and Sully,
seems to have died out and left no lineage. There has been an
occasional great Frenchman of modern times who has raised the cry of
Duty; but his voice has been as that of one crying in the wilderness.
De Tocqueville was one of such; but, like all men of his stamp, he
was proscribed, imprisoned, and driven from public life. Writing on
one occasion to his friend Kergorlay, he said: "Like you, I become
more and more alive to the happiness which consists in the fulfilment
of Duty. I believe there is no other so deep and so real. There is
only one great object in the world which deserves our efforts, and
that is the good of mankind." (8)
Although France has been the unquiet spirit among the nations of
Europe since the reign of Louis XIV., there have from time to time
been honest and faithful men who have lifted up their voices against
the turbulent warlike tendencies of the people, and not only preached,
but endeavoured to carry into practice, a gospel of peace. Of these,
the Abbe de St.-Pierre was one of the most courageous. He had even
the boldness to denounce the wars of Louis XIV., and to deny that
monarch's right to the epithet of 'Great,' for which he was punished
by expulsion from the Academy. The Abbe was as enthusiastic an
agitator for a system of international peace as any member of the
modern Society of Friends. As Joseph Sturge went to St. Petersburg to
convert the Emperor of Russia to his views, so the Abbe went to
Utrecht to convert the Conference sitting there, to his project for a
Diet; to secure perpetual peace. Of course he was regarded as an
enthusiast, Cardinal Dubois characterising his scheme as "the dream
of an honest man." Yet the Abbe had found his dream in the Gospel;
and in what better way could he exemplify the spirit of the Master he
served than by endeavouring to abate the horrors and abominations of
war? The Conference was an assemblage of men representing Christian
States: and the Abbe merely called upon them to put in practice the
doctrines they professed to believe. It was of no use: the potentates
and their representatives turned to him a deaf ear.
The Abbe de St.-Pierre lived several hundred years too soon. But
he determined that his idea should not be lost, and in 1713 he
published his 'Project of Perpetual Peace.' He there proposed the
formation of a European Diet, or Senate, to be composed of
representatives of all nations, before which princes should be bound,
before resorting to arms, to state their grievances and require
redress. Writing about eighty years after the publication of this
project, Volney asked: "What is a people?--an individual of the
society at large. What a war?--a duel between two individual people.
In what manner ought a society to act when two of its members
fight?--Interfere, and reconcile or repress them. In the days of the
Abbe de St.-Pierre, this was treated as a dream; but, happily for the
human race, it begins to be realised." Alas for the prediction of
Volney! The twenty-five years that followed the date at which this
passage was written, were distinguished by more devastating and
furious wars on the part of France than had ever been known in the
world before.
The Abbe was not, however, a mere dreamer. He was an active
practical philanthropist and anticipated many social improvements
which have since become generally adopted. He was the original
founder of industrial schools for poor children, where they not only
received a good education, but learned some useful trade, by which
they might earn an honest living when they grew up to manhood. He
advocated the revision and simplification of the whole code of
laws--an idea afterwards carried out by the First Napoleon. He wrote
against duelling, against luxury, against gambling, against
monasticism, quoting the remark of Segrais, that "the mania for a
monastic life is the smallpox of the mind." He spent his whole income
in acts of charity--not in almsgiving, but in helping poor children,
and poor men and women, to help themselves. His object always was to
benefit permanently those whom he assisted. He continued his love of
truth and his freedom of speech to the last. At the age of eighty he
said: "If life is a lottery for happiness, my lot has been one of the
best." When on his deathbed, Voltaire asked him how he felt, to which
he answered, "As about to make a journey into the country." And in
this peaceful frame of mind he died. But so outspoken had St.-
Pierre been against corruption in high places, that Maupertius, his
Successor at the Academy, was not permitted to pronounce his ELOGE;
nor was it until thirty-two years after his death that this honour was
done to his memory by D'Alembert. The true and emphatic epitaph of
the good, truth-loving, truth-speaking Abbe was this--"HE LOVED MUCH!"
Duty is closely allied to truthfulness of character; and the
dutiful man is, above all things, truthful in his words as in his
actions. He says and he does the right thing, in the right way, and
at the right time.
There is probably no saying of Lord Chesterfield that commends
itself more strongly to the approval of manly-minded men, than that
it is truth that makes the success of the gentleman. Clarendon,
speaking of one of the noblest and purest gentlemen of his age, says
of Falkland, that he "was so severe an adorer of truth that he could
as easily have given himself leave to steal as to dissemble."
It was one of the finest things that Mrs. Hutchinson could say of
her husband, that he was a thoroughly truthful and reliable man: "He
never professed the thing he intended not, nor promised what he
believed out of his power, nor failed in the performance of anything
that was in his power to fulfil."
Wellington was a severe admirer of truth. An illustration may be
given. When afflicted by deafness he consulted a celebrated aurist,
who, after trying all remedies in vain, determined, as a last
resource, to inject into the ear a strong solution of caustic. It
caused the most intense pain, but the patient bore it with his usual
equanimity. The family physician accidentally calling one day, found
the Duke with flushed cheeks and bloodshot eyes, and when he rose he
staggered about like a drunken man. The doctor asked to be permitted
to look at his ear, and then he found that a furious inflammation was
going on, which, if not immediately checked, must shortly reach the
brain and kill him. Vigorous remedies were at once applied, and the
inflammation was checked. But the hearing of that ear was completely
destroyed. When the aurist heard of the danger his patient had run,
through the violence of the remedy he had employed, he hastened to
Apsley House to express his grief and mortification; but the Duke
merely said: "Do not say a word more about it--you did all for the
best." The aurist said it would be his ruin when it became known
that he had been the cause of so much suffering and danger to his
Grace. "But nobody need know anything about it: keep your own
counsel, and, depend upon it, I won't say a word to any one." "Then
your Grace will allow me to attend you as usual, which will show the
public that you have not withdrawn your confidence from me?" "No,"
replied the Duke, kindly but firmly; "I can't do that, for that would
be a lie." He would not act a falsehood any more than he would speak
one. (9)
Another illustration of duty and truthfulness, as exhibited in the
fulfilment of a promise, may be added from the life of Blucher. When
he was hastening with his army over bad roads to the help of
Wellington, on the 18th of June, 1815, he encouraged his troops by
words and gestures. "Forwards, children--forwards!" "It is
impossible; it can't be done," was the answer. Again and again he
urged them. "Children, we must get on; you may say it can't be done,
but it MUST be done! I have promised my brother Wellington
--PROMISED, do you hear? You wouldn't have me BREAK MY WORD!" And it
was done.
Truth is the very bond of society, without which it must cease to
exist, and dissolve into anarchy and chaos. A household cannot be
governed by lying; nor can a nation. Sir Thomas Browne once asked,
"Do the devils lie?" "No," was his answer; "for then even hell could
not subsist." No considerations can justify the sacrifice of truth,
which ought to be sovereign in all the relations of life.
Of all mean vices, perhaps lying is the meanest. It is in some
cases the offspring of perversity and vice, and in many others of
sheer moral cowardice. Yet many persons think so lightly of it that
they will order their servants to lie for them; nor can they feel
surprised if, after such ignoble instruction, they find their servants
lying for themselves.
Sir Harry Wotton's description of an ambassador as "an honest man
sent to lie abroad for the benefit of his country," though meant as a
satire, brought him into disfavour with James I. when it became
published; for an adversary quoted it as a principle of the king's
religion. That it was not Wotton's real view of the duty of an honest
man, is obvious from the lines quoted at the head of this chapter, on
'The Character of a Happy Life,' in which he eulogises the man
"Whose armour is his honest thought, And simple truth his utmost
skill."
But lying assumes many forms--such as diplomacy, expediency, and
moral reservation; and, under one guise or another, it is found more
or less pervading all classes of society. Sometimes it assumes the
form of equivocation or moral dodging--twisting and so stating the
things said as to convey a false impression--a kind of lying which a
Frenchman once described as "walking round about the truth."
There are even men of narrow minds and dishonest natures, who
pride themselves upon their jesuitical cleverness in equivocation, in
their serpent-wise shirking of the truth and getting out of moral
back-doors, in order to hide their real opinions and evade the
consequences of holding and openly professing them. Institutions or
systems based upon any such expedients must necessarily prove false
and hollow. "Though a lie be ever so well dressed," says George
Herbert, "it is ever overcome." Downright lying, though bolder and
more vicious, is even less contemptible than such kind of shuffling
and equivocation.
Untruthfulness exhibits itself in many other forms: in reticency
on the one hand, or exaggeration on the other; in disguise or
concealment; in pretended concurrence in others opinions; in assuming
an attitude of conformity which is deceptive; in making promises, or
allowing them to be implied, which are never intended to be performed;
or even in refraining from speaking the truth when to do so is a duty.
There are also those who are all things to all men, who say one thing
and do another, like Bunyan's Mr. Facing-both-ways; only deceiving
themselves when they think they are deceiving others--and who, being
essentially insincere, fail to evoke confidence, and invariably in the
end turn out failures, if not impostors.
Others are untruthful in their pretentiousness, and in assuming
merits which they do not really possess. The truthful man is, on the
contrary, modest, and makes no parade of himself and his deeds. When
Pitt was in his last illness, the news reached England of the great
deeds of Wellington in India. "The more I hear of his exploits," said
Pitt, "the more I admire the modesty with which he receives the
praises he merits for them. He is the only man I ever knew that was
not vain of what he had done, and yet had so much reason to be so."
So it is said of Faraday by Professor Tyndall, that "pretence of
all kinds, whether in life or in philosophy, was hateful to him." Dr.
Marshall Hall was a man of like spirit--courageously truthful,
dutiful, and manly. One of his most intimate friends has said of him
that, wherever he met with untruthfulness or sinister motive, he would
expose it, saying--"I neither will, nor can, give my consent to a
lie." The question, "right or wrong," once decided in his own mind,
the right was followed, no matter what the sacrifice or the
difficulty--neither expediency nor inclination weighing one jot in the
balance.
There was no virtue that Dr. Arnold laboured more sedulously to
instil into young men than the virtue of truthfulness, as being the
manliest of virtues, as indeed the very basis of all true manliness.
He designated truthfulness as "moral transparency," and he valued it
more highly than any other quality. When lying was detected, he
treated it as a great moral offence; but when a pupil made an
assertion, he accepted it with confidence. "If you say so, that is
quite enough; OF COURSE I believe your word." By thus trusting and
believing them, he educated the young in truthfulness; the boys at
length coming to say to one another: "It's a shame to tell Arnold a
lie--he always believes one." (10)
One of the most striking instances that could be given of the
character of the dutiful, truthful, laborious man, is presented in
the life of the late George Wilson, Professor of Technology in the
University of Edinburgh. (11) Though we bring this illustration
under the head of Duty, it might equally have stood under that of
Courage, Cheerfulness, or Industry, for it is alike illustrative of
these several qualities.
Wilson's life was, indeed, a marvel of cheerful laboriousness;
exhibiting the power of the soul to triumph over the body, and almost
to set it at defiance. It might be taken as an illustration of the
saying of the whaling-captain to Dr. Kane, as to the power of moral
force over physical: "Bless you, sir, the soul will any day lift the
body out of its boots!"
A fragile but bright and lively boy, he had scarcely entered
manhood ere his constitution began to exhibit signs of disease. As
early, indeed, as his seventeenth year, he began to complain of
melancholy and sleeplessness, supposed to be the effects of bile. "I
don't think I shall live long," he then said to a friend; "my mind
will--must work itself out, and the body will soon follow it." A
strange confession for a boy to make! But he gave his physical health
no fair chance. His life was all brain-work, study, and competition.
When he took exercise it was in sudden bursts, which did him more
harm than good. Long walks in the Highlands jaded and exhausted him;
and he returned to his brain- work unrested and unrefreshed.
It was during one of his forced walks of some twenty-four miles in
the neighbourhood of Stirling, that he injured one of his feet, and
he returned home seriously ill. The result was an abscess, disease of
the ankle-joint, and long agony, which ended in the amputation of the
right foot. But he never relaxed in his labours. He was now writing,
lecturing, and teaching chemistry. Rheumatism and acute inflammation
of the eye next attacked him; and were treated by cupping, blisetring,
and colchicum. Unable himself to write, he went on preparing his
lectures, which he dictated to his sister. Pain haunted him day and
night, and sleep was only forced by morphia. While in this state of
general prostration, symptoms of pulmonary disease began to show
themselves. Yet he continued to give the weekly lectures to which he
stood committed to the Edinburgh School of Arts. Not one was shirked,
though their delivery, before a large audience, was a most exhausting
duty. "Well, there's another nail put into my coffin," was the remark
made on throwing off his top-coat on returning home; and a sleepless
night almost invariably followed.
At twenty-seven, Wilson was lecturing ten, eleven, or more hours
weekly, usually with setons or open blister-wounds upon him--his
"bosom friends," he used to call them. He felt the shadow of death
upon him; and he worked as if his days were numbered. "Don't be
surprised," he wrote to a friend, "if any morning at breakfast you
hear that I am gone." But while he said so, he did not in the least
degree indulge in the feeling of sickly sentimentality. He worked on
as cheerfully and hopefully as if in the very fulness of his strength.
"To none," said he, "is life so sweet as to those who have lost all
fear to die."
Sometimes he was compelled to desist from his labours by sheer
debility, occasioned by loss of blood from the lungs; but after a few
weeks' rest and change of air, he would return to his work, saying,
"The water is rising in the well again!" Though disease had fastened
on his lungs, and was spreading there, and though suffering from a
distressing cough, he went on lecturing as usual. To add to his
troubles, when one day endeavouring to recover himself from a stumble
occasioned by his lameness, he overstrained his arm, and broke the
bone near the shoulder. But he recovered from his successive
accidents and illnesses in the most extraordinary way. The reed bent,
but did not break: the storm passed, and it stood erect as before.
There was no worry, nor fever, nor fret about him; but instead,
cheerfulness, patience, and unfailing perseverance. His mind, amidst
all his sufferings, remained perfectly calm and serene. He went about
his daily work with an apparently charmed life, as if he had the
strength of many men in him. Yet all the while he knew he was dying,
his chief anxiety being to conceal his state from those about him at
home, to whom the knowledge of his actual condition would have been
inexpressibly distressing. "I am cheerful among strangers," he said,
"and try to live day by day as a dying man." (12)
He went on teaching as before--lecturing to the Architectural
Institute and to the School of Arts. One day, after a lecture before
the latter institute, he lay down to rest, and was shortly awakened by
the rupture of a bloodvessel, which occasioned him the loss of a
considerable quantity of blood. He did not experience the despair and
agony that Keats did on a like occasion; (13) though he equally knew
that the messenger of death had come, and was waiting for him. He
appeared at the family meals as usual, and next day he lectured twice,
punctually fulfilling his engagements; but the exertion of speaking
was followed by a second attack of haemorrhage. He now became
seriously ill, and it was doubted whether he would survive the night.
But he did survive; and during his convalescence he was appointed to
an important public office--that of Director of the Scottish
Industrial Museum, which involved a great amount of labour, as well as
lecturing, in his capacity of Professor of Technology, which he held
in connection with the office.
From this time forward, his "dear museum," as he called it,
absorbed all his surplus energies. While busily occupied in
collecting models and specimens for the museum, he filled up his
odds-and-ends of time in lecturing to Ragged Schools, Ragged Kirks,
and Medical Missionary Societies. He gave himself no rest, either of
mind or body; and "to die working" was the fate he envied. His mind
would not give in, but his poor body was forced to yield, and a severe
attack of haemorrhage--bleeding from both lungs and stomach
(14)--compelled him to relax in his labours. "For a month, or some
forty days," he wrote--"a dreadful Lent --the mind has blown
geographically from 'Araby the blest,' but thermometrically from
Iceland the accursed. I have been made a prisoner of war, hit by an
icicle in the lungs, and have shivered and burned alternately for a
large portion of the last month, and spat blood till I grew pale with
coughing. Now I am better, and to-morrow I give my concluding lecture
(on Technology), thankful that I have contrived, notwithstanding all
my troubles, to carry on without missing a lecture to the last day of
the Faculty of Arts, to which I belong." (15)
How long was it to last? He himself began to wonder, for he had
long felt his life as if ebbing away. At length he became languid,
weary, and unfit for work; even the writing of a letter cost him a
painful effort, and. he felt "as if to lie down and sleep were the
only things worth doing." Yet shortly after, to help a Sunday-school,
he wrote his 'Five Gateways of Knowledge,' as a lecture, and
afterwards expanded it into a book. He also recovered strength
sufficient to enable him to proceed with his lectures to the
institutions to which he belonged, besides on various occasions
undertaking to do other people's work. "I am looked upon as good as
mad," he wrote to his brother, "because, on a hasty notice, I took a
defaulting lecturer's place at the Philosophical Institution, and
discoursed on the Polarization of Light.... But I like work: it is a
family weakness."
Then followed chronic malaise--sleepless nights, days of pain, and
more spitting of blood. "My only painless moments," he says, "were
when lecturing." In this state of prostration and disease, the
indefatigable man undertook to write the 'Life of Edward Forbes'; and
he did it, like everything he undertook, with admirable ability. He
proceeded with his lectures as usual. To an association of teachers
he delivered a discourse on the educational value of industrial
science. After he had spoken to his audience for an hour, he left
them to say whether he should go on or not, and they cheered him on to
another half-hour's address. "It is curious," he wrote, "the feeling
of having an audience, like clay in your hands, to mould for a season
as you please. It is a terribly responsible power.... I do not mean
for a moment to imply that I am indifferent to the good opinion of
others--far otherwise; but to gain this is much less a concern with me
than to deserve it. It was not so once. I had no wish for unmerited
praise, but I was too ready to settle that I did merit it. Now, the
word DUTY seems to me the biggest word in the world, and is uppermost
in all my serious doings."
This was written only about four months before his death. A
little later he wrote, "I spin my thread of life from week to week,
rather than from year to year." Constant attacks of bleeding from the
lungs sapped his little remaining strength, but did not altogether
disable him from lecturing. He was amused by one of his friends
proposing to put him under trustees for the purpose of looking after
his health. But he would not be restrained from working, so long as a
vestige of strength remained.
One day, in the autumn of 1859, he returned from his customary
lecture in the University of Edinburgh with a severe pain in his
side. He was scarcely able to crawl upstairs. Medical aid was sent
for, and he was pronounced to be suffering from pleurisy and
inflammation of the lungs. His enfeebled frame was ill able to
resist so severe a disease, and he sank peacefully to the rest he so
longed for, after a few days' illness:
"Wrong not the dead with tears! A glorious bright to-morrow
Endeth a weary life of pain and sorrow."
The life of George Wilson--so admirably and affectionately related
by his sister--is probably one of the most marvellous records of pain
and longsuffering, and yet of persistent, noble, and useful work, that
is to be found in the whole history of literature. His entire career
was indeed but a prolonged illustration of the lines which he himself
addressed to his deceased friend, Dr. John Reid, a likeminded man,
whose memoir he wrote:-
"Thou wert a daily lesson Of courage, hope, and faith; We
wondered at thee living, We envy thee thy death.
Thou wert so meek and reverent, So resolute of will, So bold to
bear the uttermost, And yet so calm and still."
NOTES
(1) From Lovelace's lines to Lucusta (Lucy Sacheverell), 'Going to
the Wars.'
(2) Amongst other great men of genius, Ariosto and Michael Angelo
devoted to her their service and their muse.
(3) See the Rev. F. W. Farrar's admirable book, entitled 'Seekers
after God' (Sunday Library). The author there says: "Epictetus was
not a Christian. He has only once alluded to the Christians in his
works, and then it is under the opprobrious title of 'Galileans,' who
practised a kind of insensibility in painful circumstances, and an
indifference to worldly interests, which Epictetus unjustly sets down
to 'mere habit.' Unhappily, it was not granted to these heathen
philosophers in any true sense to know what Christianity was. They
thought that it was an attempt to imitate the results of philosophy,
without having passed through the necessary discipline. They viewed
it with suspicion, they treated it with injustice. And yet in
Christianity, and in Christianity alone, they would have found an
ideal which would have surpassed their loftiest anticipations."
(4) Sparks' 'Life of Washington,' pp. 141-2.
(5) Wellington, like Washington, had to pay the penalty of his
adherence to the cause he thought right, in his loss of "popularity."
He was mobbed in the streets of London, and had his windows smashed
by the mob, while his wife lay dead in the house. Sir Walter Scott
also was hooted and pelted at Hawick by "the people," amidst cries of
"Burke Sir Walter!"
(6) Robertson's 'Life and Letters,' ii. 157.
(7) We select the following passages from this remarkable report of
Baron Stoffel, as being of more than merely temporary interest:-
Who that has lived here (Berlin) will deny that the Prussians are
energetic, patriotic, and teeming with youthful vigour; that they are
not corrupted by sensual pleasures, but are manly, have earnest
convictions, do not think it beneath them to reverence sincerely what
is noble and lofty? What a melancholy contrast does France offer in
all this? Having sneered at everything, she has lost the faculty of
respecting anything. Virtue, family life, patriotism, honour,
religion, are represented to a frivolous generation as fitting
subjects of ridicule. The theatres have become schools of
shamelessness and obscenity. Drop by drop, poison is instilled into
the very core of an ignorant and enervated society, which has neither
the insight nor the energy left to amend its institutions, nor--which
would be the most necessary step to take--become better informed or
more moral. One after the other the fine qualities of the nation are
dying out. Where is the generosity, the loyalty, the charm of our
ESPRIT, and our former elevation of soul? If this goes on, the time
will come when this noble race of France will be known only by its
faults. And France has no idea that while she is sinking, more
earnest nations are stealing the march upon her, are distancing her on
the road to progress, and are preparing for her a secondary position
in the world.
"I am afraid that these opinions will not be relished in France.
However correct, they differ too much from what is usually said and
asserted at home. I should wish some enlightened and unprejudiced
Frenchmen to come to Prussia and make this country their study. They
would soon discover that they were living in the midst of a strong,
earnest, and intelligent nation, entirely destitute, it is true, of
noble and delicate feelings, of all fascinating charms, but endowed
with every solid virtue, and alike distinguished for untiring
industry, order, and economy, as well as for patriotism, a strong
sense of duty, and that consciousness of personal dignity which in
their case is so happily blended with respect for authority and
obedience to the law. They would see a country with firm, sound, and
moral institutions, whose upper classes are worthy of their rank, and,
by possessing the highest degree of culture, devoting themselves to
the service of the State, setting an example of patriotism, and
knowing how to preserve the influence legitimately their own. They
would find a State with an excellent administration where everything
is in its right place, and where the most admirable order prevails in
every branch of the social and political system. Prussia may be well
compared to a massive structure of lofty proportions and astounding
solidity, which, though it has nothing to delight the eye or speak to
the heart, cannot but impress us with its grand symmetry, equally
observable in its broad foundations as in its strong and sheltering
roof.
"And what is France? What is French society in these latter days?
A hurly-burly of disorderly elements, all mixed and jumbled together;
a country in which everybody claims the right to occupy the highest
posts, yet few remember that a man to be employed in a responsible
position ought to have a well-balanced mind, ought to be strictly
moral, to know something of the world, and possess certain
intellectual powers; a country in which the highest offices are
frequently held by ignorant and uneducated persons, who either boast
some special talent, or whose only claim is social position and some
versatility and address. What a baneful and degrading state of
things! And how natural that, while it lasts, France should be full
of a people without a position, without a calling, who do not know
what to do with themselves, but are none the less eager to envy and
malign every one who does....
"The French do not possess in any very marked degree the qualities
required to render general conscription acceptable, or to turn it to
account. Conceited and egotistic as they are, the people would object
to an innovation whose invigorating force they are unable to
comprehend, and which cannot be carried out without virtues which they
do not possess--self-abnegation, conscientious recognition of duty,
and a willingness to sacrifice personal interests to the loftier
demands of the country. As the character of individuals is only
improved by experience, most nations require a chastisement before
they set about reorganising their political institutions. So Prussia
wanted a Jena to make her the strong and healthy country she is."
(8) Yet even in De Tocqueville's benevolent nature, there was a
pervading element of impatience. In the very letter in which the
above passage occurs, he says: "Some persons try to be of use to men
while they despise them, and others because they love them. In the
services rendered by the first, there is always something incomplete,
rough, and contemptuous, that inspires neither confidence nor
gratitude. I should like to belong to the second class, but often I
cannot. I love mankind in general, but I constantly meet with
individuals whose baseness revolts me. I struggle daily against a
universal contempt for my fellow, creatures."--MEMOIRS AND REMAINS OF
DE TOCQUEVILLE, vol. i. p. 813. (Letter to Kergorlay, Nov. 13th,
1833).
(9) Gleig's 'Life of Wellington,' pp. 314, 315.
(10) 'Life of Arnold,' i. 94.
(11) See the 'Memoir of George Wilson, M.D., F.R.S.E.' By his
sister (Edinburgh, 1860).
(12) Such cases are not unusual. We personally knew a young lady,
a countrywoman of Professor Wilson, afflicted by cancer in the
breast, who concealed the disease from her parents lest it should
occasion them distress. An operation became necessary; and when the
surgeons called for the purpose of performing it, she herself answered
the door, received them with a cheerful countenance, led them upstairs
to her room, and submitted to the knife; and her parents knew nothing
of the operation until it was all over. But the disease had become too
deeply seated for recovery, and the noble self-denying girl died,
cheerful and uncomplaining to the end.
(13) "One night, about eleven o'clock, Keats returned home in a
state of strange physical excitement--it might have appeared, to those
who did not know him, one of fierce intoxication. He told his friend
he had been outside the stage-coach, had received a severe chill, was
a little fevered, but added, 'I don't feel it now.' He was easily
persuaded to go to bed, and as he leapt into the cold sheets, before
his head was on the pillow, he slightly coughed and said, 'That is
blood from my mouth; bring me the candle; let me see this blood' He
gazed steadfastly for some moments at the ruddy stain, and then,
looking in his friend's face with an expression of sudden calmness
never to be forgotten, said, 'I know the colour of that blood--it is
arterial blood. I cannot be deceived in that colour; that drop is my
death-warrant. I must die!'" --Houghton's LIFE OF KEATS, Ed. 1867, p.
289.
In the case of George Wilson, the bleeding was in the first
instance from the stomach, though he afterwards suffered from lung
haemorrhage like Keats. Wilson afterwards, speaking of the Lives of
Lamb and Keats, which had just appeared, said he had been reading them
with great sadness. "There is," said he, "something in the noble
brotherly love of Charles to brighten, and hallow, and relieve that
sadness; but Keats's deathbed is the blackness of midnight,
unmitigated by one ray of light!"
(14) On the doctors, who attended him in his first attack,
mistaking the haemorrhage from the stomach for haemorrhage from the
lungs, he wrote: "It would have been but poor consolation to have had
as an epitaph:-
"Here lies George Wilson, Overtaken by Nemesis; He died not of
Haemoptysis, But of Haematemesis."
"Temper is nine-tenths of Christianity."--BISHOP WILSON.
"Heaven is a temper, not a place."--DR. CHALMERS.
"And should my youth, as youth is apt I know,
Some harshness show;
All vain asperities I day by day
Would wear away,
Till the smooth temper of my age should be
Like the high leaves upon the Holly Tree"--SOUTHEY.
Even Power itself hath not one-half the might of Gentleness"
--LEIGH HUNT.
It has been said that men succeed in life quite as much by their
temper as by their talents. However this may be, it is certain that
their happiness in life depends mainly upon their equanimity of
disposition, their patience and forbearance, and their kindness and
thoughtfulness for those about them. It is really true what Plato
says, that in seeking the good of others we find our own.
There are some natures so happily constituted that they can find
good in everything. There is no calamity so great but they can educe
comfort or consolation from it--no sky so black but they can discover
a gleam of sunshine issuing through it from some quarter or another;
and if the sun be not visible to their eyes, they at least comfort
themselves with the thought that it IS there, though veiled from them
for some good and wise purpose.
Such happy natures are to be envied. They have a beam in the eye
--a beam of pleasure, gladness, religious cheerfulness, philosophy,
call it what you will. Sunshine is about their hearts, and their mind
gilds with its own hues all that it looks upon. When they have
burdens to bear, they bear them cheerfully-- not repining, nor
fretting, nor wasting their energies in useless lamentation, but
struggling onward manfully, gathering up such flowers as lie along
their path.
Let it not for a moment be supposed that men such as those we
speak of are weak and unreflective. The largest and most
comprehensive natures are generally also the most cheerful, the most
loving, the most hopeful, the most trustful. It is the wise man, of
large vision, who is the quickest to discern the moral sunshine
gleaming through the darkest cloud. In present evil he sees
prospective good; in pain, he recognises the effort of nature to
restore health; in trials, he finds correction and discipline; and in
sorrow and suffering, he gathers courage, knowledge, and the best
practical wisdom.
When Jeremy Taylor had lost all--when his house had been
plundered, and his family driven out-of-doors, and all his worldly
estate had been sequestrated--he could still write thus: "I am fallen
into the hands of publicans and sequestrators, and they have taken all
from me; what now? Let me look about me. They have left me the sun
and moon, a loving wife, and many friends to pity me, and some to
relieve me; and I can still discourse, and, unless I list, they have
not taken away my merry countenance and my cheerful spirit, and a good
conscience; they have still left me the providence of God, and all the
promises of the Gospel, and my religion, and my hopes of heaven, and
my charity to them, too; and still I sleep and digest, I eat and
drink, I read and meditate.... And he that hath so many causes of joy,
and so great, is very much in love with sorrow and peevishness, who
loves all these pleasures, and chooses to sit down upon his little
handful of thorns." (1)
Although cheerfulness of disposition is very much a matter of
inborn temperament, it is also capable of being trained and
cultivated like any other habit. We may make the best of life, or we
may make the worst of it; and it depends very much upon ourselves
whether we extract joy or misery from it. There are always two sides
of life on which we can look, according as we choose--the bright side
or the gloomy. We can bring the power of the will to bear in making
the choice, and thus cultivate the habit of being happy or the
reverse. We can encourage the disposition of looking at the brightest
side of things, instead of the darkest. And while we see the cloud,
let us not shut our eyes to the silver lining.
The beam in the eye sheds brightness, beauty, and joy upon life in
all its phases. It shines upon coldness, and warms it; upon
suffering, and comforts it; upon ignorance, and enlightens it; upon
sorrow, and cheers it. The beam in the eye gives lustre to intellect,
and brightens beauty itself. Without it the sunshine of life is not
felt, flowers bloom in vain, the marvels of heaven and earth are not
seen or acknowledged, and creation is but a dreary, lifeless, soulless
blank.
While cheerfulness of disposition is a great source of enjoyment
in life, it is also a great safeguard of character. A devotional
writer of the present day, in answer to the question, How are we to
overcome temptations? says: "Cheerfulness is the first thing,
cheerfulness is the second, and cheerfulness is the third." It
furnishes the best soil for the growth of goodness and virtue. It
gives brightness of heart and elasticity of spirit. It is the
companion of charity, the nurse of patience the mother of wisdom. It
is also the best of moral and mental tonics. "The best cordial of
all," said Dr. Marshall Hall to one of his patients, "is
cheerfulness." And Solomon has said that "a merry heart doeth good
like a medicine." When Luther was once applied to for a remedy
against melancholy, his advice was: "Gaiety and courage-- innocent
gaiety, and rational honourable courage--are the best medicine for
young men, and for old men, too; for all men against sad thoughts."
(2) Next to music, if not before it, Luther loved children and
flowers. The great gnarled man had a heart as tender as a woman's.
Cheerfulness is also an excellent wearing quality. It has been
called the bright weather of the heart. It gives harmony of soul,
and is a perpetual song without words. It is tantamount to repose.
It enables nature to recruit its strength; whereas worry and
discontent debilitate it, involving constant wear-and-tear. How is it
that we see such men as Lord Palmerston growing old in harness,
working on vigorously to the end? Mainly through equanimity of temper
and habitual cheerfulness. They have educated themselves in the habit
of endurance, of not being easily provoked, of bearing and forbearing,
of hearing harsh and even unjust things said of them without indulging
in undue resentment, and avoiding worreting, petty, and
self-tormenting cares. An intimate friend of Lord Palmerston, who
observed him closely for twenty years, has said that he never saw him
angry, with perhaps one exception; and that was when the ministry
responsible for the calamity in Affghanistan, of which he was one,
were unjustly accused by their opponents of falsehood, perjury, and
wilful mutilation of public documents.
So far as can be learnt from biography, men of the greatest genius
have been for the most part cheerful, contented men--not eager for
reputation, money, or power--but relishing life, and keenly
susceptible of enjoyment, as we find reflected in their works. Such
seem to have been Homer, Horace, Virgil, Montaigne, Shakspeare,
Cervantes. Healthy serene cheerfulness is apparent in their great
creations. Among the same class of cheerful-minded men may also be
mentioned Luther, More, Bacon, Leonardo da Vinci, Raphael, and Michael
Angelo. Perhaps they were happy because constantly occupied, and in
the pleasantest of all work--that of creating out of the fulness and
richness of their great minds.
Milton, too, though a man of many trials and sufferings, must have
been a man of great cheerfulness and elasticity of nature. Though
overtaken by blindness, deserted by friends, and fallen upon evil
days--"darkness before and danger's voice behind" --yet did he not
bate heart or hope, but "still bore up and steered right onward."
Henry Fielding was a man borne down through life by debt, and
difficulty, and bodily suffering; and yet Lady Mary Wortley Montague
has said of him that, by virtue of his cheerful disposition, she was
persuaded he "had known more happy moments than any person on earth."
Dr. Johnson, through all his trials and sufferings and hard fights
with fortune, was a courageous and cheerful-natured man. He manfully
made the best of life, and tried to be glad in it. Once, when a
clergyman was complaining of the dulness of society in the country,
saying "they only talk of runts" (young cows), Johnson felt flattered
by the observation of Mrs. Thrale's mother, who said, "Sir, Dr.
Johnson would learn to talk of runts"--meaning that he was a man who
would make the most of his situation, whatever it was.
Johnson was of opinion that a man grew better as he grew older,
and that his nature mellowed with age. This is certainly a much more
cheerful view of human nature than that of Lord Chesterfield, who saw
life through the eyes of a cynic, and held that "the heart never grows
better by age: it only grows harder." But both sayings may be true
according to the point from which life is viewed, and the temper by
which a man is governed; for while the good, profiting by experience,
and disciplining themselves by self-control, will grow better, the
ill-conditioned, uninfluenced by experience, will only grow worse.
Sir Walter Scott was a man full of the milk of human kindness.
Everybody loved him. He was never five minutes in a room ere the
little pets of the family, whether dumb or lisping, had found out his
kindness for all their generation. Scott related to Captain Basil
Hall an incident of his boyhood which showed the tenderness of his
nature. One day, a dog coming towards him, he took up a big stone,
threw it, and hit the dog. The poor creature had strength enough left
to crawl up to him and lick his feet, although he saw its leg was
broken. The incident, he said, had given him the bitterest remorse in
his after-life; but he added, "An early circumstance of that kind,
properly reflected on, is calculated to have the best effect on one's
character throughout life."
"Give me an honest laugher," Scott would say; and he himself
laughed the heart's laugh. He had a kind word for everybody, and his
kindness acted all round him like a contagion, dispelling the reserve
and awe which his great name was calculated to inspire. "He'll come
here," said the keeper of the ruins of Melrose Abbey to Washington
Irving--"he'll come here some-times, wi' great folks in his company,
and the first I'll know of it is hearing his voice calling out,
'Johnny! Johnny Bower!' And when I go out I'm sure to be greeted wi'
a joke or a pleasant word. He'll stand and crack and laugh wi' me,
just like an auld wife; and to think that of a man that has SUCH AN
AWFU' KNOWLEDGE O' HISTORY!"
Dr. Arnold was a man of the same hearty cordiality of manner--
full of human sympathy. There was not a particle of affectation or
pretence of condescension about him. "I never knew such a humble man
as the doctor," said the parish clerk at Laleham; "he comes and shakes
us by the hand as if he was one of us." "He used to come into my
house," said an old woman near Fox How, "and talk to me as if I were a
lady."
Sydney Smith was another illustration of the power of
cheerfulness. He was ever ready to look on the bright side of
things; the darkest cloud had to him its silver lining. Whether
working as country curate, or as parish rector, he was always kind,
laborious, patient, and exemplary; exhibiting in every sphere of life
the spirit of a Christian, the kindness of a pastor, and the honour of
a gentleman. In his leisure he employed his pen on the side of
justice, freedom, education, toleration, emancipation; and his
writings, though full of common-sense and bright humour, are never
vulgar; nor did he ever pander to popularity or prejudice. His good
spirits, thanks to his natural vivacity and stamina of constitution,
never forsook him; and in his old age, when borne down by disease, he
wrote to a friend: "I have gout, asthma, and seven other maladies, but
am otherwise very well." In one of the last letters he wrote to Lady
Carlisle, he said: "If you hear of sixteen or eighteen pounds of flesh
wanting an owner, they belong to me. I look as if a curate had been
taken out of me."
Great men of science have for the most part been patient,
laborious, cheerful-minded men. Such were Galileo, Descartes,
Newton, and Laplace. Euler the mathematician, one of the greatest of
natural philosophers, was a distinguished instance. Towards the close
of his life he became completely blind; but he went on writing as
cheerfully as before, supplying the want of sight by various ingenious
mechanical devices, and by the increased cultivation of his memory,
which became exceedingly tenacious. His chief pleasure was in the
society of his grandchildren, to whom he taught their little lessons
in the intervals of his severer studies.
In like manner, Professor Robison of Edinburgh, the first editor
of the 'Encyclopaedia Britannica,' when disabled from work by a
lingering and painful disorder, found his chief pleasure in the
society of his grandchild. "I am infinitely delighted," he wrote to
James Watt, "with observing the growth of its little soul, and
particularly with its numberless instincts, which formerly passed
unheeded. I thank the French theorists for more forcibly directing
my attention to the finger of God, which I discern in every awkward
movement and every wayward whim. They are all guardians of his life
and growth and power. I regret indeed that I have not time to make
infancy and the development of its powers my sole study."
One of the sorest trials of a man's temper and patience was that
which befell Abauzit, the natural philosopher, while residing at
Geneva; resembling in many respects a similar calamity which occurred
to Newton, and which he bore with equal resignation. Amongst other
things, Abauzit devoted much study to the barometer and its
variations, with the object of deducing the general laws which
regulated atmospheric pressure. During twenty-seven years he made
numerous observations daily, recording them on sheets prepared for the
purpose. One day, when a new servant was installed in the house, she
immediately proceeded to display her zeal by "putting things
to-rights." Abauzit's study, amongst other rooms, was made tidy and
set in order. When he entered it, he asked of the servant, "What have
you done with the paper that was round the barometer?" "Oh, sir," was
the reply, "it was so dirty that I burnt it, and put in its place this
paper, which you will see is quite new." Abauzit crossed his arms,
and after some moments of internal struggle, he said, in a tone of
calmness and resignation: "You have destroyed the results of
twenty-seven years labour; in future touch nothing whatever in this
room."
The study of natural history more than that of any other branch of
science, seems to be accompanied by unusual cheerfulness and
equanimity of temper on the part of its votaries; the result of which
is, that the life of naturalists is on the whole more prolonged than
that of any other class of men of science. A member of the Linnaean
Society has informed us that of fourteen members who died in 1870, two
were over ninety, five were over eighty, and two were over seventy.
The average age of all the members who died in that year was
seventy-five.
Adanson, the French botanist, was about seventy years old when the
Revolution broke out, and amidst the shock he lost everything-- his
fortune, his places, and his gardens. But his patience, courage, and
resignation never forsook him. He became reduced to the greatest
straits, and even wanted food and clothing; yet his ardour of
investigation remained the same. Once, when the Institute invited
him, as being one of its oldest members, to assist at a SEANCE, his
answer was that he regretted he could not attend for want of shoes.
"It was a touching sight," says Cuvier, "to see the poor old man,
bent over the embers of a decaying fire, trying to trace characters
with a feeble hand on the little bit of paper which he held,
forgetting all the pains of life in some new idea in natural history,
which came to him like some beneficent fairy to cheer him in his
loneliness." The Directory eventually gave him a small pension, which
Napoleon doubled; and at length, easeful death came to his relief in
his seventy-ninth year. A clause in his will, as to the manner of his
funeral, illustrates the character of the man. He directed that a
garland of flowers, provided by fifty-eight families whom he had
established in life, should be the only decoration of his coffin--a
slight but touching image of the more durable monument which he had
erected for himself in his works.
Such are only a few instances, of the cheerful-working-ness of
great men, which might, indeed, be multiplied to any extent. All
large healthy natures are cheerful as well as hopeful. Their example
is also contagious and diffusive, brightening and cheering all who
come within reach of their influence. It was said of Sir John
Malcolm, when he appeared in a saddened camp in India, that "it was
like a gleam of sunlight,.... no man left him without a smile on his
face. He was 'boy Malcolm' still. It was impossible to resist the
fascination of his genial presence." (3)
There was the same joyousness of nature about Edmund Burke. Once
at a dinner at Sir Joshua Reynolds's, when the conversation turned
upon the suitability of liquors for particular temperaments, Johnson
said, "Claret is for boys, port for men, and brandy for heroes."
"Then," said Burke, "let me have claret: I love to be a boy, and to
have the careless gaiety of boyish days." And so it is, that there
are old young men, and young old men--some who are as joyous and
cheerful as boys in their old age, and others who are as morose and
cheerless as saddened old men while still in their boyhood.
In the presence of some priggish youths, we have heard a cheerful
old man declare that, apparently, there would soon be nothing but
"old boys" left. Cheerfulness, being generous and genial, joyous and
hearty, is never the characteristic of prigs. Goethe used to exclaim
of goody-goody persons, "Oh! if they had but the heart to commit an
absurdity!" This was when he thought they wanted heartiness and
nature. "Pretty dolls!" was his expression when speaking of them, and
turning away.
The true basis of cheerfulness is love, hope, and patience. Love
evokes love, and begets loving kindness. Love cherishes hopeful and
generous thoughts of others. It is charitable, gentle, and truthful.
It is a discerner of good. It turns to the brightest side of things,
and its face is ever directed towards happiness. It sees "the glory in
the grass, the sunshine on the flower." It encourages happy thoughts,
and lives in an atmosphere of cheerfulness. It costs nothing, and yet
is invaluable; for it blesses its possessor, and grows up in abundant
happiness in the bosoms of others. Even its sorrows are linked with
pleasures, and its very tears are sweet.
Bentham lays it down as a principle, that a man becomes rich in
his own stock of pleasures in proportion to the amount he distributes
to others. His kindness will evoke kindness, and his happiness be
increased by his own benevolence. "Kind words," he says, "cost no
more than unkind ones. Kind words produce kind actions, not only on
the part of him to whom they are addressed, but on the part of him by
whom they are employed; and this not incidentally only, but
habitually, in virtue of the principle of association.".... "It may
indeed happen, that the effort of beneficence may not benefit those
for whom it was intended; but when wisely directed, it MUST benefit
the person from whom it emanates. Good and friendly conduct may meet
with an unworthy and ungrateful return; but the absence of gratitude
on the part of the receiver cannot destroy the self-approbation which
recompenses the giver, and we may scatter the seeds of courtesy and
kindliness around us at so little expense. Some of them will
inevitably fall on good ground, and grow up into benevolence in the
minds of others; and all of them will bear fruit of happiness in the
bosom whence they spring. Once blest are all the virtues always;
twice blest sometimes." (4)
The poet Rogers used to tell a story of a little girl, a great
favourite with every one who knew her. Some one said to her, "Why
does everybody love you so much?" She answered, "I think it is
because I love everybody so much." This little story is capable of a
very wide application; for our happiness as human beings, generally
speaking, will be found to be very much in proportion to the number of
things we love, and the number of things that love us. And the
greatest worldly success, however honestly achieved, will contribute
comparatively little to happiness, unless it be accompanied by a
lively benevolence towards every human being.
Kindness is indeed a great power in the world. Leigh Hunt has
truly said that "Power itself hath not one half the might of
gentleness." Men are always best governed through their affections.
There is a French proverb which says that, "LES HOMMES SE PRENNENT
PAR LA DOUCEUR," and a coarser English one, to the effect that "More
wasps are caught by honey than by vinegar." "Every act of kindness,"
says Bentham, "is in fact an exercise of power, and a stock of
friendship laid up; and why should not power exercise itself in the
production of pleasure as of pain?"
Kindness does not consist in gifts, but in gentleness and
generosity of spirit. Men may give their money which comes from the
purse, and withhold their kindness which comes from the heart. The
kindness that displays itself in giving money, does not amount to
much, and often does quite as much harm as good; but the kindness of
true sympathy, of thoughtful help, is never without beneficent
results.
The good temper that displays itself in kindness must not be
confounded with softness or silliness. In its best form, it is not a
merely passive but an active condition of being. It is not by any
means indifferent, but largely sympathetic. It does not characterise
the lowest and most gelatinous forms of human life, but those that are
the most highly organized. True kindness cherishes and actively
promotes all reasonable instrumentalities for doing practical good in
its own time; and, looking into futurity, sees the same spirit working
on for the eventual elevation and happiness of the race.
It is the kindly-dispositioned men who are the active men of the
world, while the selfish and the sceptical, who have no love but for
themselves, are its idlers. Buffon used to say, that he would give
nothing for a young man who did not begin life with an enthusiasm of
some sort. It showed that at least he had faith in something good,
lofty, and generous, even if unattainable.
Egotism, scepticism, and selfishness are always miserable
companions in life, and they are especially unnatural in youth. The
egotist is next-door to a fanatic. Constantly occupied with self, he
has no thought to spare for others. He refers to himself in all
things, thinks of himself, and studies himself, until his own little
self becomes his own little god.
Worst of all are the grumblers and growlers at fortune--who find
that "whatever is is wrong," and will do nothing to set matters
right--who declare all to be barren "from Dan even to Beersheba."
These grumblers are invariably found the least efficient helpers in
the school of life. As the worst workmen are usually the readiest to
"strike," so the least industrious members of society are the readiest
to complain. The worst wheel of all is the one that creaks.
There is such a thing as the cherishing of discontent until the
feeling becomes morbid. The jaundiced see everything about them
yellow. The ill-conditioned think all things awry, and the whole
world out-of-joint. All is vanity and vexation of spirit. The
little girl in PUNCH, who found her doll stuffed with bran, and
forthwith declared everything to be hollow and wanted to "go into a
nunnery," had her counterpart in real life. Many full-grown people
are quite as morbidly unreasonable. There are those who may be said
to "enjoy bad health;" they regard it as a sort of property. They can
speak of "MY headache"--"MY backache," and so forth, until in course
of time it becomes their most cherished possession. But perhaps it is
the source to them of much coveted sympathy, without which they might
find themselves of comparatively little importance in the world.
We have to be on our guard against small troubles, which, by
encouraging, we are apt to magnify into great ones. Indeed, the
chief source of worry in the world is not real but imaginary evil
--small vexations and trivial afflictions. In the presence of a
great sorrow, all petty troubles disappear; but we are too ready to
take some cherished misery to our bosom, and to pet it there. Very
often it is the child of our fancy; and, forgetful of the many means
of happiness which lie within our reach, we indulge this spoilt child
of ours until it masters us. We shut the door against cheerfulness,
and surround ourselves with gloom. The habit gives a colouring to our
life. We grow querulous, moody, and unsympathetic. Our conversation
becomes full of regrets. We are harsh in our judgment of others. We
are unsociable, and think everybody else is so. We make our breast a
storehouse of pain, which we inflict upon ourselves as well as upon
others.
This disposition is encouraged by selfishness: indeed, it is for
the most part selfishness unmingled, without any admixture of
sympathy or consideration for the feelings of those about us. It is
simply wilfulness in the wrong direction. It is wilful, because it
might be avoided. Let the necessitarians argue as they may, freedom
of will and action is the possession of every man and woman. It is
sometimes our glory, and very often it is our shame: all depends upon
the manner in which it is used. We can choose to look at the bright
side of things, or at the dark. We can follow good and eschew evil
thoughts. We can be wrongheaded and wronghearted, or the reverse, as
we ourselves determine. The world will be to each one of us very much
what we make it. The cheerful are its real possessors, for the world
belongs to those who enjoy it.
It must, however, be admitted that there are cases beyond the
reach of the moralist. Once, when a miserable-looking dyspeptic
called upon a leading physician and laid his case before him, "Oh!"
said the doctor, "you only want a good hearty laugh: go and see
Grimaldi." "Alas!" said the miserable patient, "I am Grimaldi!" So,
when Smollett, oppressed by disease, travelled over Europe in the hope
of finding health, he saw everything through his own jaundiced eyes.
"I'll tell it," said Smellfungus, "to the world." "You had better
tell it," said Sterne, "to your physician." The restless, anxious,
dissatisfied temper, that is ever ready to run and meet care half-way,
is fatal to all happiness and peace of mind. How often do we see men
and women set themselves about as if with stiff bristles, so that one
dare scarcely approach them without fear of being pricked! For want
of a little occasional command over one's temper, an amount of misery
is occasioned in society which is positively frightful. Thus
enjoyment is turned into bitterness, and life becomes like a journey
barefooted amongst thorns and briers and prickles. "Though sometimes
small evils," says Richard Sharp, "like invisible insects, inflict
great pain, and a single hair may stop a vast machine, yet the chief
secret of comfort lies in not suffering trifles to vex us; and in
prudently cultivating an undergrowth of small pleasures, since very
few great ones, alas! are let on long leases." (5)
St. Francis de Sales treats the same topic from the Christian's
point of view. "How carefully," he says, "we should cherish the
little virtues which spring up at the foot of the Cross!" When the
saint was asked, "What virtues do you mean?" he replied: "Humility,
patience, meekness, benignity, bearing one another's burden,
condescension, softness of heart, cheerfulness, cordiality,
compassion, forgiving injuries, simplicity, candour-- all, in short of
that sort of little virtues. They, like unobtrusive violets, love the
shade; like them are sustained by dew; and though, like them, they
make little show, they shed a sweet odour on all around." (6)
And again he said: "If you would fall into any extreme, let it be
on the side of gentleness. The human mind is so constructed that it
resists rigour, and yields to softness. A mild word quenches anger,
as water quenches the rage of fire; and by benignity any soil may be
rendered fruitful. Truth, uttered with courtesy, is heaping coals of
fire on the head--or rather, throwing roses in the face. How can we
resist a foe whose weapons are pearls and diamonds?" (7)
Meeting evils by anticipation is not the way to overcome them. If
we perpetually carry our burdens about with us, they will soon bear
us down under their load. When evil comes, we must deal with it
bravely and hopefully. What Perthes wrote to a young man, who seemed
to him inclined to take trifles as well as sorrows too much to heart,
was doubtless good advice: "Go forward with hope and confidence. This
is the advice given thee by an old man, who has had a full share of
the burden and heat of life's day. We must ever stand upright, happen
what may, and for this end we must cheerfully resign ourselves to the
varied influences of this many- coloured life. You may call this
levity, and you are partly right; for flowers and colours are but
trifles light as air, but such levity is a constituent portion of our
human nature, without which it would sink under the weight of time.
While on earth we must still play with earth, and with that which
blooms and fades upon its breast. The consciousness of this mortal
life being but the way to a higher goal, by no means precludes our
playing with it cheerfully; and, indeed, we must do so, otherwise our
energy in action will entirely fail." (8)
Cheerfulness also accompanies patience, which is one of the main
conditions of happiness and success in life. "He that will be
served," says George Herbert, "must be patient." It was said of the
cheerful and patient King Alfred, that "good fortune accompanied him
like a gift of God." Marlborough's expectant calmness was great, and
a principal secret of his success as a general. "Patience will
overcome all things," he wrote to Godolphin, in 1702. In the midst of
a great emergency, while baffled and opposed by his allies, he said,
"Having done all that is possible, we should submit with patience."
Last and chiefest of blessings is Hope, the most common of
possessions; for, as Thales the philosopher said, "Even those who
have nothing else have hope." Hope is the great helper of the poor.
It has even been styled "the poor man's bread." It is also the
sustainer and inspirer of great deeds. It is recorded of Alexander
the Great, that when he succeeded to the throne of Macedon, he gave
away amongst his friends the greater part of the estates which his
father had left him; and when Perdiccas asked him what he reserved for
himself, Alexander answered, "The greatest possession of all,--Hope!"
The pleasures of memory, however great, are stale compared with
those of hope; for hope is the parent of all effort and endeavour;
and "every gift of noble origin is breathed upon by Hope's perpetual
breath." It may be said to be the moral engine that moves the world,
and keeps it in action; and at the end of all there stands before us
what Robertson of Ellon styled "The Great Hope." "If it were not for
Hope," said Byron, "where would the Future be?--in hell! It is
useless to say where the Present is, for most of us know; and as for
the Past, WHAT predominates in memory?--Hope baffled. ERGO, in all
human affairs it is Hope, Hope, Hope!" (9)
"We must be gentle, now we are gentlemen."--SHAKSPEARE.
"Manners are not idle, but the fruit
Of noble nature and of loyal mind."--TENNYSON.
"A beautiful behaviour is better than a beautiful form; it gives a
higher pleasure than statues and pictures; it is the finest of the
fine arts."--EMERSON.
"Manners are often too much neglected; they are most important to
men, no less than to women.... Life is too short to get over a
bad manner; besides, manners are the shadows of virtues."--THE
REV. SIDNEY SMITH.
Manner is one of the principal external graces of character. It
is the ornament of action, and often makes the commonest offices
beautiful by the way in which it performs them. It is a happy way of
doing things, adorning even the smallest details of life, and
contributing to render it, as a whole, agreeable and pleasant.
Manner is not so frivolous or unimportant as some may think it to
be; for it tends greatly to facilitate the business of life, as well
as to sweeten and soften social intercourse. "Virtue itself," says
Bishop Middleton, "offends, when coupled with a forbidding manner."
Manner has a good deal to do with the estimation in which men are
held by the world; and it has often more influence in the government
of others than qualities of much greater depth and substance. A
manner at once gracious and cordial is among the greatest aids to
success, and many there are who fail for want of it. (1) For a great
deal depends upon first impressions; and these are usually favourable
or otherwise according to a man's courteousness and civility.
While rudeness and gruffness bar doors and shut hearts, kindness
and propriety of behaviour, in which good manners consist, act as an
"open sesame" everywhere. Doors unbar before them, and they are a
passport to the hearts of everybody, young and old.
There is a common saying that "Manners make the man;" but this is
not so true as that "Man makes the manners." A man may be gruff, and
even rude, and yet be good at heart and of sterling character; yet he
would doubtless be a much more agreeable, and probably a much more
useful man, were he to exhibit that suavity of disposition and
courtesy of manner which always gives a finish to the true gentleman.
Mrs. Hutchinson, in the noble portraiture of her husband, to which
we have already had occasion to refer, thus describes his manly
courteousness and affability of disposition:- "I cannot say whether
he were more truly magnanimous or less proud; he never disdained the
meanest person, nor flattered the greatest; he had a loving and sweet
courtesy to the poorest, and would often employ many spare hours with
the commonest soldiers and poorest labourers; but still so ordering
his familiarity, that it never raised them to a contempt, but
entertained still at the same time a reverence and love of him." (2)
A man's manner, to a certain extent, indicates his character. It
is the external exponent of his inner nature. It indicates his
taste, his feelings, and his temper, as well as the society to which
he has been accustomed. There is a conventional manner, which is of
comparatively little importance; but the natural manner, the outcome
of natural gifts, improved by careful self- culture, signifies a great
deal.
Grace of manner is inspired by sentiment, which is a source of no
slight enjoyment to a cultivated mind. Viewed in this light,
sentiment is of almost as much importance as talents and
acquirements, while it is even more influential in giving the
direction to a man s tastes and character. Sympathy is the golden
key that unlocks the hearts of others. It not only teaches
politeness and courtesy, but gives insight and unfolds wisdom, and
may almost be regarded as the crowning grace of humanity.
Artificial rules of politeness are of very little use. What
passes by the name of "Etiquette" is often of the essence of
unpoliteness and untruthfulness. It consists in a great measure of
posture-making, and is easily seen through. Even at best, etiquette
is but a substitute for good manners, though it is often but their
mere counterfeit.
Good manners consist, for the most part, in courteousness and
kindness. Politeness has been described as the art of showing, by
external signs, the internal regard we have for others. But one may be
perfectly polite to another without necessarily having a special
regard for him. Good manners are neither more nor less than beautiful
behaviour. It has been well said, that "a beautiful form is better
than a beautiful face, and a beautiful behaviour is better than a
beautiful form; it gives a higher pleasure than statues or
pictures--it is the finest of the fine arts."
The truest politeness comes of sincerity. It must be the outcome
of the heart, or it will make no lasting impression; for no amount of
polish can dispense with truthfulness. The natural character must be
allowed to appear, freed of its angularities and asperities. Though
politeness, in its best form, should (as St. Francis de Sales says)
resemble water--"best when clearest, most simple, and without
taste,"--yet genius in a man will always cover many defects of manner,
and much will be excused to the strong and the original. Without
genuineness and individuality, human life would lose much of its
interest and variety, as well as its manliness and robustness of
character.
True courtesy is kind. It exhibits itself in the disposition to
contribute to the happiness of others, and in refraining from all
that may annoy them. It is grateful as well as kind, and readily
acknowledges kind actions. Curiously enough, Captain Speke found
this quality of character recognised even by the natives of Uganda on
the shores of Lake Nyanza, in the heart of Africa, where, he says.
"Ingratitude, or neglecting to thank a person for a benefit
conferred, is punishable."
True politeness especially exhibits itself in regard for the
personality of others. A man will respect the individuality of
another if he wishes to be respected himself. He will have due
regard for his views and opinions, even though they differ from his
own. The well-mannered man pays a compliment to another, and
sometimes even secures his respect, by patiently listening to him. He
is simply tolerant and forbearant, and refrains from judging harshly;
and harsh judgments of others will almost invariably provoke harsh
judgments of ourselves.
The unpolite impulsive man will, however, sometimes rather lose
his friend than his joke. He may surely be pronounced a very foolish
person who secures another's hatred at the price of a moment's
gratification. It was a saying of Brunel the engineer-- himself one
of the kindest-natured of men--that "spite and ill- nature are among
the most expensive luxuries in life." Dr. Johnson once said: "Sir, a
man has no more right to SAY an uncivil thing than to ACT one--no more
right to say a rude thing to another than to knock him down."
A sensible polite person does not assume to be better or wiser or
richer than his neighbour. He does not boast of his rank, or his
birth, or his country; or look down upon others because they have not
been born to like privileges with himself. He does not brag of his
achievements or of his calling, or "talk shop" whenever he opens his
mouth. On the contrary, in all that he says or does, he will be
modest, unpretentious, unassuming; exhibiting his true character in
performing rather than in boasting, in doing rather than in talking.
Want of respect for the feelings of others usually originates in
selfishness, and issues in hardness and repulsiveness of manner. It
may not proceed from malignity so much as from want of sympathy and
want of delicacy--a want of that perception of, and attention to,
those little and apparently trifling things by which pleasure is given
or pain occasioned to others. Indeed, it may be said that in
self-sacrificingness, so to speak, in the ordinary intercourse of
life, mainly consists the difference between being well and ill bred.
Without some degree of self-restraint in society, a man may be
found almost insufferable. No one has pleasure in holding
intercourse with such a person, and he is a constant source of
annoyance to those about him. For want of self-restraint, many men
are engaged all their lives in fighting with difficulties of their own
making, and rendering success impossible by their own crossgrained
ungentleness; whilst others, it may be much less gifted, make their
way and achieve success by simple patience, equanimity, and
self-control.
It has been said that men succeed in life quite as much by their
temper as by their talents. However this may be, it is certain that
their happiness depends mainly on their temperament, especially upon
their disposition to be cheerful; upon their complaisance, kindliness
of manner, and willingness to oblige others--details of conduct which
are like the small-change in the intercourse of life, and are always
in request.
Men may show their disregard of others in various unpolite ways--
as, for instance, by neglect of propriety in dress, by the absence of
cleanliness, or by indulging in repulsive habits. The slovenly dirty
person, by rendering himself physically disagreeable, sets the tastes
and feelings of others at defiance, and is rude and uncivil only under
another form.
David Ancillon, a Huguenot preacher of singular attractiveness,
who studied and composed his sermons with the greatest care, was
accustomed to say "that it was showing too little esteem for the
public to take no pains in preparation, and that a man who should
appear on a ceremonial-day in his nightcap and dressing-gown, could
not commit a greater breach of civility."
The perfection of manner is ease--that it attracts no man's notice
as such, but is natural and unaffected. Artifice is incompatible with
courteous frankness of manner. Rochefoucauld has said that "nothing
so much prevents our being natural as the desire of appearing so."
Thus we come round again to sincerity and truthfulness, which find
their outward expression in graciousness, urbanity, kindliness, and
consideration for the feelings of others. The frank and cordial man
sets those about him at their ease. He warms and elevates them by his
presence, and wins all hearts. Thus manner, in its highest form, like
character, becomes a genuine motive power.
"The love and admiration," says Canon Kingsley, "which that truly
brave and loving man, Sir Sydney Smith, won from every one, rich and
poor, with whom he came in contact seems to have arisen from the one
fact, that without, perhaps, having any such conscious intention, he
treated rich and poor, his own servants and the noblemen his guests,
alike, and alike courteously, considerately, cheerfully,
affectionately--so leaving a blessing, and reaping a blessing,
wherever he went."
Good manners are usually supposed to be the peculiar
characteristic of persons gently born and bred, and of persons moving
in the higher rather than in the lower spheres of society. And this is
no doubt to a great extent true, because of the more favourable
surroundings of the former in early life. But there is no reason why
the poorest classes should not practise good manners towards each
other as well as the richest.
Men who toil with their hands, equally with those who do not, may
respect themselves and respect one another; and it is by their
demeanour to each other--in other words, by their manners--that
self-respect as well as mutual respect are indicated. There is
scarcely a moment in their lives, the enjoyment of which might not be
enhanced by kindliness of this sort--in the workshop, in the street,
or at home. The civil workman will exercise increased power amongst
his class, and gradually induce them to imitate him by his persistent
steadiness, civility, and kindness. Thus Benjamin Franklin, when a
working-man, is said to have reformed the habits of an entire
workshop.
One may be polite and gentle with very little money in his purse.
Politeness goes far, yet costs nothing. It is the cheapest of all
commodities. It is the humblest of the fine arts, yet it is so
useful and so pleasure-giving, that it might almost be ranked amongst
the humanities.
Every nation may learn something of others; and if there be one
thing more than another that the English working-class might afford
to copy with advantage from their Continental neighbours, it is their
politeness. The French and Germans, of even the humblest classes, are
gracious in manner, complaisant, cordial, and well-bred. The foreign
workman lifts his cap and respectfully salutes his fellow-workman in
passing. There is no sacrifice of manliness in this, but grace and
dignity. Even the lowest poverty of the foreign workpeople is not
misery, simply because it is cheerful. Though not receiving one-half
the income which our working-classes do, they do not sink into
wretchedness and drown their troubles in drink; but contrive to make
the best of life, and to enjoy it even amidst poverty.
Good taste is a true economist. It may be practised on small
means, and sweeten the lot of labour as well as of ease. It is all
the more enjoyed, indeed, when associated with industry and the
performance of duty. Even the lot of poverty is elevated by taste.
It exhibits itself in the economies of the household. It gives
brightness and grace to the humblest dwelling. It produces
refinement, it engenders goodwill, and creates an atmosphere of
cheerfulness. Thus good taste, associated with kindliness, sympathy,
and intelligence, may elevate and adorn even the lowliest lot.
The first and best school of manners, as of character, is always
the Home, where woman is the teacher. The manners of society at
large are but the reflex of the manners of our collective homes,
neither better nor worse. Yet, with all the disadvantages of
ungenial homes, men may practise self-culture of manner as of
intellect, and learn by good examples to cultivate a graceful and
agreeable behaviour towards others. Most men are like so many gems
in the rough, which need polishing by contact with other and better
natures, to bring out their full beauty and lustre. Some have but one
side polished, sufficient only to show the delicate graining of the
interior; but to bring out the full qualities of the gem needs the
discipline of experience, and contact with the best examples of
character in the intercourse of daily life.
A good deal of the success of manner consists in tact, and it is
because women, on the whole, have greater tact than men, that they
prove its most influential teachers. They have more self- restraint
than men, and are naturally more gracious and polite. They possess an
intuitive quickness and readiness of action, have a keener insight
into character, and exhibit greater discrimination and address. In
matters of social detail, aptness and dexterity come to them like
nature; and hence well-mannered men usually receive their best culture
by mixing in the society of gentle and adroit women.
Tact is an intuitive art of manner, which carries one through a
difficulty better than either talent or knowledge. "Talent," says a
public writer, "is power: tact is skill. Talent is weight: tact is
momentum. Talent knows what to do: tact knows how to do it. Talent
makes a man respectable: tact makes him respected. Talent is wealth:
tact is ready-money."
The difference between a man of quick tact and of no tact whatever
was exemplified in an interview which once took place between Lord
Palmerston and Mr. Behnes, the sculptor. At the last sitting which
Lord Palmerston gave him, Behnes opened the conversation with--"Any
news, my Lord, from France? How do we stand with Louis Napoleon?"
The Foreign Secretary raised his eyebrows for an instant, and quietly
replied, "Really, Mr. Behnes, I don't know: I have not seen the
newspapers!" Poor Behnes, with many excellent qualities and much real
talent, was one of the many men who entirely missed their way in life
through want of tact.
Such is the power of manner, combined with tact, that Wilkes, one
of the ugliest of men, used to say, that in winning the graces of a
lady, there was not more than three days' difference between him and
the handsomest man in England.
But this reference to Wilkes reminds us that too much importance
must not be attached to manner, for it does not afford any genuine
test of character. The well-mannered man may, like Wilkes, be merely
acting a part, and that for an immoral purpose. Manner, like other
fine arts, gives pleasure, and is exceedingly agreeable to look upon;
but it may be assumed as a disguise, as men "assume a virtue though
they have it not." It is but the exterior sign of good conduct, but
may be no more than skin-deep. The most highly- polished person may
be thoroughly depraved in heart; and his superfine manners may, after
all, only consist in pleasing gestures and in fine phrases.
On the other hand, it must be acknowledged that some of the
richest and most generous natures have been wanting in the graces of
courtesy and politeness. As a rough rind sometimes covers the
sweetest fruit, so a rough exterior often conceals a kindly and
hearty nature. The blunt man may seem even rude in manner, and yet,
at heart, be honest, kind, and gentle.
John Knox and Martin Luther were by no means distinguished for
their urbanity. They had work to do which needed strong and
determined rather than well-mannered men. Indeed, they were both
thought to be unnecessarily harsh and violent in their manner. "And
who art thou," said Mary Queen of Scots to Knox, "that presumest to
school the nobles and sovereign of this realm?"-- "Madam," replied
Knox, "a subject born within the same." It is said that his boldness,
or roughness, more than once made Queen Mary weep. When Regent Morton
heard of this, he said, "Well, 'tis better that women should weep than
bearded men."
As Knox was retiring from the Queen's presence on one occasion, he
overheard one of the royal attendants say to another, "He is not
afraid!" Turning round upon them, he said: "And why should the
pleasing face of a gentleman frighten me? I have looked on the faces
of angry men, and yet have not been afraid beyond measure." When the
Reformer, worn-out by excess of labour and anxiety, was at length laid
to his rest, the Regent, looking down into the open grave, exclaimed,
in words which made a strong impression from their aptness and
truth--"There lies he who never feared the face of man!"
Luther also was thought by some to be a mere compound of violence
and ruggedness. But, as in the case of Knox, the times in which he
lived were rude and violent; and the work he had to do could scarcely
have been accomplished with gentleness and suavity. To rouse Europe
from its lethargy, he had to speak and to write with force, and even
vehemence. Yet Luther's vehemence was only in words. His apparently
rude exterior covered a warm heart. In private life he was gentle,
loving, and affectionate. He was simple and homely, even to
commonness. Fond of all common pleasures and enjoyments, he was
anything but an austere man, or a bigot; for he was hearty, genial,
and even "jolly." Luther was the common people's hero in his
lifetime, and he remains so in Germany to this day.
Samuel Johnson was rude and often gruff in manner. But he had
been brought up in a rough school. Poverty in early life had made
him acquainted with strange companions. He had wandered in the
streets with Savage for nights together, unable between them to raise
money enough to pay for a bed. When his indomitable courage and
industry at length secured for him a footing in society, he still bore
upon him the scars of his early sorrows and struggles. He was by
nature strong and robust, and his experience made him unaccommodating
and self-asserting. When he was once asked why he was not invited to
dine out as Garrick was, he answered, "Because great lords and ladies
did not like to have their mouths stopped;" and Johnson was a
notorious mouth-stopper, though what he said was always worth
listening to.
Johnson's companions spoke of him as "Ursa Major;" but, as
Goldsmith generously said of him, "No man alive has a more tender
heart; he has nothing of the bear about him but his skin." The
kindliness of Johnson's nature was shown on one occasion by the
manner in which he assisted a supposed lady in crossing Fleet Street.
He gave her his arm, and led her across, not observing that she was
in liquor at the time. But the spirit of the act was not the less
kind on that account. On the other hand, the conduct of the
bookseller on whom Johnson once called to solicit employment, and who,
regarding his athletic but uncouth person, told him he had better "go
buy a porter's knot and carry trunks," in howsoever bland tones the
advice might have been communicated, was simply brutal.
While captiousness of manner, and the habit of disputing and
contradicting everything said, is chilling and repulsive, the
opposite habit of assenting to, and sympathising with, every
statement made, or emotion expressed, is almost equally disagreeable.
It is unmanly, and is felt to be dishonest. "It may seem difficult,"
says Richard Sharp, "to steer always between bluntness and
plain-dealing, between giving merited praise and lavishing
indiscriminate flattery; but it is very easy--good- humour,
kindheartedness, and perfect simplicity, being all that are requisite
to do what is right in the right way." (3)
At the same time, many are unpolite--not because they mean to be
so, but because they are awkward, and perhaps know no better. Thus,
when Gibbon had published the second and third volumes of his 'Decline
and Fall,' the Duke of Cumberland met him one day, and accosted him
with, "How do you do, Mr. Gibbon? I see you are always AT IT in the
old way--SCRIBBLE, SCRIBBLE, SCRIBBLE!" The Duke probably intended to
pay the author a compliment, but did not know how better to do it,
than in this blunt and apparently rude way.
Again, many persons are thought to be stiff, reserved, and proud,
when they are only shy. Shyness is characteristic of most people of
Teutonic race. It has been styled "the English mania," but it
pervades, to a greater or less degree, all the Northern nations. The
ordinary Englishman, when he travels abroad, carries his shyness with
him. He is stiff, awkward, ungraceful, undemonstrative, and
apparently unsympathetic; and though he may assume a brusqueness of
manner, the shyness is there, and cannot be wholly concealed. The
naturally graceful and intensely social French cannot understand such
a character; and the Englishman is their standing joke--the subject of
their most ludicrous caricatures. George Sand attributes the rigidity
of the natives of Albion to a stock of FLUIDE BRITANNIQUE which they
carry about with them, that renders them impassive under all
circumstances, and "as impervious to the atmosphere of the regions
they traverse as a mouse in the centre of an exhausted receiver." (4)
The average Frenchman or Irishman excels the average Englishman,
German, or American in courtesy and ease of manner, simply because it
is his nature. They are more social and less self-dependent than men
of Teutonic origin, more demonstrative and less reticent; they are
more communicative, conversational, and freer in their intercourse
with each other in all respects; whilst men of German race are
comparatively stiff, reserved, shy, and awkward. At the same time, a
people may exhibit ease, gaiety, and sprightliness of character, and
yet possess no deeper qualities calculated to inspire respect. They
may have every grace of manner, and yet be heartless, frivolous,
selfish. The character may be on the surface only, and without any
solid qualities for a foundation.
There can be no doubt as to which of the two sorts of people--the
easy and graceful, or the stiff and awkward--it is most agreeable to
meet, either in business, in society, or in the casual intercourse of
life. Which make the fastest friends, the truest men of their word,
the most conscientious performers of their duty, is an entirely
different matter.
The dry GAUCHE Englishman--to use the French phrase, L'ANGLAIS
EMPETRE--is certainly a somewhat disagreeable person to meet at
first. He looks as if he had swallowed a poker. He is shy himself,
and the cause of shyness in others. He is stiff, not because he is
proud, but because he is shy; and he cannot shake it off, even if he
would. Indeed, we should not be surprised to find that even the
clever writer who describes the English Philistine in all his enormity
of awkward manner and absence of grace, were himself as shy as a bat.
When two shy men meet, they seem like a couple of icicles. They
sidle away and turn their backs on each other in a room, or when
travelling creep into the opposite corners of a railway-carriage.
When shy Englishmen are about to start on a journey by railway, they
walk along the train, to discover an empty compartment in which to
bestow themselves; and when once ensconced, they inwardly hate the
next man who comes in. So; on entering the dining-room of their club,
each shy man looks out for an unoccupied table, until sometimes--all
the tables in the room are occupied by single diners. All this
apparent unsociableness is merely shyness --the national
characteristic of the Englishman.
"The disciples of Confucius," observes Mr. Arthur Helps, "say that
when in the presence of the prince, his manner displayed RESPECTFUL
UNEASINESS. There could hardly be given any two words which more
fitly describe the manner of most Englishmen when in society."
Perhaps it is due to this feeling that Sir Henry Taylor, in his
'Statesman,' recommends that, in the management of interviews, the
minister should be as "near to the door" as possible; and, instead of
bowing his visitor out, that he should take refuge, at the end of an
interview, in the adjoining room. "Timid and embarrassed men," he
says, "will sit as if they were rooted to the spot, when they are
conscious that they have to traverse the length of a room in their
retreat. In every case, an interview will find a more easy and
pleasing termination WHEN THE DOOR IS AT HAND as the last words are
spoken." (5)
The late Prince Albert, one of the gentlest and most amiable, was
also one of the most retiring of men. He struggled much against his
sense of shyness, but was never able either to conquer or conceal it.
His biographer, in explaining its causes, says: "It was the shyness
of a very delicate nature, that is not sure it will please, and is
without the confidence and the vanity which often go to form
characters that are outwardly more genial." (6)
But the Prince shared this defect with some of the greatest of
Englishmen. Sir Isaac Newton was probably the shyest man of his age.
He kept secret for a time some of his greatest discoveries, for fear
of the notoriety they might bring him. His discovery of the Binomial
Theorem and its most important applications, as well as his still
greater discovery of the Law of Gravitation, were not published for
years after they were made; and when he communicated to Collins his
solution of the theory of the moon's rotation round the earth, he
forbade him to insert his name in connection with it in the
'Philosophical Transactions,' saying: "It would, perhaps, increase my
acquaintance--the thing which I chiefly study to decline."
From all that can be learnt of Shakspeare, it is to be inferred
that he was an exceedingly shy man. The manner in which his plays
were sent into the world--for it is not known that he edited or
authorized the publication of a single one of them--and the dates at
which they respectively appeared, are mere matters of conjecture. His
appearance in his own plays in second and even third-rate parts--his
indifference to reputation, and even his apparent aversion to be held
in repute by his contemporaries--his disappearance from London (the
seat and centre of English histrionic art) so soon as he had realised
a moderate competency-- and his retirement about the age of forty, for
the remainder of his days, to a life of obscurity in a small town in
the midland counties--all seem to unite in proving the shrinking
nature of the man, and his unconquerable shyness.
It is also probable that, besides being shy--and his shyness may,
like that of Byron, have been increased by his limp--Shakspeare did
not possess in any high degree the gift of hope. It is a remarkable
circumstance, that whilst the great dramatist has, in the course of
his writings, copiously illustrated all other gifts, affections, and
virtues, the passages are very rare in which Hope is mentioned, and
then it is usually in a desponding and despairing tone, as when he
says:
"The miserable hath no other medicine, But only Hope."
Many of his sonnets breathe the spirit of despair and
hopelessness. (7) He laments his lameness; (8) apologizes for his
profession as an actor; (9) expresses his "fear of trust" in himself,
and his hopeless, perhaps misplaced, affection; (10) anticipates a
"coffin'd doom;" and utters his profoundly pathetic cry "for restful
death."
It might naturally be supposed that Shakspeare's profession of an
actor, and his repeated appearances in public, would speedily
overcome his shyness, did such exist. But inborn shyness, when
strong, is not so easily conquered. (11) Who could have believed
that the late Charles Mathews, who entertained crowded houses night
after night, was naturally one of the shyest of men? He would even
make long circuits (lame though he was) along the byelanes of London
to avoid recognition. His wife says of him, that he looked "sheepish"
and confused if recognised; and that his eyes would fall, and his
colour would mount, if he heard his name even whispered in passing
along the streets. (12)
Nor would it at first sight have been supposed that Lord Byron was
affected with shyness, and yet he was a victim to it; his biographer
relating that, while on a visit to Mrs. Pigot, at Southwell, when he
saw strangers approaching, he would instantly jump out of the window,
and escape on to the lawn to avoid them.
But a still more recent and striking instance is that of the late
Archbishop Whately, who, in the early part of his life, was painfully
oppressed by the sense of shyness. When at Oxford, his white rough
coat and white hat obtained for him the soubriquet of "The White
Bear;" and his manners, according to his own account of himself,
corresponded with the appellation. He was directed, by way of remedy,
to copy the example of the best-mannered men he met in society; but
the attempt to do this only increased his shyness, and he failed. He
found that he was all the while thinking of himself, rather than of
others; whereas thinking of others, rather than of one's self, is of
the true essence of politeness.
Finding that he was making no progress, Whately was driven to
utter despair; and then he said to himself: "Why should I endure this
torture all my life to no purpose? I would bear it still if there was
any success to be hoped for; but since there is not, I will die
quietly, without taking any more doses. I have tried my very utmost,
and find that I must be as awkward as a bear all my life, in spite of
it. I will endeavour to think as little about it as a bear, and make
up my mind to endure what can't be cured." From this time forth he
struggled to shake off all consciousness as to manner, and to
disregard censure as much as possible. In adopting this course, he
says: "I succeeded beyond my expectations; for I not only got rid of
the personal suffering of shyness, but also of most of those faults of
manner which consciousness produces; and acquired at once an easy and
natural manner--careless, indeed, in the extreme, from its originating
in a stern defiance of opinion, which I had convinced myself must be
ever against me; rough and awkward, for smoothness and grace are
quite out of my way, and, of course, tutorially pedantic; but
unconscious, and therefore giving expression to that goodwill towards
men which I really feel; and these, I believe, are the main points."
(13)
Washington, who was an Englishman in his lineage, was also one in
his shyness. He is described incidentally by Mr. Josiah Quincy, as
"a little stiff in his person, not a little formal in his manner, and
not particularly at ease in the presence of strangers. He had the air
of a country gentleman not accustomed to mix much in society,
perfectly polite, but not easy in his address and conversation, and
not graceful in his movements."
Although we are not accustomed to think of modern Americans as
shy, the most distinguished American author of our time was probably
the shyest of men. Nathaniel Hawthorne was shy to the extent of
morbidity. We have observed him, when a stranger entered the room
where he was, turn his back for the purpose of avoiding recognition.
And yet, when the crust of his shyness was broken, no man could be
more cordial and genial than Hawthorne.
We observe a remark in one of Hawthorne's lately-published
'Notebooks,' (14) that on one occasion he met Mr. Helps in society,
and found him "cold." And doubtless Mr. Helps thought the same of
him. It was only the case of two shy men meeting, each thinking the
other stiff and reserved, and parting before their mutual film of
shyness had been removed by a little friendly intercourse. Before
pronouncing a hasty judgment in such cases, it would be well to bear
in mind the motto of Helvetius, which Bentham says proved such a real
treasure to him: "POUR AIMER LES HOMMES, IL FAUT ATTENDRE PEU."
We have thus far spoken of shyness as a defect. But there is
another way of looking at it; for even shyness has its bright side,
and contains an element of good. Shy men and shy races are ungraceful
and undemonstrative, because, as regards society at large, they are
comparatively unsociable. They do not possess those elegances of
manner, acquired by free intercourse, which distinguish the social
races, because their tendency is to shun society rather than to seek
it. They are shy in the presence of strangers, and shy even in their
own families. They hide their affections under a robe of reserve, and
when they do give way to their feelings, it is only in some very
hidden inner-chamber. And yet the feelings ARE there, and not the
less healthy and genuine that they are not made the subject of
exhibition to others.
It was not a little characteristic of the ancient Germans, that
the more social and demonstrative peoples by whom they were
surrounded should have characterised them as the NIEMEC, or Dumb men.
And the same designation might equally apply to the modern English,
as compared, for example, with their nimbler, more communicative and
vocal, and in all respects more social neighbours, the modern French
and Irish.
But there is one characteristic which marks the English people, as
it did the races from which they have mainly sprung, and that is
their intense love of Home. Give the Englishman a home, and he is
comparatively indifferent to society. For the sake of a holding
which he can call his own, he will cross the seas, plant himself on
the prairie or amidst the primeval forest, and make for himself a
home. The solitude of the wilderness has no fears for him; the
society of his wife and family is sufficient, and he cares for no
other. Hence it is that the people of Germanic origin, from whom the
English and Americans have alike sprung, make the best of colonizers,
and are now rapidly extending themselves as emigrants and settlers in
all parts of the habitable globe.
The French have never made any progress as colonizers, mainly
because of their intense social instincts--the secret of their graces
of manner,--and because they can never forget that they are Frenchmen.
(15) It seemed at one time within the limits of probability that the
French would occupy the greater part of the North American continent.
From Lower Canada their line of forts extended up the St. Lawrence,
and from Fond du Lac on Lake Superior, along the River St. Croix, all
down the Mississippi, to its mouth at New Orleans. But the great,
self-reliant, industrious "Niemec," from a fringe of settlements along
the seacoast, silently extended westward, settling and planting
themselves everywhere solidly upon the soil; and nearly all that now
remains of the original French occupation of America, is the French
colony of Acadia, in Lower Canada.
And even there we find one of the most striking illustrations of
that intense sociability of the French which keeps them together, and
prevents their spreading over and planting themselves firmly in a new
country, as it is the instinct of the men of Teutonic race to do.
While, in Upper Canada, the colonists of English and Scotch descent
penetrate the forest and the wilderness, each settler living, it may
be, miles apart from his nearest neighbour, the Lower Canadians of
French descent continue clustered together in villages, usually
consisting of a line of houses on either side of the road, behind
which extend their long strips of farm-land, divided and subdivided to
an extreme tenuity. They willingly submit to all the inconveniences
of this method of farming for the sake of each other's society, rather
than betake themselves to the solitary backwoods, as English, Germans,
and Americans so readily do. Indeed, not only does the American
backwoodsman become accustomed to solitude, but he prefers it. And in
the Western States, when settlers come too near him, and the country
seems to become "overcrowded," he retreats before the advance of
society, and, packing up his "things" in a waggon, he sets out
cheerfully, with his wife and family, to found for himself a new home
in the Far West.
Thus the Teuton, because of his very shyness, is the true
colonizer. English, Scotch, Germans, and Americans are alike ready
to accept solitude, provided they can but establish a home and
maintain a family. Thus their comparative indifference to society has
tended to spread this race over the earth, to till and to subdue it;
while the intense social instincts of the French, though issuing in
much greater gracefulness of manner, has stood in their way as
colonizers; so that, in the countries in which they have planted
themselves--as in Algiers and elsewhere--they have remained little
more than garrisons. (16)
There are other qualities besides these, which grow out of the
comparative unsociableness of the Englishman. His shyness throws him
back upon himself, and renders him self-reliant and self- dependent.
Society not being essential to his happiness, he takes refuge in
reading, in study, in invention; or he finds pleasure in industrial
work, and becomes the best of mechanics. He does not fear to entrust
himself to the solitude of the ocean, and he becomes a fisherman, a
sailor, a discoverer. Since the early Northmen scoured the northern
seas, discovered America, and sent their fleets along the shores of
Europe and up the Mediterranean, the seamanship of the men of Teutonic
race has always been in the ascendant.
The English are inartistic for the same reason that they are
unsociable. They may make good colonists, sailors, and mechanics;
but they do not make good singers, dancers, actors, artistes, or
modistes. They neither dress well, act well, speak well, nor write
well. They want style--they want elegance. What they have to do they
do in a straightforward manner, but without grace. This was strikingly
exhibited at an International Cattle Exhibition held at Paris a few
years ago. At the close of the Exhibition, the competitors came up
with the prize animals to receive the prizes. First came a gay and
gallant Spaniard, a magnificent man, beautifully dressed, who received
a prize of the lowest class with an air and attitude that would have
become a grandee of the highest order. Then came Frenchmen and
Italians, full of grace, politeness, and CHIC--themselves elegantly
dressed, and their animals decorated to the horns with flowers and
coloured ribbons harmoniously blended. And last of all came the
exhibitor who was to receive the first prize--a slouching man,
plainly dressed, with a pair of farmer's gaiters on, and without even
a flower in his buttonhole. "Who is he?" asked the spectators. "Why,
he is the Englishman," was the reply. "The Englishman!--that the
representative of a great country!" was the general exclamation. But
it was the Englishman all over. He was sent there, not to exhibit
himself, but to show "the best beast," and he did it, carrying away
the first prize. Yet he would have been nothing the worse for the
flower in his buttonhole.
To remedy this admitted defect of grace and want of artistic taste
in the English people, a school has sprung up amongst us for the more
general diffusion of fine art. The Beautiful has now its teachers and
preachers, and by some it is almost regarded in the light of a
religion. "The Beautiful is the Good"--"The Beautiful is the
True"--"The Beautiful is the priest of the Benevolent," are among
their texts. It is believed that by the study of art the tastes of
the people may be improved; that by contemplating objects of beauty
their nature will become purified; and that by being thereby withdrawn
from sensual enjoyments, their character will be refined and elevated.
But though such culture is calculated to be elevating and
purifying in a certain degree, we must not expect too much from it.
Grace is a sweetener and embellisher of life, and as such is worthy
of cultivation. Music, painting, dancing, and the fine arts, are all
sources of pleasure; and though they may not be sensual, yet they are
sensuous, and often nothing more. The cultivation of a taste for
beauty of form or colour, of sound or attitude, has no necessary
effect upon the cultivation of the mind or the development of the
character. The contemplation of fine works of art will doubtless
improve the taste, and excite admiration; but a single noble action
done in the sight of men will more influence the mind, and stimulate
the character to imitation, than the sight of miles of statuary or
acres of pictures. For it is mind, soul, and heart--not taste or
art-- that make men great.
It is indeed doubtful whether the cultivation of art--which
usually ministers to luxury--has done so much for human progress as
is generally supposed. It is even possible that its too exclusive
culture may effeminate rather than strengthen the character, by laying
it more open to the temptations of the senses. "It is the nature of
the imaginative temperament cultivated by the arts," says Sir Henry
Taylor, "to undermine the courage, and, by abating strength of
character, to render men more easily subservient--SEQUACES, CEREOS, ET
AD MANDATA DUCTILES." (17) The gift of the artist greatly differs
from that of the thinker; his highest idea is to mould his
subject--whether it be of painting, or music, or literature--into that
perfect grace of form in which thought (it may not be of the deepest)
finds its apotheosis and immortality.
Art has usually flourished most during the decadence of nations,
when it has been hired by wealth as the minister of luxury. Exquisite
art and degrading corruption were contemporary in Greece as well as in
Rome. Phidias and Iktinos had scarcely completed the Parthenon, when
the glory of Athens had departed; Phidias died in prison; and the
Spartans set up in the city the memorials of their own triumph and of
Athenian defeat. It was the same in ancient Rome, where art was at
its greatest height when the people were in their most degraded
condition. Nero was an artist, as well as Domitian, two of the
greatest monsters of the Empire. If the "Beautiful" had been the
"Good," Commodus must have been one of the best of men. But according
to history he was one of the worst.
Again, the greatest period of modern Roman art was that in which
Pope Leo X. flourished, of whose reign it has been said, that
"profligacy and licentiousness prevailed amongst the people and
clergy, as they had done almost uncontrolled ever since the
pontificate of Alexander VI." In like manner, the period at which
art reached its highest point in the Low Countries was that which
immediately succeeded the destruction of civil and religious liberty,
and the prostration of the national life under the despotism of Spain.
If art could elevate a nation, and the contemplation of The Beautiful
were calculated to make men The Good--then Paris ought to contain a
population of the wisest and best of human beings. Rome also is a
great city of art; and yet there, the VIRTUS or valour of the ancient
Romans has characteristically degenerated into VERTU, or a taste for
knicknacks; whilst, according to recent accounts, the city itself is
inexpressibly foul. (18)
Art would sometimes even appear to have a close connection with
dirt; and it is said of Mr. Ruskin, that when searching for works of
art in Venice, his attendant in his explorations would sniff an
ill-odour, and when it was strong would say, "Now we are coming to
something very old and fine!"--meaning in art. (19) A little common
education in cleanliness, where it is wanting, would probably be much
more improving, as well as wholesome, than any amount of education in
fine art. Ruffles are all very well, but it is folly to cultivate
them to the neglect of the shirt.
Whilst, therefore, grace of manner, politeness of behaviour,
elegance of demeanour, and a